During an argument, making a point and speaking to our every thought is often our end goal. But every time we speak without thinking,

we prolong the argument, giving it the opportunity to expand into blaming, name calling, and dirt throwing. What we need to do

is set a guard over our words. Say only what is beneficial to the conversation. When you stop saying what shouldn’t be said,

you stop throwing fuel on the fire of discord. Now, make sure you communicate what you need to say; don’t harbor anger in an attempt to be nice.

Work through the conflict in a manner that will help resolve it. And always keep in mind what Perry Noble noted:

“When your volume goes up, your influence goes down.” I’m Mac Hammond, and this is the Winner’s Minute.