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this is the story of my personal coaching 
client, actually she had break-up issue for 
3 months

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I heard her issue and gave some solution 
to her for how to behave

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and I said that he will again love you in 
two months if you followed my instructions

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but she was feared very much and stated that 
she will join personal coaching

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then she joined, I completely guided her

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everything went smoothly and she showed some 
messages

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she was done many mistakes while texting 
as texting has many formats

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the issue with her is in the beginning also

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she may did correct texting as she had no 
fears, now he has left her

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so now she is making these mistakes with 
fear of losing him again

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so I explained about how to do right texting

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then only he will be interested and otherwise 
it will be boring for him

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I taught those format, so I thought it would 
be useful for you

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I'll teach the original texting format which 
applies for ex and current partner also

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then your interest will be maintained, let's 
see

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there are seven major things, we'll look 
one by one

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1.formal type, there are routine formats

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formal texts like hi, how are you, what are 
you doing

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be clear, when starting a conversation

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if you use these words then you will look 
very bored

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because they will know that, who talk formally 
like these are the ones

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who don't know how to talk, so they use these 
things routinely

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they will always ask, hi, got food?, how 
are you?, what are you doing?

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these are the routine things by them

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and when you do this you may look as boring 
so

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throw away this formal messaging and be casual 
then only

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they will get interest in you, 2.short text

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like hmm, kk, wru, hru

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it will make the boys irritated, here

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you make them feel that you're not interested 
in them

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think well if you sent this texts to a guy 
who is not interesting

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then you will feel to give this short texts 
when you're not interested in conversation

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okay, he will leave and it has no impact 
but

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if you talked with the guy you love, then 
he may think you're not interested

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if you done this routinely, then he will 
think that

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you're not interested and he will move for 
next girl

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3.sending essays, some will correct the short 
messages

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but some will type an essay, for example

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one girl sending essay to her boyfriend

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the issue is he will hate to read all and 
it will make you look needy

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that will reduce your interest, so correct 
answer is

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never do short or heavy, just be middle level 
text

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4.misunderstandable, guys be clear there 
is one issue in texting

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that is if you're talking with a girl, and 
while in call

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if I said I'll die in a romantic tone it 
will convet in that tone

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it will increase interest,

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but if you said the same thing in text

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they won't know about the emotions in that

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so in texting the content will be passed 
but not the right emotion

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the issue is while in relationship

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if you're close with him it's not a big deal 
after misunderstanding

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if you're starting new then it's hard to 
fix

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if you use emoji then it will convey emotion 
also

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but if you never used emoji then it may get 
misunderstood

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see there is some difference between fun 
and being funny

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for example while talking with a girl

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she is cracking a joke then it will look 
good

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I will think that she is fun and interesting 
but if she is always like that

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then I'll think she is funny, if you do a 
standup

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then the everything you say there will be 
joke and it's not an issue

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you will appear as a comedian, they're liked 
by all

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but no one will love comedian

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if you're always be like that, then they 
will use you and just talk for some time 
and will leave you

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so this is the problem, next 6.make them 
text you

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girls you're talking with boys, I'm happy 
but if you always be like that

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then you will appear as lower value and will 
anyone loves you

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no, then you need to make them fall for you

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so you need to make them express their interest

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so if you always texted him then you're oneside 
and lower value

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if he texted you

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it means that he values you and have some 
interest for you

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so if you always texts first then stop that 
and allow them to text

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next Interview questions, actually I talked 
with a girl one time

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2 years before, she asked too much of questions 
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not leaving me, and I advised her to become 
an HR

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she asked why?, I said that even interviews 
has lesser amount of questions

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she is killing with questions

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see girls, questions is not wrong, but never 
ask questions always

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that will make conversation as an interview

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so these are 7 texting format, so using this 
will make them to get interested in you

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