1 00:02:28,500 --> 00:02:35,700 -Valentina!! Nice to meet you! -Nice to meet you too! 2 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,200 - How did you meet with him? 3 00:02:40,300 --> 00:02:41,200 -Because of Tinder 4 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:44,700 -Because of Tinder?! 5 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:51,200 -It was like the second day I had Tinder and I found Ricardo, I liked his profile, and then realise he already had a like on mine 6 00:02:51,500 --> 00:02:53,000 -And what did u like about him? his pictures? -Yes, his pictures. Because he had long hair 7 00:03:01,500 --> 00:03:09,700 -And how was the fist time you guys met? -OMG it was magic, I saw him and i fell in love. -Just like that? -Yes 8 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:14,600 -I never believed about love at first sight but when I saw him I fell in love immediately 9 00:03:14,700 --> 00:03:24,400 - What did you fell in love with him? - His eyes, first his eyes, his cute face and smile -That killed you. -Yes, it killed me. 10 00:03:24,500 --> 00:03:29,300 -He said me "hello" and smiled to me 11 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:39,300 (Valentina and Ricardo were without knowing neightboors, they lived 5 minutes from each other. They were a young couple, happy and in love... 12 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:54,600 ..They enjoyed to take long walks, long conversations and listening to songs played by guitar... 13 00:03:54,700 --> 00:04:04,500 But all this started to dissapear when Ricardo started to feel weird pain in his body that he never felt before). 14 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:14,000 -When he started to get sick we had just 6 months of relation. He started to get sick and anyone knew what was wrong, they could not get the diagnosis... 15 00:04:14,100 --> 00:04:18,900 And then after 6 months, the doctors said he had a tumour. 16 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:26,800 It is a very aggressive tumour that usually appears in the brain and there is easier to trate, but he has it in the spinal cord 17 00:04:26,900 --> 00:04:35,800 And cases like his there is like 160 all around the world, so there is not cure. The chemotherapy does not work, the radiotherapy does not work 18 00:04:36,100 --> 00:04:38,400 -Just 160 cases in the world? 19 00:04:38,500 --> 00:04:45,500 -Yes, even all the information we found its all in english 20 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:50,600 -And what do the doctors say? -The doctors say he is going to die. 21 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:11,600 - Did the doctor give you any limit of time? -Yes, he said me that Ricardo will de before July of this year. 22 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,500 -Does Ricardo live with you? -Yes 23 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,500 -Why with you? Where s his family? 24 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,900 -Mmmh, long time ago Ricardo lives with me... 25 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:28,800 -But he had a terminal sickness, his family is supposed to be with him 26 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:36,600 - I think the same, but... in this case is not like that 27 00:05:37,700 --> 00:05:53,600 (Sadly, Ricardo:s family, of 23 years, does not visit him. His mother writes him infrequently and his father abandoned him when he was a child... 28 00:05:53,700 --> 00:05:58,900 today, all the economical support is payed by Valentinas parents) 29 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:06,900 -With just 6 months of relationship, or you stay with him or leave him because you are not able to handle all this... -Yes... 30 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,200 -And you stayed. -I stayed 31 00:06:09,300 --> 00:06:14,400 -Your strenght is amazing, is very inspiring to meet you... 32 00:06:14,500 --> 00:06:21,400 ... Is very inspiring to speak with you. You left everything, for love. 33 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:36,500 -Look, we are here because we want you to marry. We want to support you and be with you all this time. You called us and here we are. 34 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:56,200 -When reality breaks fiction... 35 00:06:56,300 --> 00:07:05,900 We think this kind of stories just appear in the novels or movies, but no... this is real life and here am I beside the hero 36 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:10,800 - I had to live it, and now I just have to face it... 37 00:07:10,900 --> 00:07:19,000 -Can we go to meet Ricardo? -Yes -The man that wants to marry -Yes... -Lets go then... 38 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:25,800 (Finally we will meet Ricardo, Valentinas boyfriend... 39 00:07:25,900 --> 00:07:32,900 (that sadly has a cancer at 23 years old. She warns us that Ricardo does not look like in the pictures that she sent us... 40 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:42,100 (...According to Valentina because of a bad treatment with corticosteroids Ricardos body changed drastically...) 41 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:47,000 Today he is bedridden. He lost all kind of mobility) 42 00:07:47,100 --> 00:07:57,500 -Sir! how are you? -Good and you? 43 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:59,400 -Do you want to marry? 44 00:07:59,500 --> 00:08:01,600 -Of course, since always 45 00:08:01,700 --> 00:08:11,600 -At the same moment you were happy and in love the doctors said you have cancer. What happens to you when they said that you are sick? 46 00:08:11,700 --> 00:08:16,500 -I was in shock, cuz you do not really think that it can happen to you. 47 00:08:19,300 --> 00:08:23,000 - Did you already marry in the civil way? -Yes 48 00:08:23,100 --> 00:08:32,800 (When Ricardos cancer started to grow uncntrollably, they decided to civil-marry to solidify their love. But all the dates were... 49 00:08:32,900 --> 00:08:42,000 (... already occupated. So they decided to sign up a AUC -gay marriage- because they did not know how much time did they have) 50 00:08:42,100 --> 00:08:45,600 -Why is it so important for you to marry in the church? 51 00:08:45,700 --> 00:08:49,100 -Because is something beautiful... 52 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:56,900 -I have always wanted to see me like that, with a suit, or to see her with her bride dress 53 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,400 - Is it a dream for you? -Yes. 54 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,600 -It would have been nice walking but... -laughts- 55 00:09:03,700 --> 00:09:07,600 -What happens with your body right now? -I can not move it 56 00:09:07,700 --> 00:09:12,500 -The legs, the hands... -I can move a bit the fingers 57 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,600 -If I touch you it doesnt hurt you, right? -No 58 00:09:17,700 --> 00:09:19,800 -Do you have sensivity or did you lose it? -No, I lost it 59 00:09:19,900 --> 00:09:24,700 -What are the things that you miss the most of your past life with Valentina? 60 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:34,400 -Damn... I think to walk. We used to walk a lot 61 00:09:44,300 --> 00:09:49,100 -Or to play her guitar 62 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,200 -To sing to her 63 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:15,800 -And you, what do you miss the most of the old Ricardo? 64 00:10:18,300 --> 00:10:24,600 -Something as simple as hug him... just that. 65 00:10:26,500 --> 00:10:31,100 -To hug him and that he hugs me back 66 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:55,600 -Something as simple as that. -yes 67 00:11:09,700 --> 00:11:18,900 -And its just a hug, I mean, I have him everyday here and I can not hug him because it hurts him or because he can not hug me back 68 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:30,000 -Obviously I try to show my love the best way possible, careesing him, touching his hand...but yes. 69 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,500 -Does your body hurt? 70 00:11:34,500 --> 00:11:35,500 -Yes... 71 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:44,300 -She tries to hug me, but I have to say "I can not" I can not because it hurts me 72 00:11:49,300 --> 00:11:58,600 -I can not even caress her, with my hands. I always have to ask her for it 73 00:12:13,700 --> 00:12:17,700 -I get angry, angry and sad 74 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:29,900 -How many couples are checking us right now, couples that are healthy and that dont show love to each other... 75 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:34,800 and that maybe are upsett... look how are they loosing the time 76 00:12:38,900 --> 00:12:47,300 -Hug the people you love, say to them you love them. Enjoy a hug. Because you never know when you can lose them. 77 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,200 -But here you are, with him 24/7 78 00:12:52,300 --> 00:12:53,100 -Yes 79 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:59,000 -And you guys are giving us a big love story and lection of life, and thats the important... 80 00:12:59,100 --> 00:13:08,100 and if you called us is because you want to marry, and if you tell us that you want 81 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:12,000 to wear a suit and see her with a bride dress, we are going to support you all this time 82 00:13:12,100 --> 00:13:13,000 -That is all i want 83 00:13:13,100 --> 00:13:14,200 -To marry 84 00:13:14,300 --> 00:13:15,900 -Yes 85 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,700 -And when do you want to marry? 86 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,000 -Uf, as soon as possible 87 00:13:23,100 --> 00:13:24,800 -Why? 88 00:13:24,900 --> 00:13:33,300 -Because I do not know how long I will stay here... 89 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:36,600 ..It would be a honor to marry her... 90 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,500 Just if she wants, if no 91 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:49,700 -Even thought all this situation you are living, I always see you with a smile in the face 92 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,600 -Ah, yes, always... We have to smile to the life 93 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,400 -We are still alive 94 00:13:57,500 --> 00:14:03,700 -Yes. I always say the same, "It can always get worse" 95 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:06,200 -You are right. 96 00:14:06,300 --> 00:14:08,400 -So we have to appreciate what we have... 97 00:14:08,500 --> 00:14:10,000 today I can speak 98 00:14:10,100 --> 00:14:13,000 maybe tomorrow I will not. 99 00:14:13,100 --> 00:14:16,400 So I have to enjoy all what I can 100 00:14:18,100 --> 00:14:20,200 with her... 101 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:30,900 (This story impact me very much, I can not understand how his family does not care about him... 102 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:38,200 (If it wasnt for Valentinas parents, the future of Ricardo would be even worse) 103 00:14:41,500 --> 00:14:47,200 Theres two people I want to meet in this story; they are Luis and Teresa. They are Valentinas parents 104 00:14:47,300 --> 00:14:53,400 and they destinated a lot of their time to take care of Ricardo 105 00:14:53,500 --> 00:14:56,700 They work in this shop 106 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,700 -Hello, Panchito -How are you? 107 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:08,400 -Is very hard what is happening to a couple of 22 and 23 years 108 00:15:08,500 --> 00:15:12,200 - It has being very difficult. We have seen all the process and it has being terrible, very terrible 109 00:15:13,900 --> 00:15:18,300 -To see his deterioration has being horrible, because from one day to another he couldnt walk anymore 110 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:19,900 -He barely speaks 111 00:15:21,500 --> 00:15:23,500 -What happens to your body today? 