1 00:00:00,500 --> 00:00:08,100 welcome to "Love Guru" channel, India's first relationship coaching channel, I'm your relationship coach XXX 2 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:13,000 this is the story of my phone consultation client 3 00:00:13,100 --> 00:00:17,900 that girl and her lover is in long distance relationship 4 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:22,800 he is working in Australia 5 00:00:22,900 --> 00:00:27,700 everything was going well for her, but still she has some fear 6 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:32,600 she has the fear of him cheating her with any Australian women 7 00:00:32,700 --> 00:00:37,500 she loves him so much and she wants him 8 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:42,400 and she asked me about how she can carry this long distance relationship into a marriage 9 00:00:42,500 --> 00:00:47,300 okay this is the topic of the day, 10 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:52,200 how we can convert a long distance relationship into a marriage 11 00:00:52,300 --> 00:00:57,100 I'm telling clearly that you need 3 rules for a successful long distance relationship 12 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:02,000 first rule is to believe the relationship 13 00:01:02,100 --> 00:01:06,900 the problem is long distance relationship couples have 14 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:11,800 fear of getting cheated by their partner due to the distance 15 00:01:11,900 --> 00:01:16,700 it will remain always and that too 16 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:21,600 when their partner is living in a modern city 17 00:01:21,700 --> 00:01:26,500 they will die in fear, the issue is 18 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:31,400 you lack half of your belief so you can't speak correctly 19 00:01:31,500 --> 00:01:36,300 you can't do anything right, you do everything in a half mind 20 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:41,200 being like this will result in everything is going wrong for you 21 00:01:41,300 --> 00:01:45,000 you will fight with them if they talked with some other boy/girl 22 00:01:45,100 --> 00:01:49,900 you will fight for late replies and you will over think unwantedly 23 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:54,800 and you will spoil that long distance relationship with trust issues 24 00:01:54,900 --> 00:01:58,700 a 2014 research says that, 25 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:03,600 people who are in long distance relationship are more happier than people who are in closed circle relationship 26 00:02:03,700 --> 00:02:08,500 so never doubt about long distance relationship 27 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:13,400 just believe that relationship and it will 28 00:02:13,500 --> 00:02:16,900 give happiness for you 29 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:21,800 second is fixing visits, one thing important in relationship is 30 00:02:21,900 --> 00:02:26,700 time will fade your attraction 31 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:31,600 if you do the same thing again and again, then you'll lose your interest on that 32 00:02:31,700 --> 00:02:36,500 for example, people in long distance relationship will 33 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:41,400 always do chat, call and skype. chat, call and skype 34 00:02:41,500 --> 00:02:46,300 chat, call and skype. chat, call and skype 35 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:51,200 now you're not talking the relationship to the next part and you just 36 00:02:51,300 --> 00:02:56,100 doing a single rotine and it will 37 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:01,000 make your partner bored at you and push away them from you 38 00:03:01,100 --> 00:03:05,900 so try to fix frequent dates and have a meet 39 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:10,800 try to meet as much as possible 40 00:03:10,900 --> 00:03:15,700 if you just have conversation in online, it will be boring for her 41 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:20,600 so try to make fixed visits to maintain the interest level 42 00:03:20,700 --> 00:03:25,500 rule number three is long term plan, in this 43 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:30,400 I want you to set a plan 44 00:03:30,500 --> 00:03:34,100 like where you will stand in your relationship at the near future 45 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:39,000 planning like this is important as unplanning will 46 00:03:39,100 --> 00:03:43,900 make your life vague, so what it would look like in 5 years 47 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:48,800 what it will be like in 3 years 48 00:03:48,900 --> 00:03:53,700 for example we'll marry in 5 years and then after 2 years we'll have a baby 49 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:58,600 if you set end goals like this, both of you will 50 00:03:58,700 --> 00:04:03,500 work for that and plan to earn according to your marriage plans 51 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:08,400 and what are the things you need to say for convince your parents 52 00:04:08,500 --> 00:04:13,300 then you'll work like this and your relationship will be happier for you 53 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:18,200 even if you have small or big problems between you 54 00:04:18,300 --> 00:04:25,000 as you have marriage end goal and worked for that 55 00:04:25,100 --> 00:04:29,900 both of your mind will convince to not have a break up 56 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:34,800 so if you want to be happy in long distance relationship 57 00:04:34,900 --> 00:04:39,700 follow 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