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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your 
marriage and relationship coach love guru

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guyswhether you're approaching life or relationship

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we need to change ourselfto be better

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but for that we need to know about ourselves

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that's very important

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in this video we'll see if you're a boy or 
man

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the issue is I saw many people who are in 
their 40s still behave like a boy and

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inversed persons also exists, like matured 
persona in a 16 year old boy

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so first learn if you're boyish or manly

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then I'll explain whether it's okay to being 
boyish in your 40s

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being a matured man while being 16

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so from your looks 7 things can determoine 
if you're boyish or manly

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boyish never meant small boy

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I refer post teen behaviour of a 23-24 year 
old boy

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see one thing, these boyish guys are

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will always pick colourful things for their 
clothing

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regardless of their outfits. shoes and accessories

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everything will look colourful and they prefer 
dark colours

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they unaware of light colours, for example 
they are like Shivakarthikeyan from MaanKarate

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they will war colourful outfits

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these manly guys will wear simple and light 
colours like black, white

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they will also wear colourful dresses but 
on rare ocassions

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they knew that it's immature to wear colourful 
outfits

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so they will prefer black, white and light 
colours

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2nd thing is dress, these boyish people will 
mostly wear tees

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they will also wear shirts but mostly they 
will wear tees

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they will also prefer sneakers and casual 
shoes only

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this shows that their goal is to express 
a young vibe

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they will project like this, matured men 
will dress like

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mostly shirts they also wear tees, but most 
of the time

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they prefer shirts and they will also wear 
casual shoes

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but their goal is to avoid that young vibe

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they want to project them as matured guy

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they hate them being projected as young guy

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3rd is physique, these boyish preople will 
look lean or

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maintain lean body, you may ask that does 
leanliness is not manly?

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yes, it's not, for example take Adharva

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you will never say him as a maninessperson 
you prefer to call him as a chocolate boy

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these manly guys will have good muscles, 
like

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Sarath Kumar, do you call him as a boy, you 
will call him as a man

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you can't think any other word, be clear

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manly guys will have good muscle, 4th thing 
is full shave or lite beard

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if you have clean shave face then you will 
look boyish like Ranbeer kapoor

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for light beard example

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I'll give Dhruv Vikram from Adithya Varma 
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he will also looks like boy and for beard

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a good beard will look good, recently sarath 
kumar posted pics from his photoshoot

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if you saw that you will tell that he is 
masculine and majestic

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ypu will call him as 'the man', good beard 
will make you look manly

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actually I had one gym master in my gym, 
he looks so manly

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we boys get jelous of him

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if possible i'll put a video about him and 
you can understand from his looks

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about manliness, 5th ism watch

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this boysih guys will wear smart watch, digital 
watches and colour ful watches

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they will hate leather and metal strapped 
watches

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manly guys only prefer leather and metal 
strapped watches and

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specifically analogue watches with silver, 
gold and black colour only

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they will avoid other colours, 6th general 
thing

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the things you do in the name of 'pullingo' 
style will make you look boyish

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some small shops near scool will sell strap 
bands for arms, chains with axe or knife

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these kind of things will make you look boyish 
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except if you have good physique it will 
make you look manly

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if you watched 'Ashiqui 2' movie Adithya 
Roy Kapoor will have ropes tied in his hand

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for his physique that looks cool and masculine

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that will look sexy also, if you have normal 
physique and wear these things

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it will make you look boyish and good physique 
will elevate the manliness

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but mostly manly people will have gold chain

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or holy chain and nothing else

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7th one is hairstyle, the hairstyle you think 
that will make you look stylishly

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will be boyish regardless of it's name

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if you want to project yourself as stylish 
person it's boyish only

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men will have simple cuts only for example

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Dan Bilzerian's hairstyle simple cut that 
give the man look

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bonus idea, while choosing bikes these boyish 
people will go for

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ktm, cbr, R15 where manly people will go 
for

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rough and tough bike like bullet

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be clear, the difference between these two 
is attitude only

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be clear, boyish people wants to project 
them as young guys

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so they do things that exert young vibes

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manly people wants to showcase themself as 
matured people

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so their things are like this, some people 
are mixtue of both

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as their attitude is inbetwen two and those 
are rare ones

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finally guys I'll never say that being boyish 
is not attractive, some things in that are 
really attractive

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the thing I'm saying is for this video

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it's for you to understand if you're boyish 
or manly

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be clear with that, in next video

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can I be boyish regardless of my age? or 
be manly?, which is right?

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what is wrong? whether I need to transfrom 
from one to other?

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I'll explain that in another video

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because many do wrong things and make their 
soul unhappy

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so I'll post that in next video, so wait

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