112 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:28,400 -I can not move it, I can move a bit the fingers 113 00:15:28,500 --> 00:15:30,100 -You work from monday to Saturday? 114 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:33,900 -From monday to Saturday. We have one day free in the week 115 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:41,800 The free day we use it to take Ricardo to the hospital, to be with out daughter... thats our free day. 116 00:15:41,900 --> 00:15:47,800 (Since Ricardo developed the terminal cancer the parents of Valentina received him at their home... 117 00:15:47,900 --> 00:15:52,700 (and they took care of him, not just economically, they gave him their time 118 00:15:52,800 --> 00:16:00,200 more than 2 years ago they dont have vacations because all their attention is on the love of her daughter) 119 00:16:00,300 --> 00:16:19,600 -What do you feel as parents, when you see that your daughter is fighting for her love and that doesnt run away as a lot of people do when their parthner are sick? 120 00:16:19,700 --> 00:16:24,900 -We think that we have to support her. We as a couple have to support her... 121 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:29,800 and if she chose Ricardo as a partner we can not turn the back to her 122 00:16:29,900 --> 00:16:35,100 -To me my dauhter is a brave, and to me Ricardo is a brave 123 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:44,300 -Is he like a son to you? 124 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,200 -Yes 125 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:54,200 -The love that I have for Ricardo is so big that one day I said to him: 126 00:16:54,300 --> 00:17:00,700 "Rica if I could, I would give my life...If God would say I change your life instead of Ricardos 127 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:04,800 I promisse you I would give it 128 00:17:04,900 --> 00:17:08,600 not just for him, but for my daughter. 129 00:17:13,100 --> 00:17:17,600 -Can you tell me why the hell Ricardos parents do not visit him? 130 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:25,000 -Look, I know that divine justice exist, and that everything bad we do,it come back 131 00:17:25,100 --> 00:17:29,900 I do not wish her any bad,beause I dont wish bad to anyone 132 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:35,500 bur I know that she will regret. You know why? cuz we have lived beautiful moments with Ricardo 133 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:40,700 I have videos of him singing karaoke, having great moments 134 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:45,600 (video of Ricardo before the sickness) 135 00:17:52,500 --> 00:17:55,900 -Dancing cueca (chilean dance)And she dont. 136 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:14,500 -So if all this end up in a bad way, if we end up without Ricardo, I will have all that good memories 137 00:18:21,100 --> 00:18:29,600 -I can not believe that his mother, the woman that gave him the life, is not with him in his lasts days! 138 00:18:30,900 --> 00:18:36,000 -And its not just the parents, its all the family 139 00:18:36,100 --> 00:18:38,800 noone calls him, he has a lot of uncles, a lot of cousins 140 00:18:38,900 --> 00:18:42,000 and noone, noone calls him. 141 00:18:42,500 --> 00:18:45,800 Once I heard a conversation of Ricardo and his mother and he asked her: 142 00:18:45,900 --> 00:18:55,000 "mom I can not understand that you have a son with few months of life left and you dont call me or visit me" 143 00:18:55,500 --> 00:18:57,400 I promisse you that broke my heart 144 00:19:05,700 --> 00:19:09,100 -Madam, please, dont cry. Dont cry 145 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:13,300 I want to promise you something, with all my heart 146 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,600 Dont distress you for that kind of things 147 00:19:16,300 --> 00:19:21,100 (It really hurts me to see the sadness in Valentinas mother, but this story is just starting... 148 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:25,900 (in few minutes Ill have a strong confrontation with Ricardos mother) 149 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:31,200 -I am here because I want to convince you that HE NEEDS YOU. 150 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:32,500 -My son wasnt like this before 151 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:37,800 -I am the guilty in everything, the only thing I do for Ricardo is to almost kill myself for him. 152 00:19:37,900 --> 00:19:42,500 -The reasons that you can have are not enought to dont go to visit a son that is dying. 153 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:51,400 -The only thing I say is to the people that are in ths situation right now, please dont live your sons 154 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,300 Always support your sons, always. 155 00:19:59,300 --> 00:20:05,100 (The cancer that Ricardo has is ubicated in his cervical zone, specifically in his spinal cord 156 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:12,900 upp in the neck, this is one of the cancers that does not have a cure 157 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:22,600 Everything happened really fast, and at his 23 years turned from a energic student and musician boy 158 00:20:22,700 --> 00:20:25,800 to a bedridden person 159 00:20:25,900 --> 00:20:31,900 Right now he has a terminal cancer and his doctors didnt give him more than 3 months of life 160 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:36,800 even knowning this, this young man fights everyday for his life. 161 00:20:36,900 --> 00:20:39,700 Though he does it with a strong pain in his heart. 162 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:44,600 His family is not there with him since he got the disease. 163 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,400 -How was your night? how did you feel? 164 00:20:49,500 --> 00:20:54,300 -This night was good, I have has bad days too 165 00:20:54,900 --> 00:20:59,100 -What is your point of view about your sickness? 166 00:21:00,500 --> 00:21:01,900 -That I am going to die. 167 00:21:02,700 --> 00:21:05,200 that practically I am at the last moments 168 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,400 -You can not move from the bed? 169 00:21:12,500 --> 00:21:16,300 -No, I mean, with help I can sit. 170 00:21:17,100 --> 00:21:18,000 -But you can sit. Does it hurt? 171 00:21:18,500 --> 00:21:19,300 -Yes 172 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,500 -It hurst, Where does it hurts? in the neck? 173 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:24,800 -In the neck, back. 174 00:21:26,900 --> 00:21:31,900 -In fact I can not keep my head straight. 175 00:21:34,300 --> 00:21:36,300 -Is it painful to not count with the support of your parents? 176 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:41,300 -I ask myself and I say: What happen to them? 177 00:21:45,100 --> 00:21:47,700 -Why do they do this 178 00:21:49,900 --> 00:21:52,800 -I prefer to dont think about it 179 00:21:54,500 --> 00:22:01,200 And its sad anyway cuz they are my parents... I wait a better support from their side 180 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,900 -But do they call you? Does she come here? or no? 181 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:11,000 -She calls me once... in the month 182 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:13,800 -She calls you once in the month?? 183 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:22,100 -Would you like her to be here by your side? Do you need her hug? Do you need her everyday? 184 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,800 -I miss her 185 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,800 -What would you like I do for you? please just tell me. 186 00:22:32,900 --> 00:22:35,800 -OH yes! to go out from here. 187 00:22:37,500 --> 00:22:40,600 -Even if its a short walk 188 00:22:41,900 --> 00:22:43,600 -To go out with her 189 00:22:45,700 --> 00:22:53,300 (Before the cancer, Ricardo and Valentina loved to walk outside, today their reality is very different 190 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:58,500 because of his deterioration, it has being 3 months ago Ricardo doesnt go outside 191 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:05,000 they had to move the bed from the second floor to the middle room,that is in the first floor. 192 00:23:05,100 --> 00:23:14,200 months ago Ricardo just dream with going outside...Even it its just to the park of the corner 193 00:23:14,300 --> 00:23:18,700 we will see how will we do it to make this dream true) 194 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,300 -Today is a special day because Ricardo will return to the Teleton because of his therapy 195 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:30,400 the problem is that his physical state is worse than the last time we saw him 196 00:23:31,300 --> 00:23:33,800 -Lets see what does Valentina say... 197 00:23:33,900 --> 00:23:37,600 -Darling, how are you? -Good and you? 198 00:23:39,300 --> 00:23:40,400 -How is Ricardo? 199 00:23:41,300 --> 00:23:50,600 -Soso, tired. He feels a bit bad, he is tired, but its normal. 200 00:23:51,400 --> 00:24:03,200 -We came for you today because you asked us to help you with the therapy in Teleton 201 00:24:03,300 --> 00:24:06,800 -when you brought him there it was easier because he had a better condition 202 00:24:06,900 --> 00:24:16,000 -Look, we brought this car, we are ready to help you but... 203 00:24:16,100 --> 00:24:21,800 we feel like its a bit irresponsible to bring you a car without a medical supervision. 204 00:24:24,100 --> 00:24:30,400 -The next thing we will do is to bring a doctor to your home, we will bring several specialists to check how is Ricardo 205 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:37,400 -Right now I do not know if he can use the wheelchar that we have because it doesnt hold his head. 206 00:24:38,700 --> 00:24:40,900 - But he said me he couldnt not hold his head by his own 207 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:41,500 -No... 208 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,000 -Then if this chair is not backed up 209 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,500 That chair.. . do you have it here or not? 210 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:47,700 -Yes 211 00:24:48,100 --> 00:24:49,700 -Which one is it? Can we see it? -Yes 212 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,200 -This one is it 213 00:24:53,100 --> 00:25:01,600 -But this is the classic wheelchair, this is not a wheechair that has a back where he can hold his head. 214 00:25:01,700 --> 00:25:06,500 -No, he just needed this one and he got worse and worse suddenly... then.. 215 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:13,800 -Ricardos deterioration is every time worse, few weeks ago he could hold his head by his own 216 00:25:13,900 --> 00:25:21,200 but today that is not possible. Valentina, his unconditional girlfriend, starts to realise whats is coming... 217 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:28,900 with that physical limitations the dream of going to a church to marry is almost impossible... 218 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,100 -How will we take him to a church? 219 00:25:35,700 --> 00:25:42,400 How will he try on his suit? of course we can bring the persons and the clothes to make his suit but... 220 00:25:42,500 --> 00:25:47,300 have you think about it? 221 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:57,500 -Its a dream... and when we have a dream we just want to make it true 222 00:26:02,900 --> 00:26:06,600 And I say to myself "damn, we have passed trought that many bad things that... 223 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:17,400 why not to make somethig we always wanted to, at least that the life give us the gift of 224 00:26:18,500 --> 00:26:21,400 doing something for each other 225 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:27,000 -Of loving each other -Yes. 226 00:26:27,100 --> 00:26:28,700 -Life owes you that gift 227 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:42,400 -Now, you will marry, you will wear a white dress and he will use a suit, if its nessesary we sew it to his body 228 00:26:42,500 --> 00:26:43,600 However 229 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,000 If its nessesary we build a church here, in your garden, but we will do it. 230 00:26:49,100 --> 00:26:51,100 we will have a weeding as you deserve 231 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:52,400 -Thank you 232 00:26:52,500 --> 00:26:53,300 -Really. 