1 00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:05,600 welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,500 This is the story of my phone consultation client 3 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,300 as usual he said his love story 4 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:19,200 he said that they both loved each other for 10 years and everything went well 5 00:00:19,300 --> 00:00:24,100 but for the last one year he lost his interest on that girl 6 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:29,000 and he thought that she will not suit him and he wanted to say this to her 7 00:00:29,100 --> 00:00:33,900 but suddenly she herself told him that she won't need him anymore 8 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:38,800 he asked for the reason and she gave no proper response and he started to beg at her 9 00:00:38,900 --> 00:00:43,700 fear of losing her he begged desperately and wandered like a lunatic 10 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:48,600 he cried and begget at all of her social media accounts which resulted in getting him blocked 11 00:00:48,700 --> 00:00:53,500 after 3 months he is worried much and needed her 12 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:58,400 and he asked me to make her to love him again 13 00:00:58,500 --> 00:01:03,300 while talking he said one thing, that is he has no interest on her, but still he wants her now 14 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:08,200 the important mistake happen in break-up 15 00:01:08,300 --> 00:01:12,500 you need to know about this guys 16 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:17,400 you need to know hat you need during break-up 17 00:01:17,500 --> 00:01:22,300 scientifically proven theory says that in 70% of break-ups 18 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:27,200 partners need to make their pair to love them back because 19 00:01:27,300 --> 00:01:32,100 they think they're lower value as rejected by girls so they want to make them to love again 20 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:37,000 and then they want to reject that girls so thney can feel as higher value 21 00:01:37,100 --> 00:01:41,900 for this they fight to win their Ex back 22 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:46,800 here, you're not wanting her for loving 23 00:01:46,900 --> 00:01:51,700 you want to feel as higher value 24 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:56,600 and you want to make her to love yourself for that, this client as the same issue 25 00:01:56,700 --> 00:02:01,500 he has caste issues, lack of interest with her 26 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:06,400 but now he thinks taht he needs her 27 00:02:06,500 --> 00:02:11,300 the subconsious mind of him says that he is lower value after getting rejected 28 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:16,200 so he wants to make her to fall for him and then he will reject her so he can become higher value 29 00:02:16,300 --> 00:02:21,100 he never wanted her for logic 30 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:26,000 he want's her for the emotion he can't control 31 00:02:26,100 --> 00:02:30,900 there are another kind of emotion in break-up as I already mentioned a while ago 32 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:35,800 scarcity principle A.k.A FOMO(Fear of Missing Out) 33 00:02:35,900 --> 00:02:40,700 when you think you'll lose something then it will get value 34 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:45,600 I'll repeat this once again for you, you went for a shop and saw a purse 35 00:02:45,700 --> 00:02:50,500 it was ugly so you put it down and another guy came 36 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:54,700 and bought that purse saying that it looks cool then how you feel? 37 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:59,600 you think you missed that purse 38 00:02:59,700 --> 00:03:04,500 after he picked up does it get a cool look?, no 39 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:09,400 you rejected that, truth is after he picked that up 40 00:03:09,500 --> 00:03:14,300 you're in the stage of losing that purse so you automatically values that 41 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:19,200 so you wanted that, this is FOMO 42 00:03:19,300 --> 00:03:24,100 another example will be, you had a product in your amazon cart for a long period 43 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:31,600 you don't need that right now, but suddenly amazon lists that product has only one stock left 44 00:03:31,700 --> 00:03:36,500 eventough you don't need that you rush to buy that becasue 45 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:41,400 you think that you'll loose that, so you'll rush to buy that 46 00:03:41,500 --> 00:03:46,300 after thinking you'll lose something it will get value automatically 47 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:51,200 so if you connect this theory with this client 48 00:03:51,300 --> 00:03:56,100 as he clearly says he has caste issues and no chances that she will suit him 49 00:03:56,200 --> 00:04:00,200 this is the fact but still he wants her 50 00:04:00,300 --> 00:04:05,100 if she rejected you in a break-up or 51 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:10,000 you may rejected her, but after some days 52 00:04:10,100 --> 00:04:14,900 in the fear of losing her she will look value in some days 53 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:19,800 so you will go for her again, I told about two emotions here 54 00:04:19,900 --> 00:04:24,700 one is you go back at your Ex to feel higher value 55 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:29,600 another one is in fear of losing her she appears as higher value 56 00:04:29,700 --> 00:04:34,500 and you try to get her back, but in both cases 57 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:39,400 you don't need them, but you went again because 58 00:04:39,500 --> 00:04:44,300 you can't control emotions which makes you to do this 59 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:49,200 guys you never want her logically 60 00:04:49,300 --> 00:04:54,100 but you search her again for the emotions you can't control 61 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:59,000 it's pure waste of time for both of you so 62 00:04:59,100 --> 00:05:03,300 never trust these emotions and spoil life of both parties 63 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:08,200 even if you went with emotions you can't control 64 00:05:08,300 --> 00:05:13,100 you will behave 100% weak and she will never love you again and it's a time waste 65 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:18,000 so next time if you want to make your ex to love you again 66 00:05:18,100 --> 00:05:22,900 ask yourself that if you truly love her? or 67 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:27,800 you need her for your emotions? if it is so 68 00:05:27,900 --> 00:05:32,700 then control yourself and focus on your work 69 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:37,600 if you truly love her, you can win her back 70 00:05:37,700 --> 00:05:41,900 for that we posted many videos about getting your EX back 71 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:46,800 I gave that playlist in the 'i' button 72 00:05:46,900 --> 00:05:49,900 use that to make your Ex to love you back 73 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:54,800 if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex 74 00:05:54,900 --> 00:05:58,700 we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones 75 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,700 by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services 76 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:07,600 if you want that services, use the link in the description to book 77 00:06:07,700 --> 00:06:12,500 we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back 78 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:16,500 and we're giving 100% assurance for that 79 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:21,400 if you want to follow us on Insta and FB, use the links below to follow 80 00:06:21,500 --> 00:06:23,900 thanks for watching!