1 00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:06,600 welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru 2 00:00:06,700 --> 00:00:11,500 this is the story of a phone consultation client, he got break-up 2 years before 3 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:16,400 now that girl got married and after watching your videos, I learned that I'm a nice guy 4 00:00:16,500 --> 00:00:21,300 so that girl left me and I knew that 5 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:26,200 I'm sure that she won't come back to me again 6 00:00:26,300 --> 00:00:31,100 she got married for a year and I still can't forget her, I'm disturbed 7 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:36,000 this two years I'm like a madman and having sucidal thoughts 8 00:00:36,100 --> 00:00:40,900 I'm worried and can't do anything 9 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:45,800 and he feared about wasting his life 10 00:00:45,900 --> 00:00:49,000 he was talking very sadly, 11 00:00:49,100 --> 00:00:53,900 I knew his problems and explained about that 12 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:58,800 guys please learn, after breakup you need to notice the things happening in life 13 00:00:58,900 --> 00:01:03,700 I already know about this issue and 14 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:08,600 for you guys I'm gathering details from Internet to explain clearly 15 00:01:08,700 --> 00:01:13,500 PTSD- Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is a mental issue 16 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:18,400 to be explained simply, after a tragic event 17 00:01:18,500 --> 00:01:23,300 it will happen in our life, like 18 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:28,200 losing our closed ones to death like parents, lovers etc 19 00:01:28,300 --> 00:01:33,100 or you failed in your career 20 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:38,000 the career path is destroyed and you can't fix that 21 00:01:38,100 --> 00:01:42,900 like these events the aftermath effects are called 22 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:47,800 as PTSD, to relate this in relationship topic 23 00:01:47,900 --> 00:01:52,700 after your crush rejected or lover left you 24 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:57,600 or getting break-up from your lover 25 00:01:57,700 --> 00:02:02,500 the things you faced is PTSD 26 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,400 this PTSD will ruin your social and personal life 27 00:02:07,500 --> 00:02:14,500 this PTSD symptoms can last from days to years 28 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:19,400 there are 4 major symptoms fro this PTSD 29 00:02:19,500 --> 00:02:24,300 one is Intrusive memories 2nd one is avoidance 30 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:29,200 3rd is negative thinking and 4th is changes in emotional behaviour 31 00:02:29,300 --> 00:02:34,100 we'll see about these 4 in detail now 32 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:39,000 the first issue will be recurring memories 33 00:02:39,100 --> 00:02:43,900 this issue will feel like repeatedly happening 34 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:52,200 if you had break-up you will feel that daily 35 00:02:52,300 --> 00:02:57,100 upsetting dreams, you will wakeup in the middle of the night 36 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:02,000 and you will cry for her and 37 00:03:02,100 --> 00:03:06,900 you feel that things again and will cry at 2 A.M 38 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:11,800 we'll stressed out emotionally 39 00:03:11,900 --> 00:03:16,700 the all physical things you look at will kill you 40 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:21,600 like her favourite ringtone, colour, vehicle or actor 41 00:03:21,700 --> 00:03:26,500 after seeing the things she likes and related to her 42 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:31,400 will stress you, next is avoidance 43 00:03:31,500 --> 00:03:36,300 we try to get rid of things related to her 44 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:41,200 like people related to her, we try to avoid those 45 00:03:41,300 --> 00:03:46,100 but we can't do that, 3rd symptom is negative thinking 46 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:51,000 we will thing bad about us and others 47 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:57,100 we're weak, we're good for nothing, we'll tell this to others 48 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:02,000 will look upset and we'll hopeless about future 49 00:04:02,100 --> 00:04:06,900 I saw many people, break-up, crush or divorce issue, whatever 50 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:11,800 if they had this they will think that their life will last like this only 51 00:04:11,900 --> 00:04:16,700 they think that no one will love them 52 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,700 example is my friend's senior in work got 53 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:24,600 break-up in 25 and even after hitting 35 54 00:04:24,700 --> 00:04:28,500 he live hopeless and not getting married 55 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:33,400 difficulty in maintaining close relationship, we can't get close with anyone 56 00:04:33,500 --> 00:04:38,300 either it maybe your mom,dad or friends 57 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:43,200 we'll spend time alone by listening songs like that 58 00:04:43,300 --> 00:04:49,700 we can't able to do small things we did we enjoyed all those years 59 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:54,600 expample will be you may enjoy playing cricket for many years 60 00:04:54,700 --> 00:04:59,500 but now you're unable to play now 61 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:04,400 you can't accept happy things like joke 62 00:05:04,500 --> 00:05:09,300 you may give meh reactions and be sturdy 63 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:14,200 to be simple, you will be like emotionally dead body 64 00:05:14,300 --> 00:05:19,100 next one is changes in emotional behaviour, like fearing for small things 65 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:24,000 try to be protective after thinking all things are danger 66 00:05:24,100 --> 00:05:28,900 and you will have self-destructive behaviours 67 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:33,800 like drinks, drugs and excessive masturbation 68 00:05:33,900 --> 00:05:38,700 having issues in sleeping, shouting at others with anger 69 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:43,600 and you will have guilt of shame even if the mistake was her's 70 00:05:43,700 --> 00:05:48,500 you will think that you are the wrong one 71 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:53,400 you will blame yourself and be negative 72 00:05:53,500 --> 00:05:58,300 and you will have frequent sucide thoughts 73 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:03,200 be clear, you may rejected are left by crush 74 00:06:03,300 --> 00:06:08,100 whatever it's all due to PTSD for 90% 75 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:13,000 rare 5% people only able to be strong 76 00:06:13,100 --> 00:06:17,900 they can recover without having PTSD 77 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:25,700 it's proven that it will took 1.5 years to forget every 5 year relationship 78 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:30,600 the issue is, if you have 5 years relationship 79 00:06:30,700 --> 00:06:38,100 this PTSD may last more than 1.5 years 80 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:43,000 and now you have more sucide thoughts 81 00:06:43,100 --> 00:06:47,900 guys please refer a doctor or psychiatrist or me 82 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:52,800 to cure this issue 83 00:06:52,900 --> 00:06:57,700 because heavy PTSD will leave you in bad situation 84 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:04,200 if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex 85 00:07:04,300 --> 00:07:09,100 we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like 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