1 00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:05,100 We have heard many advices from parents, elders and our friends since our childhood 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:10,000 and we're tired of too much advices, even if you grow old 3 00:00:10,100 --> 00:00:14,900 you will definitely give some sort of advice to youngsters, and it's okay if it's in a good way 4 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:19,800 but many are giving wrong advices only 5 00:00:19,900 --> 00:00:25,000 we'll see about what wrong advices from our elders that we need avoid clearly in this video 6 00:00:25,100 --> 00:00:29,900 don't skip this video and also don't forgot to hit like button 7 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:34,800 that likes will spread this video even more and personally it will help your brother 8 00:00:34,900 --> 00:00:39,700 so hit like and if you're a first time viewer do subscribe and join in our family 9 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:44,600 let's see what advices those are, before that we'll see about sponsor of this video mamaearth 10 00:00:44,700 --> 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"he just wander carelessly only and if you arrange marriage for him he will become responsible" 40 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:17,400 many will tell those things and I personally heard that and 41 00:03:17,500 --> 00:03:22,300 my some of my friends too have married for these reasons 42 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:27,200 I just remembered those things as, these 2K kids are on next level 43 00:03:27,300 --> 00:03:32,100 and I think they are making these couple comedies due to those advices 44 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:37,000 okay we can leave that thing, If you have not achieved anything in your life yet and have no ideas and speaking about goals 45 00:03:37,100 --> 00:03:41,900 going to a good job, buying a house or earn at least to manage own house 46 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:46,800 many persons will have goals like this but for some reasons 47 00:03:46,900 --> 00:03:51,700 they may not achieve those goals yet, but you should only marry after achieving those goals 48 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:56,600 but if you follow that worse advice of getting married to be responsible 49 00:03:56,700 --> 00:04:01,500 you will get divorce notice within a year or two and it will also spoil the life of that girl also 50 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:06,400 so first go to a proper job and achieve your goals 51 00:04:06,500 --> 00:04:11,300 then go think about marriage, even if your parents force you to marry 52 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:16,200 request them to give some time and ensure them you will achieve something 53 00:04:16,300 --> 00:04:21,100 don't listen that advice ever again, the next advice is 54 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:25,900 it's the most common advice told by many, that is 55 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:30,800 "if you work hard in this time period you will be free to be happy and enjoy your life in the later part" 56 00:04:30,900 --> 00:04:35,700 we work hard to learn in school to reach college and there also we do hardwork to get good grades 57 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:40,600 to get good job, then in the job too, we think like we need to work hard, earn more money 58 00:04:40,700 --> 00:04:45,500 so then only we will be happy in our life and we follow this process but in the end we die 59 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:50,400 so sorry to say like this, but the thing is we need 60 00:04:50,500 --> 00:04:53,900 to enjoy in life too, and give happiness to our life 61 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:58,800 don't just do work only and following your goals alone only 62 00:04:58,900 --> 00:05:03,700 then you will have no happiness and you will see no happiness when you turnback and see from your life history 63 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:08,600 and will give the sorrow feeling of missing many things, so we need to do hardwork also 64 00:05:08,700 --> 00:05:13,500 we need to be happy and you have to spare some time for you and 65 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:18,400 do the things you like in that time, I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say 66 00:05:18,500 --> 00:05:23,300 even elders think like only way we can be happy is earning aand earning only 67 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:28,200 don't have that kind of thought in your mind 68 00:05:28,300 --> 00:05:33,100 earning is important, whatever is your earning, do spend some time time for yourself 69 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,500 involve in the things you like, 70 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:50,300 its better to try the plans you have in your young age than being a salaried person till the last minute of your life 71 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:55,200 don't focuse only on hardwork, spend some time for you then you will be happy and your work 72 00:05:55,300 --> 00:06:00,100 will be proper also, and it's good for your mind, so don't follow this advice blindly 73 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:05,000 just enjoy your life also, next one is a most common advice 74 00:06:05,100 --> 00:06:09,900 all boys and girls of this world 75 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:14,800 have suffered heavily from this advice, that is comparison 76 00:06:14,900 --> 00:06:19,700 "see the neighbor's kid he is good at studies, do you know how much he earns?" 