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most wanted topic is nice guy to bad guy 
transformation as many are requested for 
this

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it's a hot and interesting topic, 'nice guy 
to bad guy'

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do you need to become a bad boy from being 
a good one, definitely not

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but it's for to achieve our better version

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if we're a normal person and if we do achieve 
the better version of ourselves,

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others will see us as a unique and interesting 
person

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for that what we're going to do, we'll see 
about that in this video

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more tthan 80% of the guys in our native 
are nice guys only

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so we'll see clearly about how to transform, 
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so you can buy using those links,the first 
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its the most common mistake of the nice guys, 
we'll see an example,

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now college will be opened and you went there, 
you sew a friend there

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you will share all the things about you with 
them including the age you started wearing 
underwear to getting scold by your mother, 
you don't need to be a open book

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don't be a library also, if you be like that 
you will get fooled

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and they will see as a degraded person

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be a mysterious person, be a diary instead 
of a open book

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you need to keep some secrets and if you 
reveal everything then you'll have no value

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most of them are doing this mistake and if 
you want to leave the nice guy persona

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never do this mistake and don't share everything 
with everyone

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share the thigs supposed to share and

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even if you want to share everything please 
do control your feelings

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sharing will make your value low, so

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maintain your secrets like a diary also

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don't talk too much, reduce your talks and 
increase your smiles

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if you do smiling often instead of talking,

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your value will be upgraded and as being 
mysterious

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it will increase others interests on you

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if we know everything about the hero's character 
then the movie will become boring

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the same goes for this, so don't be a boring 
one and become a interesting person

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so be diary and not a book, next one is

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be like the lyrics " whatever may happen 
and I'll be happy"

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you need to be more carefree, and don't get 
everything in your head

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you may have many negative things around 
you, but follow thalapathy's saying, 'Ignore 
negativity'

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ignore that bad things,

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don't feel low by getting all the negative 
things and thoughts in your mind and be positive

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something is wrong, okay it may happen, we 
need to do things better in the next time

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we need to do things better and best in the 
next chance

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you need to take all the bad things as a 
learning and need to move forward, you don't 
need to get worried all the time

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if you still worried it won't be useful, 
for example

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why everyone is calling M.S.Dhoni as captain 
cool?, because even if he have any tough 
situations

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he will handle those with his cool attitude 
and calmness

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so he is known as captain cool and everyone 
likes him, so

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you also need to stop worrying and have to 
find solutions and do things better

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if you try this it will help you to find 
your better version quickly

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so be more care free, next we need to improve 
your style

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it plays a vital role in shaping your better 
version

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take me as an example, not only me, many 
of our guys

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as I have talked to many I personally know 
that, everyone thinks that they will look 
better in full sleeve shirts , checked shirts 
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and they reject half sleeve shirts,

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they will always wears full sleeves only

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take me as an example, I also had the same 
mindset, now recently I'm wearing sweatshirts 
a lot

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also hoodies, half sleeve shirts.

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I don't get any negative or bad comments 
for wearing them

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they will simply ask like, where did I get 
those?, and the will greet the outfits in 
a good way

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I'm getting more compliements only, so

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also applies for you, we'll have fear until 
trying a newstyle, but once gets used to 
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we'll get compliements and it will motivate 
us

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so improve your style and concentrate on 
your dress

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wear hoodies, sweat shirts and mainly shirts 
with half sleeves

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My instagram has 60k followers, I'm trying 
new outfits

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and posting on my insta, it will give new 
ideas to others and I'm also getting compliments

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you can also check our Insta id @saran_lifestyle 
so you can get outfit ideas

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don't forget to check our insta page for 
outfit ideas

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change your dressing style without thinking 
and changing won't affect you

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do try, next thing plays a major role in 
improving our style

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it's hairstyle, growing too much of hair 
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keeping a messy hairstyle will never look 
good on you

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always keep a sharp and crisp hairstyle and 
it will

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instantly upgrade your level, so concentrate 
on improving your style

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that will make your better version to appear 
quickly, next one is

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learn to say 'no' and don't alter yourself 
for situations

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what to do?, we'll have an example, all of 
our nice guys will do like this,

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now we have a common friend who is very close 
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that friend will be playing PUBG or watching 
movie at his home

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they will call us and will request us to 
do their work like buying things for them 
or getting their packages

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after hearing this we'll consider this as 
they're our friend

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and we'll think that we can do for them even 
if we have some work

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and you will end up doing their tasks

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at last you will have no use by doing those 
things and they've simply used you

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in some cases some will ask for genuine help, 
as may be they've held up in some other places 
like other cities

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you can help them in those situations, but 
if they're free and assign jobs to you

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as they think you as a dumb fool,

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so don't be like a use and throw thing,

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say 'no' openly and tell your reasons casually

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don't think those requests as essential ones 
to do

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don't alter for situations and if you have 
some job and you leave that for those useless 
tasks, you don't need to do that

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instead you can explain as you have works 
to do and reject it will be finished simply

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after one or two times they won't ask you 
again for those kind of requests

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and note this, this methode will only set 
for the friend who try to make use of us

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some friends will ask for true help and it's 
good to do for them

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you know that who are loyal to you and who 
tries to use you

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but don't do the help for just the sake of 
friendship, and learn to say no

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also don't change for situations, next one 
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if you have a chance to speak, for example 
in a office meeting

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even if you have chance to speak, you may 
be silent and observe others sayings and 
try to speak later

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but instead you can take a lead, speak your 
opinion confidently

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your opinion won't harm others and others 
won't say anything bad about it

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so speak boldly and take the lead

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next, your character will boost and show 
yourself as a unique and better person

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this is not only for work situations, even 
in your friend's gang

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or in college discussions, don't hesitate 
to talk first or wait for others to start

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you need to be a lead and it will surely 
improve your personality and also

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it shows your level upgraded to others, so 
from now

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dont be a shy one and be the one who takes 
the lead, and the last thing is

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be a confident person, I'm not mentioning 
over-confident

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but be confident in certain things,

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many of us think like if we do this thing 
it may be wrong for us

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it won't suit use, we don't need to take 
risk, they will have these thoughts,

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train yourself for talking risk and believe 
in yourself

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even if you can't reach 100%,

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we may reach 70-80% perfectly, so

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don't hesitate to take risk, and be confident

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and d your things, and confident is a big 
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in our personality improvement, so from now

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be a confident person and try to take risks, 
that's all guys

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do comment what are the mistakes you're doing 
from the mentioned ones

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so me and others will know, and also do subscribe 
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will see you in another video, bye brothers!