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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your 
relationship coach love guru

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This is the story of my phone consultation 
client

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he is a boy and he said that he is loving 
a girl for an year

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he loves her so much and he never talked 
with her

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and he even don't know how to talk with her

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and he asked me to teach him to behave strongly 
towards her

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so I teached him everything, but before that

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I asked him to to talk casually talk with 
her and he said he was nervous

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I said that just be casual to her, and he 
said that

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she looks with angry face and she is like 
a robo with stale personality

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and he is feared about getting humiliated 
or scolded from her

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and he expressed his fear

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I'll tell another story for you, recently 
I went for a gym for workout

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that time a senior had good physique than 
me

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and I wanted to talk with him, but not like 
what you're thinking

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he had good physique, so if I did workout 
with him, then

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I will also get good physique like him

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as he had experiences, so he will warn me 
before doing any mistakes and

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I'll learn his techniques, so

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so I'll also planned to workout with him

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the problem is he is very stiff, he will 
come to gym and will exercise

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he will never talk to anyone and no one will 
also talk to him

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he will look very stale and others will think 
twice before talking to him

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I thought he may humiliate me if I talked 
to him,

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so I talked with him with some fun and it 
went like that

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I'll tell one last thing, actually my friend 
joined in a new office

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she joined in that office for 2 days and 
she said that

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she had this collegue sitting near to her 
who looks very handsome

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she said that he never talked with her and 
I too ignored her in this matter of fact

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in the 3rd day after her joining I had a 
situation to meet her in the office

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I saw her, she is walking like a robot

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she is talking like a robot and she is not 
smiling

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she left me after some time like that, I'm 
thinking that she is not such type of a girl,

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she used to kill me with her fun talking 
skills

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then I realised the 3 situations here

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these 3 are in their gaurd, it means

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they are trying to protect them and prevent 
misused by others

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they use this position for their safety

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we'll like a robo for sometime

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for example, think this, we usually behave 
happily

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we're moving to a new location now like new 
gym or office

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we'll be very normal and we'll never smile 
with others

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we'll be very stale and pale looking because

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if we behaved friendly at the start then 
we may get misused by others

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so due to that fear we

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will behave like sturdy robo and it's called 
as gaurd

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now I  hope you're clear

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this gaurd is followed in unconditional situations, 
specially girls will always gaurd themselves

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it's not bad as they prevent boys take advantage 
of her

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but the problem is if you like a boy and 
you want him to talk with you

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but you follow gaurd during that time also

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you want him to talk with you but yet you're 
behaving like a robo

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then he will look at you with some interest, 
but due to this gaurd

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he may think that you will refuse to talk 
or humiliate in front of others

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girls be clear,

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80% of the boys are mostly weak guys only

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and they are nice guys so can't talk bravely, 
only 20% are strong

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so they can talk at any situation remaining 
20 will never talk normally

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and during this gaurd time they

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will never talk with you if they are from 
one of the 80%

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having gaurd for others is no issues, but 
in front of your favourite person is

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is bad and he will never talk with you well

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so be free and casual, so

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he will speak with confident and if you keep 
that guard, you will suffer like my friend

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