233 00:26:54,100 --> 00:26:57,200 -I always wanted to see me in a suit 234 00:26:57,300 --> 00:27:00,700 or see her with a white bride dress 235 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,600 -Is that a dream for you?. -Yes. 236 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:15,900 -Its time that the life give you a present. Its time life help you to be happy... If you havent give up the only thing you deserve is happiness. 237 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,900 -Thats what I always say 238 00:27:20,100 --> 00:27:22,300 -Come here... 239 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,700 -We are going to make it, I promisse 240 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:47,900 -We are at the "white house"(store)and todays trying on costumes will be very special 241 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,600 Because the groom is not here, he is at home 242 00:27:56,100 --> 00:28:00,400 -And sadly... here is waiting just the bride 243 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,400 -Hello! -Hello, Vale! 244 00:28:07,500 --> 00:28:09,100 -How are you? -Good 245 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,700 -How are you Teresa?? 246 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,000 -Good, Panchito, and you? 247 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,100 -How are you? -Good 248 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:16,300 -She is my niece and my sister in law 249 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,700 -Your niece and sister in law 250 00:28:18,300 --> 00:28:19,900 -Lets go up to check your dress? 251 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,700 -Yes! -Lets go 252 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,700 -Hello, Vale, how are you? 253 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,000 -I introduce you the bride, a precious bride. 254 00:28:31,100 --> 00:28:32,800 -Hello, Panchito. 255 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:37,700 -So check the dreeses immediately... check the dresses... 256 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,600 -Whats going on? 257 00:28:39,700 --> 00:28:42,200 -Nothing, Im just emotional 258 00:28:45,700 --> 00:28:49,000 this makes me emotional because its his dream... 259 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,300 and mine too. 260 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,000 -I am going to be there 261 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:58,200 ... to her... 262 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:05,300 -Its a dream and a hope, because for me every happy moment that Ricardo lives its a hope. 263 00:29:09,700 --> 00:29:13,400 -Are you going to help us to make her the most beautiful bride in this country? 264 00:29:13,500 --> 00:29:16,800 -Of course, all that hope we will use it here, for the dress. -lets go 265 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:24,300 -What does it feel, as a mother, being here with your daughter? 266 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:30,100 -Mixed feelings, Im happy for her because I see her happy... 267 00:29:30,500 --> 00:29:32,600 but I know what will happen and that really scares me.... 268 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:38,100 because my daughter will end up destroyed.... destroyed 269 00:29:41,900 --> 00:29:43,200 -No, please stay calm 270 00:29:43,300 --> 00:29:44,800 -Its impossible 271 00:29:44,900 --> 00:29:47,000 -No no no no 272 00:29:55,100 --> 00:29:57,900 -I know Ricardo is her happinnes 273 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:02,800 And I would be enchanted to be able to do something to change this situation... 274 00:30:03,500 --> 00:30:05,300 I promisse you I would give him my life 275 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:12,800 -I know that is very hard to you to deal with this 276 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:17,300 but you are Valentinas mother, you are the most important support to her 277 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:20,100 and in this moment the only thing we have to do is give her strength 278 00:30:22,300 --> 00:30:25,300 I want to ask you, please, that she sees you strong 279 00:30:26,100 --> 00:30:30,200 she has to see you strong, if there is tears they will be tears of happiness 280 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,200 -This moment is named "the bride in front of the mirror" 281 00:30:36,500 --> 00:30:39,200 -I will lead you with eyes covered to the mirror, ok? 282 00:30:42,100 --> 00:30:46,400 -Like thaat, stay there, stay there.... OK! 283 00:30:49,500 --> 00:30:54,700 -What are you doing today is an act of love, of pure love, of good love. 284 00:30:55,300 --> 00:30:57,900 that kind of love that we dont find too easy today 285 00:31:14,500 --> 00:31:17,100 -You look pretty!! 286 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,300 -I told you she was brave, thats why her name is Valentina 287 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,200 -Ahaaa, look! Valentina because of brave! 288 00:31:28,300 --> 00:31:32,300 -You know why? Because I was close to loose her when I was 3 months pregnant 289 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:37,600 but when she continued alive in my belly I knew it was for something important 290 00:31:37,700 --> 00:31:40,200 I knew that she had to do something very important in this life 291 00:31:40,300 --> 00:31:42,500 -It means you are a fighter since you were born 292 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,500 -Exactly! - I think so 293 00:31:47,100 --> 00:31:49,100 -You signed up the AUC(gay marriage). -Yes. 294 00:31:49,200 --> 00:32:00,100 And sadly, there is a problem, the church does not accept the AUC(gay marriage)as a valid document 295 00:32:02,100 --> 00:32:04,700 -To make a religious marriage. -No. 296 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,400 -How did you feel when in the church they said to you "No" 297 00:32:09,500 --> 00:32:14,300 -It was very shocking, because they told me they give an authorization 298 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:20,500 to some couples, but they didnt know if they would give me authorization just with the papper of the AUC(gaymarriage) 299 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,300 -And did you tell them about your situation?-Yes 300 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,300 -that your boyfriend has a terminal cancer.-Yes, I told them 301 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:30,300 -That he is going to die soon... even with that did they answer NO? - -Yes. 302 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,600 -Okay I wanna tell you something 303 00:32:32,700 --> 00:32:50,200 we talked with the ecclesiastical court, we called them and they will meet tomorrow to decide if they give the authorization, so you can marry without having a civil marriage 304 00:32:53,700 --> 00:33:03,000 -And now, I tell you. Whatever that happens, if they say no we will go on our knees to supplicate a date in the civil marriage so you can marry in teh church 305 00:33:03,100 --> 00:33:11,000 But we will make it, so you now you have to have in mind that the next week you are going to marry 306 00:33:11,100 --> 00:33:15,900 And if there is not a priest, I can dress as a priest 307 00:33:18,500 --> 00:33:21,400 and I marry you, I promise you Im even able to cut my hair here up 308 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:36,400 (As Ricardo can not go out from the house and his dream is to marry with a groom suite, my friends of the casa blanca(store) 309 00:33:36,500 --> 00:33:44,000 accepted tp bring him the different kind of suits to his home and like that he could choose the suit that he wants.) 310 00:33:44,500 --> 00:33:49,000 -How is the man? -Soso, he did not have a good morning and 311 00:33:49,100 --> 00:33:53,500 and now is a bit complicated... 312 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,500 -Why is he complicated? Does he have pain? 313 00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:00,400 -Yes, pain and desires to puke 314 00:34:00,500 --> 00:34:02,700 -Hello -How are you, dear friend?! 315 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,100 Did you cut your hair? -Yes 316 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:09,200 Its cool! You look very good! 317 00:34:10,500 --> 00:34:15,900 -I am here because you told me you had a dream, the dream of marrying. -Yes 318 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,100 -To see your bride with a white bride dress 319 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:26,300 But you did also want to look like a groom. We talked to our friends od the "casa blanca" 320 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:30,300 and they came here to show you the suits. 321 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,900 -Which one is the one you like most to try it on. -That one 322 00:34:34,300 --> 00:34:35,100 -That one -YES. 323 00:34:35,900 --> 00:34:46,200 -I understand he wants to marry but we can not commite the irresponsability to move him to a church without a medical supervision 324 00:34:46,300 --> 00:34:55,100 If he is not in the conditions. We talked to the teleton and they will come soon to evaluate Ricardos condition 325 00:34:55,200 --> 00:35:01,700 and according to what they say we will continue with our plan of marrying them in the church 326 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:06,500 -And lady? Was everything alright with the measurements? Are we ready? 327 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:07,200 -We are ready 328 00:35:07,300 --> 00:35:09,900 -Then with this suit you marry. 329 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,400 -Excellent! 330 00:35:14,100 --> 00:35:16,400 -Whatever that happens, you have to marry. 331 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:21,600 -I will do it, I am going to be there 332 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:24,300 ... to her... 333 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,000 -Always? 334 00:35:40,100 --> 00:35:42,000 -Always... 335 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:44,900 Even if I cant be in body 336 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,800 I will be always there 337 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:57,300 I want everyone to know that I love you a lot 338 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,900 -Always there to her 339 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,000 -Im very excited for the wedding 340 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,400 -I can not tell you anything, you will see her that day 341 00:36:14,500 --> 00:36:16,000 -Does she look pretty? 342 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:17,900 -She looks precious 343 00:36:21,500 --> 00:36:23,000 -Are you happy? 344 00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:25,000 -As fuck 345 00:36:25,100 --> 00:36:26,800 -Really? -YES! 346 00:36:26,900 --> 00:36:31,300 -When you see Valentina as a bride you will get happier, she looks pretty. 347 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:35,200 -OK! Lets go with all the power...