1 00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:06,300 Love is a beautiful thing, but our boys has a habit of doing silly mistakes which spoils the love and ends in break-up 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:12,300 if you avoid the mistakes which I'm going to mention in this video, then your love life will stay cute 3 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:17,200 and it won't end in break-up,these are very small mistakes only and many of us doing this 4 00:00:17,300 --> 00:00:22,100 before seeing those things,if you're a first time viewer then don't forget to subscribe, 5 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:27,000 watch without skipping and also do like, if you hit like our video will spread more which personally helps me a lot 6 00:00:27,100 --> 00:00:31,900 so, let's see about those mistakes, before going to video 7 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,700 we'll see about the sponsor of this video 'mama earth, 8 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:39,600 recently they sent their rice water shampoo and rice water conditioner to us 9 00:00:39,700 --> 00:00:44,500 the 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--> 00:02:18,500 they will react like " I won't need your opinions" 28 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:22,000 really I don't know the exact reason for this, but if you react like this 29 00:02:22,100 --> 00:02:26,000 then it will hurt that girl regularly, 30 00:02:26,100 --> 00:02:30,900 you need to listen her words and respect her opinions, if you avoid that 31 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:35,800 it will cause a break-up in the end, If you think, "they do break-up for this?" 32 00:02:35,900 --> 00:02:40,700 surely, as those things will hurt her it will lead to a break-up 33 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:45,600 I'm not saying that you need to blindly follow everything she says, 34 00:02:45,700 --> 00:02:50,500 you need to listen to her ideas adn respond, if it's wrong 35 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:55,400 then try to explain gently, and don't argue 36 00:02:55,500 --> 00:03:00,300 and avoid hate speech always 37 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:05,200 next thing is, doubt, It's a big problem and big mistake 38 00:03:05,300 --> 00:03:11,700 most of our boys never doubt their life partners mostly 39 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:16,600 very few persons only have doubts on their partners 40 00:03:16,700 --> 00:03:21,500 but most of boys are doing the mistake due to possessiveness 41 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:26,400 like if when that girl talks to other boys, you will say like "you like hime only, so you're talking to him" 42 00:03:26,500 --> 00:03:31,300 or if they talk about a actor or singer 43 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:36,200 you will talk like "you like that person only and I think you don't like me" 44 00:03:36,300 --> 00:03:41,100 these things fall under possessiveness only but if you do it repeatedly 45 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:46,000 without your knowledge you will speak like "going out is wrong", " you always spend time with him while outing" 46 00:03:46,100 --> 00:03:50,900 if she happened to spend her time in any spot you will ask like "with whom you went to that place?, which boy you tried to meet?" 47 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:55,800 and you will talk rubbish like this, but in our heart 48 00:03:55,900 --> 00:04:00,700 we'll never have any doubt on her, but after talking like this it will happen frequently 49 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:05,600 after some time hearing these words she will think like, " what is wrong with him?, he always doubt me for whatever I do? " 50 00:04:05,700 --> 00:04:10,500 then she will leave you and it will end in a break-up surely 51 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:15,400 doubt is a big mistake and don't do that mistake with your life partner 52 00:04:15,500 --> 00:04:20,300 don't say like those things even for a casual talk, do trust her 53 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:25,200 then your life will be happy and avoid those doubtful speech 54 00:04:25,300 --> 00:04:30,100 next thing is not appreciating her , girls love to get appreciated by others 55 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:35,000 if she worn a new dress or done any cooking she will share that things with you first 56 00:04:35,100 --> 00:04:39,900 they will expect you to appreciate her for those things, but in reality our boys mostly never appreciate 57 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:47,700 in starting stages, you will say like " you look like an angel to me", "I missed having the tasty food you cooked, it's very appealing to look" 58 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:52,600 and gradually you will be like, "oh that's all right", " you done these thing only!" 59 00:04:52,700 --> 00:04:57,500 "okay, these dress looks okayish", you will maintain this tone and avoid to appreciate her 60 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:02,400 not only for dress, cooking for whatever things she does you never appreciate her 61 00:05:02,500 --> 00:05:07,300 if you won't appreciate her, after some days she will think like "I think he is not liking me anymore" 62 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:12,200 "he is not the same person who I met initially, I think he lost the interest on me" 63 00:05:12,300 --> 00:05:17,100 they will think like that, so you need to stop her from thinking like that 64 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:22,000 and you will need to appreciate her on all the times even if things goes wrong, she will expect an appreciation 65 00:05:22,100 --> 00:05:26,900 so give proper appreciation 66 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:31,800 that will make her happy and it will help to run your life smoothly 67 