77 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:24,600 "he is better than you" these kinds of advices are 78 00:06:24,700 --> 00:06:29,500 told by many parents, for me 79 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:34,400 I personally know how much it will affect you, as I also crossed these things in life 80 00:06:34,500 --> 00:06:39,300 don't give attention to that comparison advices 81 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:44,200 it's parent's lack of knowledge and we can't blame them 82 00:06:44,300 --> 00:06:49,100 but you don't need to think too much about that and getting sad due to those advices are unnecessary 83 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:54,000 whatever the tell, if you lack in study 84 00:06:54,100 --> 00:06:58,900 you can achieve in something else, you have to find that thing 85 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:03,800 or if you are good at studies and poor at other things then study well and get a good job 86 00:07:03,900 --> 00:07:08,700 even if they told those things initially, once you achieve something 87 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:13,600 they will appreciate you definitely, I personally faced this 88 00:07:13,700 --> 00:07:18,500 after finishing college they criticized me for not going to a job 89 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:23,400 but after I done a proper thing and I got a reach and earnings from this 90 00:07:23,500 --> 00:07:28,300 they are also supporting me now, so you have to 91 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:33,200 avoid those advices and 92 00:07:33,300 --> 00:07:38,100 develop yourself in things that you like and things that you know 93 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:43,000 and reach a good position using those skills and I hope you will do definitely 94 00:07:43,100 --> 00:07:47,900 after you succeed your parents will praise you surely 95 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,800 next advice is "whatever happens it's good for you, and everything has a reason behind it" 96 00:07:52,900 --> 00:07:57,700 definitely it's not like that, if we commit a mistake then there will be something wrong will happen 97 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:02,600 if you do good deeds then good things will happen, but if you 98 00:08:02,700 --> 00:08:07,500 say like " even if you commit a wrong thing it has a reason" it will make me angry 99 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:12,400 it will make me tensed if someone say this to me, I done something wrong then I need to rectify that thing 100 00:08:12,500 --> 00:08:20,200 you can advice how to rectify doing mistakes, instead if you say "it's okay, everything is for good" it will make us angry 101 00:08:20,300 --> 00:08:22,400 personally it will make me angry, 102 00:08:22,500 --> 00:08:27,300 In this world nothing will happen without any external force 103 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:32,200 if you do something, then only it will cause good or bad results 104 00:08:32,300 --> 00:08:37,100 so do the things properly, even if you miss those things try to develop 105 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:38,400 don't leave like it's also for good, 106 00:08:38,500 --> 00:08:43,300 and think how to improve bad results 107 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:48,200 try hard tehn only you will reach success and if you take it too lightly 108 00:08:48,300 --> 00:08:53,100 then you will have no upgrade, so avoid this advice also 109 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:58,000 next advice is happens over our friends, it's kind of a conversation 110 00:08:58,100 --> 00:09:02,900 atleast one of your friend will say like 111 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:07,800 "if you marry a rich girl you will be happy in your life" 112 00:09:07,900 --> 00:09:12,700 you will heard this from atleast one person in your life 113 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:17,600 even one of my friend told this to me in last month 114 00:09:17,700 --> 00:09:22,500 if you marry a rich girl your life will move towards a dark side 115 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:27,400 I never try to blame you, but if you love a girl for this motive alone then 116 00:09:27,500 --> 00:09:32,300 love will never exist there and even if you marry 117 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:37,200 there will be no love and care, don't think like "what rubbish he is talking" 118 00:09:37,300 --> 00:09:42,100 but you have to love a girl from your heart and not for money 119 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:47,000 so never take this advice from anyone 120 00:09:47,100 --> 00:09:51,900 even if you have that thought, just throw away that 121 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:56,800 first we need to earn, that maybe 10k, 20k, 6 or 7K whatever our capacity allow us to earn 122 00:09:56,900 --> 00:10:01,700 then we have to develop, if you does this our parents will arrange a marriage for us 123 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:06,600 or there is a chance you might get loved by the girl you like 124 00:10:06,700 --> 00:10:11,500 or the girl you love may accept your love also and don't love anyone for money or rich life 125 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:16,400 don't take that advice, that's all guys 126 00:10:16,500 --> 00:10:21,300 what are the advices you heard in your life from the mentioned 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