-With all the power 348 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:46,600 (Valentina just want to give happiness to Ricardo and in few moments she will surprise him wit something he never imagined) 349 00:36:47,500 --> 00:36:53,300 -In that green car sits the biggest idol of Ricardo... 350 00:36:54,100 --> 00:36:56,500 -There is a friend here that wants to greet you... 351 00:37:01,100 --> 00:37:09,000 (As Ricardo has everyday less body mobility, and we felt that it wasnt sure to use the basic wheel chair that he had 352 00:37:09,100 --> 00:37:13,900 We talked to the Teleton, Ricardo was attended there some time ago 353 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:26,900 but his deterioration forced him to leave the treatment. We want that the doctors evaluate him and then we can know if he can marry in the church. 354 00:37:29,700 --> 00:37:34,600 -Doctor, Im really thankful to having you here 355 00:37:34,700 --> 00:37:48,500 -I think it was an excellent idea because we needed to evaluate, he had haven a fast development since the last time we saw him 356 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:54,900 We think is very important to take a magnetic resonance of the back and a radiography 357 00:37:55,000 --> 00:38:01,300 because the neck is one part of the body that we move a lot and we need to know how steady is it. 358 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:06,000 Any abrupt movement can be a vital risk 359 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:22,100 -That magnetic resonance will be very important because it will show how can we take him to the church, how can we transfer him... 360 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:28,300 And here he have several ways, the most important right now is your health. We will take care of it. 361 00:38:33,500 --> 00:38:44,100 (The wedding day is getting closer and Ricardos family havent even ask about it. We know that for the groom the love of his family its important, specially his moms. 362 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,700 but she is not here. Thought the anger and sorrow that Valentina feels, 363 00:38:47,900 --> 00:38:55,000 she asked us to speak with her mother-in-law to make her visit her son. 364 00:38:55,100 --> 00:39:02,600 To avoid any problem in the beggining of the conversation, I will speak with her first and Valentina will wait in our Van. 365 00:39:05,900 --> 00:39:09,900 -Nice to meet you .-Nice to meet you too 366 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:16,300 -First I want to thank you because you accept to speak with me and becase you allowed that we recorded all this conversation 367 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:24,400 I met your son and Valentina.Because they called us to make their dream come true. 368 00:39:24,500 --> 00:39:26,700 The dream of marrying 369 00:39:30,500 --> 00:39:35,100 and he told me he misses you a lot, 370 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,800 that he wanted to hug you, give you a kiss 371 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,800 -And its sad because they are your parents 372 00:39:46,900 --> 00:39:48,200 -Would you like her to be here? 373 00:39:48,900 --> 00:39:50,900 do you need her hug? 374 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,600 -Yes, I miss her a lot 375 00:39:55,700 --> 00:39:59,300 -Well, all the time I go I say to him that I love him and I kiss him 376 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:03,400 -But going to visit him once in a month or every two months doesnt work 377 00:40:04,700 --> 00:40:10,900 -So that hurts me, cause they moved so far. I do not have time because of my job. 378 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:17,000 -She is saying that we live far but when we lived here in the corner she didnt visit him either 379 00:40:17,100 --> 00:40:22,200 -But under the last 3 weeks his deterioration has grown 380 00:40:22,300 --> 00:40:24,100 -I know it 381 00:40:25,300 --> 00:40:28,000 -She doesnt know, she doesnt call or visit him. How can she know... 382 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,300 -And everyday he is getting worse. 383 00:40:31,900 --> 00:40:33,200 -I know, the doctor told me. 384 00:40:33,300 --> 00:40:37,300 -Which doctor!!? she says the doctor told her, which doctor?! 385 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:41,400 -What are you doing that you dont visit your son? 386 00:40:41,500 --> 00:40:45,100 -Because I dont feel comfortable in that house. 387 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:55,600 -She never said that she didnt like to go to our house.-She didnt tell you that?.-No 388 00:40:57,100 --> 00:41:00,600 -But is that an excuse to dont go to visit a son that is going to die? 389 00:41:00,700 --> 00:41:04,000 -No, its not an excuse. Because my duty is to be with him always. 390 00:41:04,100 --> 00:41:06,400 -And why dont you do it? what happen? 391 00:41:06,500 --> 00:41:09,300 -Everytime I go I end up really bad 392 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,400 -Because my son wasnt that sick before 393 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,900 -Do you think if your son was under your care he wouldnt be that sick? 394 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,800 -Maybe he would be bedridden, but not as big as he is. 395 00:41:23,900 --> 00:41:29,000 -I have the fault in everything, the only thing I do for Ricardo is almost killling myself to take care of him 396 00:41:29,700 --> 00:41:32,400 -But do you think that they didnt take care of him properly?..-Yes 397 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:47,100 -I talked to a lawyer and I asked him the posibility to take Ricardo with me 398 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,300 -She talked to a lawy... 399 00:41:51,700 --> 00:41:55,400 -You know what happens? 400 00:41:57,300 --> 00:42:03,100 -I feel like there is not time, to anything of that. And I ask you in the name of your son 401 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,500 -Why arent you there for him? 402 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,400 -I can not tell you 403 00:42:07,500 --> 00:42:12,500 -Ms... I know that is not my bussiness but whats going on? 404 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,700 -Whats wrong? 405 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:23,600 -I can not understand if you dont tell me 406 00:42:23,700 --> 00:42:27,500 -You wouldnt understand, even if I tell you 407 00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:33,600 -I am here today because the only thing I want is to convince you that he needs you, 408 00:42:33,700 --> 00:42:38,400 he wants you to be there in his weeding, he needs your hug 409 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:47,000 -I do not even know when or where it will be...because he invited me but he didnt say anything more than that... 410 00:42:47,100 --> 00:42:51,800 -For the same reason I am not here alone, Im with Valentina so she can invite her to the weeding 411 00:42:57,100 --> 00:42:58,100 -Whats wrong Vale? 412 00:42:58,200 --> 00:42:59,700 -Nothing, that I am really rotten 413 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,900 -Why? tell me... what happened? 414 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,900 -That I feel rotten -Why, Vale? 415 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:14,800 -For all that I heard, I can not understand that she thinks that Ricardos disease is worse because he lives with us. 416 00:43:14,900 --> 00:43:18,300 -I took him everywhere to try to trate his cancer -WHERE?- Everywhere 417 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:23,200 - We tried with alternativ medicine-THAT DIDNT WORK 418 00:43:23,300 --> 00:43:25,800 - And the immunotherapy treatment? who found it? 419 00:43:25,900 --> 00:43:26,600 -It didnt work neither 420 00:43:26,700 --> 00:43:27,900 -And why do you say it doesnt work? 421 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:28,800 -Because the doctor told me 422 00:43:28,900 --> 00:43:37,000 -But why do you have to believe in everything that the dctor say!! I will not leave Ricardo in hands of people that give up that easy 423 00:43:37,100 --> 00:43:41,000 I do not give up cause I love him, and my parents love him... 424 00:43:41,100 --> 00:43:44,900 And I dont know what is wrong with my house that you cant visit him 425 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:49,800 that are just excuses, and Ricardo doesnt deserve excuses in this moments.... he doesnt deserve them 426 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,800 -And why do you feel like is their fault that Ricardo is this sick? 427 00:43:56,900 --> 00:44:06,900 -I said a lot of times that he needed medical treatment, with a kinesiologist. But they didnt bring him to anything like that... medical 428 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:15,000 -But he wanted to stop the treatment. Why should I force him? he is already an adult 429 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,100 -Because you are his girlfriend.... 430 00:44:17,500 --> 00:44:24,900 -No, Ricardo didnt go anymore to the treatment cause he felt bad. Everything has an explanation 431 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:29,600 and if you ask to me or to Ricardo,you would understand a lot of things. 432 00:44:29,700 --> 00:44:34,200 -The answer will always be the same, Ricardo do as you say, it has being always like that. 433 00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:45,500 -I need you to say if you will go to visit him... or to the weeding 434 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:47,300 -After this I do not know 435 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,000 -What is "this"? 436 00:44:51,100 --> 00:45:03,500 -All this, I feel it as you want to make a show before to helping my son 437 00:45:07,700 --> 00:45:14,700 -If you say me that this is a show I tell you that inside this "show" that you believe. Cause I tell you right now it is not 438 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:15,900 -I dont know 439 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:42,900 -We are helping him so he can have a better life,we made him a lot f exams so we can make his life good until the end of his days. 440 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:53,900 the reasons you have are not enought and excuses to dont visit a son that is, accrding to the doctors, in his last days. 441 00:45:56,700 --> 00:46:01,800 -ok.Bye Ms Pilar. Lets go, Vale? 442 00:46:08,900 --> 00:46:19,300 -In this moment I just can think about Ricardo and how his eyes shined, saying me that the only think he wants is to see his mother. 443 00:46:20,100 --> 00:46:21,600 -I miss her 444 00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,300 -But I can not force her. 445 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:30,400 I wish she could be here to hear all this 446 00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:37,200 -I failed 447 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:49,700 We arrived in Ricardos house because we have good news about the tratment he used to have to minimize his pain 448 00:46:51,100 --> 00:46:55,600 but that sadly he couldnt continue because it was too expensive 449 00:46:58,100 --> 00:47:03,100 There is a theme that I want to speak with you because you told me some time ago 450 00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:07,200 That you started a expensive treatment 451 00:47:08,500 --> 00:47:12,400 Schearching and searching I found the immunotherapy. It was the best option 452 00:47:12,500 --> 00:47:16,600 in some countries the immunotherapy is the first therapy that people with caner receive. 453 00:47:16,700 --> 00:47:23,500 they say it gives a better quality of life and in a extremly lucky case it can even make the tumour to dissapear. 454 00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:24,500 -And that treatment is expensive? 455 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:26,400 -It costs 10,5 millions 456 00:47:26,500 --> 00:47:30,800 -And you said me you payed 4 doses, where are the another 4? 