00:05:31,900 --> 00:05:36,700 this advice is not only for lovers it's also for married persons 68 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,100 if you follow this thing properly your life will be joyful 69 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:45,000 next thing is fighting on everything, fighting for all things and reasons 70 00:05:45,100 --> 00:05:49,900 initial stages of love will travel smoothly, till a small fight happens and then it will continously happen 71 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:54,800 small fight in the sense, I mean majorly our boys will fight for what? 72 00:05:54,900 --> 00:05:59,700 there is no person who never fought over dressing, 73 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:04,600 if that girl worn a tee or sleeveless even if they're at home 74 00:06:04,700 --> 00:06:09,500 if they share pics with those dresses, you will ask like "why are you weariong this?" 75 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:14,400 and they will scold them awkwardly and that fight will go big 76 00:06:14,500 --> 00:06:20,900 you can tell gently and openly and avoid scolding like 77 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:33,000 "This dress is fine, but the dress you wore two months before was better than this, that blue colour dress, you looked like an angel in the dress" 78 00:06:33,100 --> 00:06:37,900 talk like that and they will wear that dress from next time automatically 79 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:42,800 they will send pics with that dress and only and they will wear those dress only while going outside, this is a smart move 80 00:06:42,900 --> 00:06:47,700 if you say like this indirectly, 81 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:52,600 she won't get hurt and she will follow your words 82 00:06:52,700 --> 00:06:57,500 like this our boys will fight for many small things, so hereafter 83 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:01,400 avoid fighting over small things and try to understand her 84 00:07:01,500 --> 00:07:06,300 and try to change those thing with smart moves 85 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:11,200 it's no use in scolding her openly which results a sorrow situation for you only 86 00:07:11,300 --> 00:07:16,100 next mistake is, if you are perfect at something 87 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:21,000 don't expect your life partner to be perfect at the same thing 88 00:07:21,100 --> 00:07:25,900 I will say a simple example, if you say that you will free after 4O'clock and tell her to spend time after 4 with you 89 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:30,800 and you will wait from 4, if she was unable to come and talk with you 90 00:07:30,900 --> 00:07:35,700 and if she arrive late at 4.15 or 4.30 then you will argue and have a fight with her 91 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:40,600 and you will say things like you're arrived at perfect time and she doesn't so she have no interest on you 92 00:07:40,700 --> 00:07:45,500 if you expect perfection at these kind of small things then it's a very bad thing 93 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:50,400 nobody in this world is perfect at everything, even 94 00:07:50,500 --> 00:07:55,300 you can't be perfect at all the things, the same goes for your life partner also and you need to understand 95 00:07:55,400 --> 00:08:00,200 and you don't need to fight for that, so from now on 96 00:08:00,300 --> 00:08:08,600 so don't expect her to be perfect at everything and your commands, instead try to understand her situations 97 00:08:08,700 --> 00:08:13,500 next thing is hiding secrets from her 98 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:18,400 I will say one thing openly, 99 00:08:18,500 --> 00:08:23,300 our boys can't maintain a secret, even a if they want't to hide that secret 100 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:28,200 after some day, we'll blabber surely and 101 00:08:28,300 --> 00:08:33,100 it will make her feel hurt as she will think "why he never told this to me in the first place?" 102 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:38,000 she will feel that she was treated with less importance 103 00:08:38,100 --> 00:08:42,900 so you will need to share all the things happen to you, either good or bad you have to share with her 104 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:47,800 that will give a relief to you also and 105 00:08:47,900 --> 00:08:52,700 she will like that also, another thing is girls are very smart if you hide some thing from her she can easily find that 106 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:57,600 they will try to get some secrets from you while talking random things, but if you hide secrets in that time also 107 00:08:57,700 --> 00:09:02,500 and then if she finds that secret finally at some point she will get hurt and also get angry with you 108 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:07,400 so don't have any secrets with your life partner 109 00:09:07,500 --> 00:09:12,300 that will help you to lead a happy life, that's all guys 110 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:17,300 Comment what are the mistakes you have done already from the things I have mentioned and mention other mistakes also 111 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:22,200 which costed your love or had a big impact on your life 112 00:09:22,300 --> 00:09:27,100 do comment so me and others will know and others will try to avoid that mistakes 113 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:32,000 do like this video, and if you're not following us on insta check ou id @saran_lifestyle 114 00:09:32,100 --> 00:09:36,900 you can get photo posing ideas, and watch my reels and you can be engaged with me in this platform 115 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:41,800 don't forget to follow, I gave the link in the description, do like 116 00:09:41,900 --> 00:09:46,700 many interesting videos are waiting for you, see you in another video, bye brothers!