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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your 
relationship coach Love Guru

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How to increase the confident while talking 
with girls,

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many people asking this question to me,

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many ideas and theories are there and we'll 
see

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a important idea called, 'Nofap'

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if you do nofap for many days, the confident 
to talk with girls will

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increase drastically, first learn what is 
nofap, as many will unaware

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nofap is simple, to control masturbation 
and porn addiction

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there is a community called nofap

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simply controlling masturbation is called 
as nofap,

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I don't want to confuse you with the term, 
and many will ask

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"bro, how the confidence to talk with girls 
will increase after nofap?"

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it's sounds like the comedy from "Ayya" movie

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but the truth is confident to talk with girls 
and nofap controls

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are interrelated with each other

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if you don't follow nofap, then your confidence 
will be very low, its 100% true

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now we'll see,

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how confidence to talk with girls will increase 
after following nofap

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example, if your age is 25, to my knowledge

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most of the boys started masturbating from 
the age of 14

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why we're starting it from that early age? 
because we attain sexual feelings from that 
age

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that means we need sex, but it's not an issue 
in early days, were they would do child marriages

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we can enjoy, but at present

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you have to forget about that if you won't 
settle brfore the age of 27

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but the problem is we have feelings so we 
need sex

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but we have no girl, so what is the option

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we have to do masturbation, if you talk with 
a girl at in the middle of all of this

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you can feel that you're talking for love, 
but

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if you think in the point of view of human 
species, the ultimate goal of this is

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sex, it's not bad, it's about reproduction

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that's why we contact a girl

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now we need sex, now logically

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we talk to a girl and make her to love us 
in 4 months and then marriage will take 2-3 
years

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so the sex will take 2-3 years

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so some people do have sex after 3-4 months 
of love

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but it will also take 6 months, I don't want 
to talk about that

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but it will take some time, right

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talking to a girl and make her fall in love 
with you

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it will took 6 months or 2-3 years however

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instead of trying hard for tthat, I'll take 
my phone now

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and will see xnxx, naughty america, brazzers 
kind of sites

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and will do masturbation to get the rquired 
pleasure in 2 minutes

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so guys, be clear,

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you can get the safe sexual plessure , instead 
of trying hard and follwing a girl for love

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so you don't need a girl in first place

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it's no need now, second thing is after finishing 
masturbation

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how you'll feel about you, you'll ashamed 
of yourself

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you'll feel yourself as a alien while walking 
on road

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you have no confident even at the scale of 
hair

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so as you has own pleasure, you don't need 
a girl and if you try to talk with one

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you're feeling ashamed oif you, so how you'll 
have that confident

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so first, you won't have that idea

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so are you clear, now you controlled masturbation, 
still you'll have that feeling

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now also we need sex, but you know that

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masturbation is safe pleasure, but we'll 
search for real woman

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still we need sex, so we have no other choice, 
even if it's hard

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we need girls, so need is created now

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second thing is you controlled masturbation 
now

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you'll feel yourself as superman

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even if you're not as confidence will rise 
that persona

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okay, you have need and also controlled masturbation

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so hight at confidence and need sex, so

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automatically you will have the attitude 
to approach a girl

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so be clear, so control nofap and rise your 
confidence

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okay, guys masturbation is a big issue

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to my knowledge, I know the people who still 
masturbates even after

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getting married, so don't be likme that your 
life will be spoiled

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so avoid masturbation completely

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second me and my friend are career focuses

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we both learn about, philosophy, psychology, 
business, corporate, life

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so we're feared about the way future takes 
us, that is we need girls

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and there is another group who thinks we 
dont need girls

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I'm feared about that, so I'll explain about 
that in another video