457 00:47:30,900 --> 00:47:40,500 -We can not get it if we dont pay the another debs. In general I owe 6,3 millions. 458 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:49,000 -How did you feel when you got the first half of the treatment, Ricardo? 459 00:47:49,700 --> 00:47:51,400 -Good 460 00:47:51,500 --> 00:47:52,700 -Did you get a bit better? 461 00:47:52,800 --> 00:48:06,100 -Yes. I felt good. The treatement is suppossed to be continued, but 2 weeks ago I do not vaccinate. 462 00:48:07,900 --> 00:48:14,200 -In this kind of situations is very... complicated, because 463 00:48:14,300 --> 00:48:26,900 -A sickness just show public health issue, and the importance of getting as fast as possible 464 00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,300 a law to people with cancer, 465 00:48:30,100 --> 00:48:33,700 -I mean, the patients need to have a decent quality of life. Without pain. 466 00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:39,700 Anf if you relised that that treatment really worked on him 467 00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:45,500 Then someone has to help you to pay that treatment! 468 00:48:48,300 --> 00:48:52,400 -There is two people ask me to speak to you... 469 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,300 I want to ask you if you want to see them 470 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:00,300 -Welcome! 471 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:01,500 -Good afternoon! 472 00:49:05,100 --> 00:49:08,000 -Ricardo, my friend! How are you? 473 00:49:08,100 --> 00:49:09,600 -Dr Martinez, how are you? 474 00:49:09,700 --> 00:49:11,900 -Pancho, very good, enchanted! 475 00:49:13,100 --> 00:49:15,100 -Thank you so much for beeing here... 476 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:21,700 they told me they did have the first half of the treatment 477 00:49:22,900 --> 00:49:29,200 -In the case of Ricardo that is a very particular story, they are very loved in the hospital 478 00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:43,000 we have a good new for you,in The Clinic Resel, we know that this treatment was paused because of economical issues 479 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:50,300 thats why we want to help you to get the another part of the treatment, completely free 480 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:05,100 (Undoubtedly, this gift, will be very important to Ricardo, of 23 years... 481 00:50:05,700 --> 00:50:11,200 it will help him to decrease the pain that the terminal cancer provokes) 482 00:50:12,700 --> 00:50:13,900 -Hug the doctor! 483 00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,200 -I told you we wouldnt let you alone in this... 484 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,000 -It has beeing a lot of emotions at the same time 485 00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,600 -Are you happy? This is a very good new 486 00:50:25,500 --> 00:50:26,400 -You know what, doctor? 487 00:50:26,500 --> 00:50:30,400 -From the bottom of my heart I want to thank you 488 00:50:30,500 --> 00:50:33,500 Because you came here, today... 489 00:50:33,900 --> 00:50:40,500 -Just shows how good person you are, I thank you in the name of this family 490 00:50:40,900 --> 00:50:42,200 that dont want to lose the hope 491 00:50:43,300 --> 00:50:47,300 that the nly thing they want is to fight, and even they want to marry! 492 00:50:48,300 --> 00:50:54,000 And thats the most important. If you are here, its because you care about Ricardo as well 493 00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:08,200 We have seen him suffering, and we dont want that. I thank you for making his quality of life much better! Thank you for being here... 494 00:51:10,300 --> 00:51:14,000 -Now we need to keep the hope that the things will get better 495 00:51:15,100 --> 00:51:17,000 Because thats the important. Im very glad to see you smile again 496 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,200 very glad to see yu smile again... really 497 00:51:23,700 --> 00:51:25,400 -I want to tell you something, something more! 498 00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:33,400 the treatment starts right now, cause their brought everything, the doses the implements, so you dont need to wait anymore 499 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:36,200 look what he brings here... the happy meal! 500 00:51:41,100 --> 00:51:45,000 (Without a doubt, this gift will get better Ricardos quality of life... 501 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:51,200 and will decrease the pain that his terminal cancer gives 502 00:51:52,100 --> 00:51:54,000 but the good news are not done yet! 503 00:51:54,500 --> 00:51:58,400 going out from home I received a unexpented call from the Ministry of health 504 00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,800 with who I wanted to speak hours ago 505 00:52:03,700 --> 00:52:05,700 -Hello, Pancho -Dear minister, how are you? 506 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,500 -Good...good 507 00:52:09,700 --> 00:52:15,100 -Im so glad to be able to speak with you, look I tell you, we are filming the program "against all odds" 508 00:52:16,300 --> 00:52:20,000 And threre is a very young couple, of 22 and 23 years, 509 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:26,800 The groom is 23 years old and he has a cervical cancer that is already terminal 510 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:36,000 what the doctor told us is that he needed a magnetic resonance of his back, because 511 00:52:36,100 --> 00:52:42,000 its the only thing that can show us how bad is Ricardo and how can we move it to the church 512 00:52:43,100 --> 00:52:46,500 -you need to take him with an ambulance with the needed protection for his neck 513 00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:49,300 -Please help us, please -Yes! -Ok -ok 514 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:52,800 -Thank you so much 515 00:52:53,700 --> 00:52:58,400 And if we have good news then lets go to tell them!! lets go 516 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:03,000 -I received a telefon call, so tomorrow they will send an ambulance here 517 00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,100 so you can make the resonance that you need. Finally! 518 00:53:08,100 --> 00:53:11,100 We will do the things the best way possible 519 00:53:12,300 --> 00:53:16,000 and we will leave you very happy, with the heart full of happiness 520 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:19,200 ok? -ok 521 00:53:19,300 --> 00:53:24,100 -Ok, bye. We will make it, Bye, now I leave you in peace 522 00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:32,900 (All this delicate action is to take Ricardo to the neurosurgery institute 523 00:53:34,500 --> 00:53:47,100 It will be there where they make him the magnetic resonance.After this, we will know if Ricardo can use a wheelchair or if he definitely has to stay in bed...) 524 00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:56,000 -Friend, with all the hope and energy you have... 525 00:53:56,900 --> 00:53:58,000 -The sun! 526 00:53:58,100 --> 00:53:58,900 -Does the sun hurt? 527 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:00,500 -Yes, a bit. -Ok. 528 00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:02,800 -With all the faith, you will make it 529 00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,300 -How did he feel after that exam? 530 00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:13,500 -Very tired 531 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:14,800 -Did he have a good night? 532 00:54:14,900 --> 00:54:16,300 -Yes, he had a very good one. 533 00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:28,700 -To me the most important is that after this we will know how is he and even we will know where will be the weeding. 534 00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:32,600 -You have a dream, to marry in the church 535 00:54:33,100 --> 00:54:37,200 -I dont care if it cant be in the church, we just want to make it, wherever but we will make it. 536 00:54:39,300 --> 00:54:41,300 -How are you? -good 537 00:54:41,900 --> 00:54:44,700 -hello doctor, nice to meet you! 538 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:51,000 -Okey, this exam that we made yesterday... is not good 539 00:54:52,700 --> 00:55:00,400 it shows that the tumour has being growing, and it affect specially his breath system 540 00:55:01,100 --> 00:55:05,500 and that can mean in any moment... an emergency 541 00:55:08,300 --> 00:55:14,600 -I can not force Ricardo to stay in bed if he doesnt want.- okey 542 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:18,200 -No, I mean... 543 00:55:31,900 --> 00:55:33,600 -We have done a lot 544 00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,200 -we left our life apart doing things 545 00:55:39,300 --> 00:55:41,800 we have done a lot, a lot, a lot 546 00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:48,800 It feels like we need to take a rest 547 00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,000 -Because really, now is too much. 548 00:56:06,300 --> 00:56:12,400 -if he goes away I dont know if he will leave with all the happiness that I could have given him 549 00:56:12,500 --> 00:56:13,000 -Why? 550 00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:17,600 -Because he didnt deserve this 551 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:34,200 -Thank you doctor for being here with us. I think that for Ricardo this will be very important. 552 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:37,900 -Hello Ricardo! -Hi 553 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:47,000 -Okey, first I want to ask you some questions... Do you have incredibly a lot of pain? 554 00:56:49,100 --> 00:56:51,900 And can you move you head without problem? 555 00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:57,400 -Doctor, we will leave you alone with Ricardo. Lets go. 556 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:03,300 - what did the doctor say? 557 00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:05,000 -That I can go 558 00:57:05,100 --> 00:57:07,500 -That you can go to the ceremony 559 00:57:08,700 --> 00:57:24,300 -Anyway he thought that Ricardos condition was worse. He tought that Ricard didnt eat. He saw that he could hold a bit his head, so is perfect 560 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:30,100 -Look, lets do something. Lets promiss something. Do you want? 561 00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:37,400 -They already said to us that we can go to the church. You will have a party doesnt matter what 562 00:57:37,500 --> 00:57:50,400 but the party will be close to your home, in case you feel bad you just tell us and we bring you back immediately. We will make a big celebration! Are you agree? 563 00:57:50,500 --> 00:57:51,200 -Something is missing... -What? 564 00:57:51,300 --> 00:57:52,400 -A barbecued! 565 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:06,500 -What would you like to say to your girlfriend, that the only thing she is doing is giving you happiness and love?? 566 00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:08,200 -That thank you for everything 567 00:58:11,100 --> 00:58:11,800 -I love you 568 00:58:11,900 --> 00:58:13,100 -I love you too, a lot 569 00:58:18,900 --> 00:58:23,000 -Now I have everything to make my dream come true 570 00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:26,600 ...and her dream too. Our dream 571 00:58:34,300 --> 00:58:45,000 (When we met Valentina she told us that her target in this life is to make her boyfriend happy, He at his 23 years, has a terminal cancer... 572 00:58:47,300 --> 00:58:54,600 when we heard her story we couldnt do more than help her. In few minutes the biggest idol of Ricardo will visit him 573 00:58:55,300 --> 00:59:00,500 -In that green car, there, sits the biggest idol of Ricardo... 574 00:59:01,900 --> 00:59:06,800 thats why we are here today, because we just want to make him happy. 575 00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:11,000 -Dear Vale, here is his biggest idol... 576 00:59:11,700 --> 00:59:12,400 -Esteban Paredes 577 00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,600 -Thank you so much my friend!! -How are you? 578 00:59:16,700 --> 00:59:18,500 -I want to introduce you Valentina 579 00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:20,700 -Hello! -How are you? -Good and you?- Good 580 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,200 -The girlfriend and future wife of Ricardo... 581 00:59:23,300 --> 00:59:24,200 -OMG Im excited! 582 00:59:25,500 --> 00:59:33,000 For us is very important to have you here, this has being a very hard fight and this surprise will be like a gift from heaven. lets go 583 00:59:34,300 --> 00:59:36,900 -I was thinking about... How can I make you happy? 584 00:59:37,500 --> 00:59:38,800 Which team do you like? 585 00:59:41,100 --> 00:59:42,000 -Colo colo 586 00:59:42,100 --> 00:59:43,800 -Colo colo... me too 587 00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:45,900 -Who is Chile? -Colo colo 588 00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:47,500 -Who is colo colo? -Chile 589 00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,800 -Theres noone as Colo colo.- Alright! 590 00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,600 -There is a friend that wants to greet you 591 00:59:57,700 --> 01:00:08,700 -I want that the same force you use to support Colo Colo you use it to fight against this cancer. 592 01:00:09,500 --> 01:00:11,200 -Who is here?? 593 01:00:13,500 --> 01:00:15,600 -Sr Esteban Paredes 594 01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:21,000 -How are you? -Good and you? 595 01:00:24,700 --> 01:00:25,900 -Look! -Its cool! 596 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:28,900 -So now Im going to sign it up 597 01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,200 -Here I have a pen .-Here is the pen 598 01:00:31,300 --> 01:00:32,100 -Sit there 599 01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:34,100 -But the pencil is BLUE! 600 01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,200 -If I fucked up the moment sorry 601 01:00:40,100 --> 01:00:43,100 Does someone have a black pen?? -Here, here. 602 01:00:47,900 --> 01:00:48,400 -So there you have 603 01:00:53,900 --> 01:00:56,000 -What do you think, Rica? 604 01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,000 So here it is "To Ricardo, with love" 605 01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:00,900 -Thank you so much! 606 01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:09,400 -The same battle we fight in a football match he has to fight it t the cancer, right? 607 01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:12,100 -Of course, we have to fight till the end, till the end. 608 01:01:12,900 --> 01:01:19,800 -You are a Colo-colo fan and we are fighters. Yo have to fight till the end, my friend. 609 01:01:20,500 --> 01:01:22,800 -The match is not lost until they give the last whistle 610 01:01:22,900 --> 01:01:24,300 -Exactly! till the last whistle... 611 01:01:28,300 --> 01:01:29,800 -Do I take you a picture?-ok 612 01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:32,600 -Vale, stand there beside them.- My friends are going to kill me 613 01:01:34,500 --> 01:01:35,700 -Hey! Which team does Vale like?? 614 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:36,500 -Ask her... 615 01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:37,600 -She doesnt want to tell me. 616 01:01:37,700 --> 01:01:41,400 -I can not say it, i can not say it.... ok im going to get closer... 617 01:01:50,800 --> 01:02:03,500 -Tomorrow is the marriage and finally Ricardo can go to a church to marry, but to make it we need something important. 618 01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:13,900 a neurologic wheelchair that our friends from Teleton gave us. They helped us to make Ricardos life better and happier... 619 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:20,100 This is the chair. -this is the chair, we have to set it but we will do it inside. 620 01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:24,000 -So this chair has something that can hld his head. -Exactly 621 01:02:24,700 --> 01:02:30,800 The advantage of this chair is that it allows recline.- WOW 622 01:02:31,300 --> 01:02:34,200 -So I will go inside first, and after I introduce you... 623 01:02:36,700 --> 01:02:39,100 -How are you? .-Nervous 624 01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,500 -Why so nervous? 625 01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:44,000 -The day is getting closer... 626 01:02:44,100 --> 01:02:50,200 -The most important day in your life, the day you will take the big step. 627 01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:56,200 Today you have the authorization of the doctor to go to the church. -Oh yes! 628 01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:01,600 And I told you that we would take care of you under all this time 629 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:04,900 And today I am not alone here... 630 01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:18,500 today I am here with my friends from Teleton to introduce you a new friend. One friend that will be with you in all this process 631 01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:22,000 That will help you even to marry 632 01:03:23,700 --> 01:03:29,100 look at this chair, this is a neurolgic chair that can recline. 633 01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:36,100 I want to introduce you to David, he is therapist.She is Valentina, Ricardo. 634 01:03:37,500 --> 01:03:40,500 -And how will you name it? -Nimbus!! 635 01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:49,900 (I was really happy to see how this couple of boyfriends received the chair that will make his life a bit easier... 636 01:03:51,100 --> 01:04:06,200 but we dont want to wait to try it. The groom had the desire to go out from the house and go to the park, the same park where he used to date Valentina. Because of his disease, he didnt visit that park more than one year ago 637 01:04:06,300 --> 01:04:11,300 -How is his press? -Excelent! 100% excelent 638 01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:17,900 -So can he use the chair? -Yes -You told me something, that yu wanted to go out from the house. 639 01:04:18,300 --> 01:04:21,200 -What can I do for you? tell me, please, tell me 640 01:04:21,700 --> 01:04:25,800 -To go out from here... even if its just a short walk 641 01:04:25,900 --> 01:04:27,800 ...go out with her... 642 01:04:30,100 --> 01:04:40,600 -and if yur health allows it, we can go out to the park. Do you like the idea? Ok! Lets go! 643 01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:54,500 -Look! 644 01:05:04,100 --> 01:05:07,500 -Feel the sun, feel the wind in your face 645 01:05:15,100 --> 01:05:18,500 -Look, bae, they are our neighbors -They are the neighbors, meet them! 646 01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:45,400 -What does it feel to see again a tree, the gras, the leaves that moves with the wind... What does it mean to you?- 647 01:05:49,700 --> 01:05:54,000 -A lot of feelings... in this moment I have a lot of feelings 648 01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:57,000 but the best is... 649 01:05:57,100 --> 01:05:59,500 to go out with her again 650 01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,400 to take a walk here... 651 01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:09,300 I havent cried, cuz I held it 652 01:06:11,500 --> 01:06:13,200 -Why does it make you sad? 653 01:06:14,500 --> 01:06:16,100 -For her... 654 01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:21,000 for being with her... 655 01:06:21,100 --> 01:06:23,400 because its something we wanted long time ago 656 01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:31,600 -Thank you 657 01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:34,000 thank you for everyhting... 658 01:06:35,100 --> 01:06:41,400 -Thanks to you, for giving us this love story 659 01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:43,000 -Can you hold my hand? 660 01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:52,600 -Thank you... really 661 01:06:54,500 --> 01:07:02,600 -Please dont thank me, we are going to be here. You can not imagine the lection of live you are giving us... 662 01:07:03,500 --> 01:07:07,500 Its all about that, its all about to dont lose the hope 663 01:07:08,100 --> 01:07:14,000 this is pure love... this is true love. Thank you for letting us be here. 664 01:07:14,100 --> 01:07:21,100 really, thank you for letting us go in into your life. Can I hug you or does it hurt? 665 01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:35,000 -Look there... 666 01:07:35,900 --> 01:07:38,000 Do you see the field over there? -Yes 667 01:07:38,500 --> 01:07:41,100 -Do you see they are building something there? -Yes 668 01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:47,100 We are building everything because your wedding celebration is going to be here! 669 01:07:47,900 --> 01:07:50,600 Beside your house!! 670 01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:54,200 we brought the best workers! 671 01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:56,900 -Sr Hector... 672 01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:01,100 Its amazing!! 673 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:09,300 its so bautiful when all the souls work together. Really, I want to thank everyone for their job 674 01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:15,200 I want to thank all this you are doing, because... 675 01:08:15,300 --> 01:08:21,200 sincerely, you are helping a person to make his dream come true 676 01:08:21,300 --> 01:08:24,200 his last wish is to marry the woman he loves 677 01:08:24,300 --> 01:08:32,000 Fixing this place to the marriage will make possible to celebrate his wedding! 678 01:08:32,100 --> 01:08:39,700 -Our mission is that... to help people, to do something nice 679 01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:42,800 -I came to say thank you because the groom is there 680 01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:46,500 -Everything good that you do, we can help on it 681 01:08:46,600 --> 01:09:04,500 -Thank you so much, good luck with everything. Tomorrow is finally the wedding, thank you. 682 01:09:06,100 --> 01:09:12,100 -Ricardo, the importance of your parents-in-law is very fundamental, right? 683 01:09:13,100 --> 01:09:24,800 -They have been my second family. And its hard because in my condition I dont know how to thank them 684 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:27,800 -You would like to thank them but you dont know how... 685 01:09:29,900 --> 01:09:32,400 -Do you want me to help you? -Yes 686 01:09:32,500 --> 01:09:33,800 -I will help you 687 01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:41,200 tomorrow ill tell you... okey, lets go home? -OK 688 01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:52,900 -When we were over there, in his home was happening something...a change, that im sure it will change his life...and his sleep 689 01:09:55,100 --> 01:09:56,000 -Be careful here... 690 01:09:56,400 --> 01:10:03,300 -There is a song that says "life gives you surprises, surprises give you life" 691 01:10:04,300 --> 01:10:11,100 because... while we were at the park, some friends came here 692 01:10:11,700 --> 01:10:12,900 and look 693 01:10:22,500 --> 01:10:24,000 -New bed! 694 01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:33,200 this is a clinical bed anti bedsores mattress specially for you 695 01:10:33,300 --> 01:10:44,100 so you can be comfortable and sleep good. You willl have a better quality of life 696 01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:50,900 -What do you think, Rica? 697 01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:57,800 -Im shocked...and emotional 698 01:10:58,500 --> 01:11:00,100 -We told you when we met for the first time... 699 01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,800 we will just give you good news 700 01:11:04,900 --> 01:11:06,500 -Thank you so much 701 01:11:11,100 --> 01:11:22,100 Well all this is made by Christian, owner of drcare.cl, thank you for this bed. Are you here Christian? 702 01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,000 -How are you Ricardo? good? 703 01:11:28,200 --> 01:11:44,900 the idea of this is that you get a better rest, a better life, and this bed will help you to avoid bedsores and sleep better under this time. 704 01:11:45,500 --> 01:11:47,000 -Christian, thank you a lot! -You are welcome 705 01:11:47,500 --> 01:11:50,500 -The life of Ricardo will change after this, so... 706 01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:59,400 -We hope this help you and I wish you a beautiful and happy marriage.... enjoy this period 707 01:12:03,100 --> 01:12:05,800 -Ok... see you tomorrow -See you tomorrow 708 01:12:24,900 --> 01:12:32,400 -Today, Ricardo and Valentina finally will live their dream... they are going to marry 709 01:12:32,500 --> 01:12:37,300 look, we brought the party to this field because is close to their home 710 01:12:39,700 --> 01:12:41,500 -You are Sandra Gonzalez. -I am Sandra Gonzalez 711 01:12:42,700 --> 01:12:48,700 -Nice to meet you, wanted to see you to thank you for all this -You are welcome 712 01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:57,400 -Thank you because you moved all the party to this place very fast! 713 01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:12,900 -I mean, all the disposition, the energy, to cook in a football field is not easy... so thank you, cause you reacted and helped us -No, thanks to you, Panchito, thanks 714 01:13:21,900 --> 01:13:25,400 -Again? You dont let me work in peace? 715 01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:28,900 -YOU are the one that dont let me... 716 01:13:31,300 --> 01:13:36,300 -If there is fest, if there is food and weeding... there is him. 717 01:13:39,300 --> 01:13:48,700 -This is a bathroom specially for Ricardo. He can go up with his wheelchair and use it. 718 01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:57,500 here it is, we worried about everything. There is bathrooms for the quests and for Ricardo... 719 01:13:57,600 --> 01:14:06,000 and even we called the police to protect all this celebration, for 100% security 720 01:14:06,100 --> 01:14:08,100 -How are you? thank you for coming! 721 01:14:11,900 --> 01:14:21,100 We already told to Ricardo, that we will protect him from everything. So he can go to the church without problems 722 01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:26,000 thats why our friends will be with us all this time 723 01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:39,500 -This looks like a house inside. So here will go, the bride, the groom and me 724 01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:51,100 -I just tell you madams that today it will be a bit loudly because we wlll celebrate the wedding... no problem? -No problem 725 01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:59,200 Such a beautiful day, its sunny, its warm. Lets go in. 726 01:14:59,900 --> 01:15:03,900 -Mate! Are you ready? 727 01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:06,600 -How are you, good? -Yes, nervous. 728 01:15:06,700 --> 01:15:20,900 -Are you nervous? because this day means a lot. Now I have to go to see Valentina. She doesnt know how are you doing to dress Ricardo 729 01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:27,700 -Excuse me, the bride! how are you? 730 01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:29,100 -Good and you? -good 731 01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:34,000 -Hello how are you?... BellasShop, this is like the beauty Uber 732 01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:39,400 -How are you, dear? -Calmed but excited 733 01:15:39,500 --> 01:15:41,200 -What did you know about his mother?? 734 01:15:41,300 --> 01:15:53,200 -Nothing, I sent her the time and place for whatsapp but she didnt answer me, maybe she read it, i dont know. 735 01:15:53,300 --> 01:15:54,800 -But she didnt left you "seen"? -No 736 01:15:55,400 --> 01:16:02,000 -So we dont know if she is coming... -I hope she does cuz it would be sad if we doesnt. 737 01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:06,900 -I need you to tell me if you will go to the weeding... 738 01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:12,700 -After "this" i dont know. I feel it as a show more than desires to help my son. 739 01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:22,900 -I hope that in this few minutes that we have before the marriage she appears... if no, she missed it. 740 01:16:25,100 --> 01:16:27,600 -I want to tell you something -What. -Look! 741 01:16:29,300 --> 01:16:33,600 "Hi, love. Im okey, calm down 742 01:16:33,700 --> 01:16:34,900 I dont die yet 743 01:16:41,100 --> 01:16:43,900 I hope everything goes well in this day -my life- 744 01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:46,600 I love you a lot. -My life 745 01:16:50,100 --> 01:16:56,100 -I love him a lot too. Everything I do, I do it for him and for us and for a future together. 746 01:16:57,700 --> 01:17:06,100 -I leave you now, so you can put your dress on and I go to see the groom. Maybe they need me over there.. okey? -ok -bye 747 01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:16,100 (Because of his terminal cancer Ricardo can not move his body. Even thought his family didnt want to be with him today... 748 01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:29,200 There are Valentinas parents, they helped him to dress and they worried about every detail so Ricardo can make his dream come true.) 749 01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:35,300 -I can not relax, son. How can I relax? I need to make you look perfect. 750 01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:37,300 -I look like a pimp! 751 01:17:57,500 --> 01:18:02,400 -We are ready...-ok- Do I go for him? -YES!-Lets go! 752 01:18:03,300 --> 01:18:07,800 -Ok, lets see... such a handsome groom!! Very good 753 01:18:09,900 --> 01:18:19,300 -Your bride is beautiful. I showed her your video and she asked me to tell you that She loves you a lot and that everything she does she does it for you 754 01:18:26,700 --> 01:18:28,900 -And when do you want to marry? 755 01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:31,200 -Uff.. as soon as possible 756 01:18:31,300 --> 01:18:32,400 -Why? 757 01:18:33,900 --> 01:18:36,300 -I dont know how long Ill stay here... 758 01:18:37,500 --> 01:18:39,300 I have to enjoy the time 759 01:18:40,100 --> 01:18:41,800 -Ok! the groom is going to marry! 760 01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:55,100 -We are going to be with you in all this process, we are not going to leave you alone. We will do the marriage as you desire... as you dream 761 01:19:02,500 --> 01:19:12,100 -Now I need to go to see the bride. You go with him. You dont go with your daugther, but you go with your son... 762 01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:22,300 everything is okey? ok, See you at the church. Any message to her? 763 01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:26,000 -That I love her.-Ok, Ill tell her. 764 01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:37,200 -Im nervous, very nervous 765 01:19:45,400 --> 01:19:47,000 - Excuse me, ill meet the bride 766 01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:49,900 -How are you? 767 01:19:51,100 --> 01:20:04,500 -To be here seemed almost impossible. A disease can not stop you, we are fighting against everything and we dont give up... 768 01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:08,100 And here we are... one step closer -One step closer... 769 01:20:18,300 --> 01:20:34,500 As the youg couple didnt have the paper of the civil marriage, they got an authorization to could marry... that authorization paper will bring a lot of problems in the future... 770 01:20:45,300 --> 01:20:49,300 -Well, we are here at the church and we will talk to the priest, to check is everything is okey. 771 01:20:49,400 --> 01:20:55,300 -Where is the priest? Aha there you are, I didnt see you -How are you? -good. 772 01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:58,600 [CROSSTALK] 773 01:21:01,100 --> 01:21:07,200 -There is the ambulance with the groom,there is the bride... Everything is ok? 774 01:21:07,300 --> 01:21:09,500 -No, the authorization is missing. 775 01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:43,700 SOON (trailer) 776 01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:04,600 -No, the authorization is missing 777 01:22:04,700 --> 01:22:07,300 the authorization for the marriage. 778 01:22:12,900 --> 01:22:16,800 -You didnt bring the authorization -Yes! -No, who did? 779 01:22:16,900 --> 01:22:18,900 -Valentina has to have it 780 01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:23,300 -He says that Valentina has it. -No, they didnt give me anything. 781 01:22:26,700 --> 01:22:28,900 -Where is the authorization? 782 01:22:29,100 --> 01:22:30,500 -Didntt she give it to you? 783 01:22:31,000 --> 01:22:37,100 -I saw it but home... -No, she had to give it to you 784 01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:40,000 -Who has the keys of the house? -My father 785 01:22:40,100 --> 01:22:44,000 -The priest said me that without that authorization you can not marry 786 01:22:47,500 --> 01:22:49,600 -Did they know that they needed the authorization? 787 01:22:49,700 --> 01:22:55,800 -I said it a lot of times. The papper, I need the papper -did you say to them? -YES 788 01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:59,300 -There are all the documents that we need 789 01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:05,100 -Priest... How do we do it? We need to start soon. 790 01:23:06,500 --> 01:23:10,700 -Can someone bring it after? meanwhile the ceremony is happenning? 791 01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:14,700 -But I need to see it 792 01:23:18,100 --> 01:23:24,400 -I can not start the ceremony if I dont have the papper 793 01:23:25,900 --> 01:23:32,900 -But priest. the papper exist. I promisse -You are swearing in front of everyone -I swear, we have the papper 794 01:23:33,000 --> 01:23:36,800 -Right now one collega goes for the papper and we will bring it here before the ceremony is over. 795 01:23:36,900 --> 01:23:39,100 -Please, as soon as possible. 796 01:23:39,200 --> 01:23:41,600 -Now I need to speak to the brides mother. 797 01:23:41,900 --> 01:23:46,500 -We are going to send a collega with the keys of your house to bring the authorization, ok? -ok. 798 01:23:46,600 --> 01:23:49,800 -Caludio!! go for it! hurry up! 799 01:23:51,500 --> 01:24:02,300 (Luckly the priest Adrian accepted to start the ceremony meanwhile we went for the papper that the family forgot... 800 01:24:02,400 --> 01:24:08,600 Ricardos health is delicated, and the doctors recomended to dont make him wait a lot.) 801 01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:18,400 -Can we bring him to the shadow? 802 01:24:19,800 --> 01:24:23,500 -Thank you. Thank you, friend. You see? Every one here helps... 803 01:24:29,200 --> 01:24:31,100 -Do you want the up part of the suit? -Yes. 804 01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:32,400 -ok! lets go! 805 01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:43,600 -Your mother-in-law will go with you 806 01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:50,800 -The groom is ready to marry! 807 01:25:04,700 --> 01:25:06,100 -Do you want to marry? 808 01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:09,000 -Yes.... since always 809 01:25:11,400 --> 01:25:15,500 -The day you waited is here... 810 01:25:19,900 --> 01:25:22,500 -Why is it important to you to marry in the church? 811 01:25:23,500 --> 01:25:26,700 -Because is something... beautiful 812 01:25:28,500 --> 01:25:35,000 -Now soon, you will see your bride go in... your wife 813 01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:55,200 -dont cry... 814 01:26:10,800 --> 01:26:14,200 -I always wanted me to wear a suit 815 01:26:16,300 --> 01:26:19,100 ...or to see her with her bride dress 816 01:26:31,200 --> 01:26:34,200 -I didnt believe in love at first sight, but when I saw him I fell in love... 817 01:26:49,000 --> 01:26:51,400 -What did you make fall in love with him? 818 01:26:51,500 --> 01:27:01,900 -First his eyes, his ilussional face...and his smile, that killed me. He said me "hi" and he had a smile in the face 819 01:27:07,300 --> 01:27:08,900 -And when do you want to marry? 820 01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:13,300 -As soon as possible, I dont know how long will I stay. 821 01:27:30,600 --> 01:27:32,100 -Velentina, do you want to be my wife? 822 01:27:35,100 --> 01:27:38,300 -Yes, I do. And you, Ricardo, do you wanna be my husband? 823 01:27:38,600 --> 01:27:52,700 -Yes, I want, Valentina, and I receive you as a husband and I give myself to you, to love you faithfully for the rest of our life 824 01:27:54,200 --> 01:27:56,500 -There is a lot of feelings in this moment 825 01:28:10,800 --> 01:28:20,400 Valentina,receive this ring in signal of my love and faithfulness to you in the name of the father, of the son and of the holy spirit. 826 01:28:23,800 --> 01:28:25,100 -I have never done this 827 01:28:28,600 --> 01:28:30,900 -but I give permission 828 01:28:33,900 --> 01:28:36,000 -In any moment Ricardo lose the sense of humor. 829 01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:43,200 -Ricardo,receive this ring in signal of my love and faithfulness to you in the name of the father, of the son and of the holy spirit 830 01:28:48,600 --> 01:29:00,500 (During the ceremony, a collega went to the brides house to take the authorization we needed. In that way, we kept the promise wit the priest) 831 01:29:00,600 --> 01:29:06,700 -We have the papper. Now the marriage can continue. 832 01:29:09,900 --> 01:29:23,400 -We knew that this moment would be emotional. Is very important that he is here with us, and you too... that are the family that he choosed. 833 01:29:26,100 --> 01:29:28,800 -Now you can kiss... congratulations 834 01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:46,400 -I saw him and I feel in love. I never believed in love at first sight, but I saw him and I fell in love. 835 01:29:47,900 --> 01:29:51,000 -When I saw her it was like... I have to marry her! 836 01:30:31,800 --> 01:30:34,000 -Cuz I want everyone to know that I love you a lot 837 01:30:51,500 --> 01:30:53,600 -Now you are alredy married.-Yes! -Are you happy? 838 01:30:53,700 --> 01:30:54,600 -Very happy! 839 01:30:54,700 --> 01:30:56,800 -Is the most important day of your life? 840 01:30:56,900 --> 01:31:00,900 -Yes, the most happy, important, the most everything! 841 01:31:15,500 --> 01:31:19,300 -What do you feel after living this moment? What does it mean for you? 842 01:31:19,400 --> 01:31:20,900 -Happiness 843 01:31:23,800 --> 01:31:25,800 -Did your dream come true? 844 01:31:25,900 --> 01:31:27,200 -Completely, completely 845 01:31:29,200 --> 01:31:37,200 -I always dream with that, me wearing a suit or she wearing a bride dress... -Is that a dream for you?- yes. 846 01:31:39,400 --> 01:31:47,700 -This is just the beggining, since today you guys hold hands to start a life together... a life in that, I hope, you never separate... 847 01:31:48,900 --> 01:31:53,300 -I have the confidence and conviction that no. 848 01:31:54,200 --> 01:31:59,500 -Ok, lets go. Cause now is coming... the party! 849 01:32:05,200 --> 01:32:13,500 -I want you to applaud them because they are brave, they are a couple that doesnt give up! 850 01:32:26,900 --> 01:32:31,700 -How did you feel the moment when you saw her going into the church? 851 01:32:35,800 --> 01:32:36,400 -We died. 852 01:32:40,000 --> 01:32:43,700 -The marriage is over 853 01:32:55,100 --> 01:32:57,500 -Here we are with the "just married"! 854 01:32:57,600 --> 01:32:59,500 -Here is the wife!! 855 01:33:05,300 --> 01:33:10,400 And here is the husband... Ricardo! 856 01:33:17,800 --> 01:33:30,400 -I wanted to tell you something... Everytime I see Ricardo under all this days, he always ask me "hey , when are we going to eat a barbecue?" 857 01:33:30,900 --> 01:33:37,400 -Always! thats why I talked to my friends of Unimarc and the first gift, today, is... 858 01:33:37,500 --> 01:33:45,000 A giftcard to buy everything that you need during all this time! 859 01:33:45,100 --> 01:33:47,400 -Thank you very much 860 01:33:49,800 --> 01:33:52,000 -A barbecue? -A barbecue!! 861 01:33:53,600 --> 01:33:57,300 -You talked me about a very special song for you... 862 01:33:57,400 --> 01:34:04,800 and that Ricardo usually sang it to Valentina... and to his mother-in-law as well 863 01:34:06,300 --> 01:34:11,300 -And there is a friend that is here to give you a surprise! 864 01:34:11,400 --> 01:34:16,200 (TrAILER) 865 01:35:02,500 --> 01:35:06,600 Welcome, Nicolas Alamos! 866 01:35:11,900 --> 01:35:13,400 -I am going to cry 867 01:35:24,100 --> 01:35:25,400 I love you 868 01:35:32,500 --> 01:35:33,900 -Do you want to dance? 869 01:35:34,000 --> 01:35:35,200 -How are we going to dance? 870 01:35:35,300 --> 01:35:36,700 -Dancing... 871 01:35:45,700 --> 01:35:47,000 -Thank you 872 01:35:47,100 --> 01:35:48,600 -You are welcome, my love 873 01:36:55,600 --> 01:36:57,000 -Congratulations! 874 01:36:59,000 --> 01:37:06,100 (Finally, Ricardos family didnt come to the weeding. Ricardo never lost the hope, but they didnt come... 875 01:37:06,200 --> 01:37:16,000 the ones that were always there were the parents of his wife. And to thank them, Ricardo asked me for something very special) 876 01:37:17,300 --> 01:37:19,400 -Ricardo asked me for a special favor... 877 01:37:20,500 --> 01:37:22,900 that is about his parents-in-law 878 01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:36,700 Ricardo... is very thankful, and he told me that he wanted to give you something, to give you back all that love and time you gave him 879 01:37:36,800 --> 01:37:39,200 -The importance of you parents-in-law is fundamental, right? 880 01:37:40,600 --> 01:37:51,600 -Yes, they are my second family. And its sad because in my situation is very hard to thank them somehow... 881 01:37:52,800 --> 01:37:58,100 -Thats why "Enjoy" the biggest hotel chain of Chile 882 01:37:58,200 --> 01:37:59,700 -I am going to pass out! 883 01:37:59,800 --> 01:38:07,700 wants to invite you to the city of Coquimbo... completely free!! 884 01:38:19,100 --> 01:38:22,600 -And its all Ricardos gift!! Ricardo invites! 885 01:38:22,700 --> 01:38:23,800 -You are welcome, you are welcome! 886 01:38:24,900 --> 01:38:32,100 -All my admiration, my respect and love to this beautiful family 887 01:38:32,200 --> 01:38:39,300 because you were brave to love each other to dont give up... 888 01:38:39,400 --> 01:38:46,200 they say family is people we are chosing trough the life... 889 01:38:46,600 --> 01:38:48,800 And here are the ones you chosed... your family 890 01:38:50,400 --> 01:38:52,000 and I want to wish you the best! 891 01:38:53,400 --> 01:38:58,000 -I want to ask to Nicolas Alamos to sing the main song of our program "contra viento y marea" 892 01:38:58,100 --> 01:39:01,600 -Perfect, and everyone sings along! 893 01:39:25,700 --> 01:39:31,000 It was like in a movie, when you said, she has to be with me 894 01:39:31,500 --> 01:39:33,200 I have to marry her 895 01:39:33,300 --> 01:39:36,200 -He made me believe in love at first sight. 896 01:39:41,000 --> 01:39:44,600 When I saw he it was like... I have to marry her. 897 01:40:12,700 --> 01:40:14,400 -We are always going to fight 898 01:40:16,100 --> 01:40:17,800 We are not going to give up 899 01:40:17,900 --> 01:40:19,100 -Till the end! 900 01:40:20,900 --> 01:40:22,600 -I love you so much 901 01:40:23,100 --> 01:40:24,500 thank you so much for everything, really 902 01:40:24,600 --> 01:40:26,300 -Stay, stay with me! 903 01:40:26,400 --> 01:40:27,100 -All my life 904 01:40:27,200 --> 01:40:28,300 -Forever! 905 01:40:41,100 --> 01:40:43,100 (One month after the marriage 906 01:40:43,200 --> 01:40:46,200 Valentinas worst nightmare become a true 907 01:40:46,300 --> 01:40:50,700 Ricardo, her big love, the boyfriend of her live... 908 01:40:51,000 --> 01:40:53,200 passed away. 909 01:40:54,000 --> 01:41:00,800 -It has beeing 1 month after Ricardos death, we have been with Valentina without cameras, supporting her trought this hard period 910 01:41:00,900 --> 01:41:04,300 And after that month, we decided to meet here 911 01:41:04,400 --> 01:41:11,700 In this park, that is very simbolic, because here we met for the first time... and here she used to date with Ricardo 912 01:41:12,900 --> 01:41:14,300 -My darling 913 01:41:14,400 --> 01:41:17,500 -How are you, Vale? after this month? 914 01:41:18,400 --> 01:41:20,600 -It has being a very hard month 915 01:41:20,700 --> 01:41:23,200 I dont know, its terrible because... 916 01:41:23,300 --> 01:41:29,500 instead of feeling that... the days go by and I love him less.. 917 01:41:29,600 --> 01:41:31,900 Is exactly the otherwise. 918 01:41:46,200 --> 01:41:53,000 -You never tought about death.- no- Your attitud was always like "he will live", "I believe in miracles" ... 919 01:41:53,900 --> 01:41:59,900 -Yes, and I dont regret because if I hadnt done it like that, our last times together would have been worse. 920 01:42:00,400 --> 01:42:07,300 -You knwo what? When we were recording alone with ricardo he decided to leave you a message 921 01:42:09,100 --> 01:42:11,200 -And some words to you mother as well... 922 01:42:12,700 --> 01:42:14,000 -Do you want to see it? 923 01:42:15,000 --> 01:42:17,800 -Ricardo always had surprises... look 924 01:42:21,400 --> 01:42:28,100 -To my parents-in-law I thank them...everyday, for everything they do 925 01:42:29,400 --> 01:42:30,600 they rock! 926 01:42:36,000 --> 01:42:40,600 I am very lucky ... for being with someone like this 927 01:42:41,000 --> 01:42:45,200 I think that everyone wants to have a woman as Vale 928 01:42:46,600 --> 01:42:54,700 I would like her to continue with her life, she loves to swim... i dont know 929 01:42:55,400 --> 01:42:57,300 or to ride horses... 930 01:42:57,400 --> 01:43:01,200 cuz she love it, much much much 931 01:43:04,400 --> 01:43:09,200 What you hate the most is that people thank you 932 01:43:09,900 --> 01:43:14,800 but... I can not say anything more than thank you... 933 01:43:16,300 --> 01:43:18,900 and that I love as fuck 934 01:43:34,100 --> 01:43:36,700 You are the best that ever happened to me 935 01:43:53,600 --> 01:43:56,200 I know that the best present for him is to see me okey, 936 01:43:56,800 --> 01:43:59,800 go ahead and dont get stucked. 937 01:43:59,900 --> 01:44:05,500 -The best of all is that you can be proud for everything you did... 938 01:44:08,400 --> 01:44:12,600 and you... always beside your daughter as a warrior 939 01:44:13,100 --> 01:44:16,200 and you arent just mother of your sons... you were Ricardos mother. 940 01:44:17,300 --> 01:44:20,200 and that he said it till the last second 941 01:44:20,300 --> 01:44:23,400 -When Ricardo died I felt as my soul was breaking 942 01:44:25,400 --> 01:44:28,300 I feel like is the most terrible thing I have ever lived 943 01:44:28,700 --> 01:44:35,600 I have had a lot of deaths, my sisters, my grandparents... but this, this feeling that I had right now 944 01:44:36,000 --> 01:44:38,700 I think that just a mother feels it 945 01:44:38,800 --> 01:44:50,800 -We will never forget Ricardo, he will always live in your hearts, and believe me, in the heart of our team too. 946 01:44:51,000 --> 01:44:52,700 -Thank you very much 947 01:44:52,800 --> 01:45:02,200 thank you for listening to us, thank you for helping us and make our dream come true 948 01:45:02,300 --> 01:45:06,200 because without you we couldnt do it 949 01:45:07,500 --> 01:45:20,600 We will meet next week, to show you a new story of love. See you soon in "Contra viento y marea". Good night. 950 01:45:21,700 --> 01:45:23,100 -Do you want to marry? 951 01:45:23,200 --> 01:45:25,600 -yes, since always 952 01:45:25,900 --> 01:45:27,600 -I saw him and I fell in love. 953 01:45:28,700 --> 01:45:52,200 (In memory of Ricardo) 954 01:46:11,600 --> 01:46:16,000