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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, India's first 
relationship coaching channel, I'm your relationship 
coach XXX.

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this is the story of my phone consultation 
client

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he and that girl are loving for 8 months 
and the girl is the one who proposed first

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first four months went fine and

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he loved that girl deeply and adored her

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he gave many gifts to her, but

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after the four months she avoided him and 
sweared at him

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and she speak bad about his family too, so 
he got depressed

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for past month he is going through Psychiatrist 
treatment

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he is clueless about what's going on and 
how to make her to love her

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then he saw our no contact rule video

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then he used that and it went good for him

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so asked me to teach relationship psychology, 
the first thing I said after hearing his 
story

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if she is not loving him he is a pure nice 
guy

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in the start she thought that, he was a

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strong guy, so she proposed him

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but after having a relationship she realised 
that he was a nice guy

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so I said this is the reason for her hate

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then I teached him the relationship psychology

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then he said that, he is not a nice guy and 
he always behave strongly

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then also I'm strongly said that he is a 
nice guy

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and he refused to accept the fact, and he 
also said that he got 23 marks in one of 
my video

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and he claimed that he is a strong guy, so 
this is the topic

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there are two types of nice guys

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number one thing is a girl is not loving 
you because

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you're a nice guys, firstly if you don't 
know about nice guys

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we already published a video about nice guys, 
watch that with the 'i' button and then watch 
this

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we already seen enough of nice guys in our 
channel

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there are two types of nice guys and we'll 
see about that

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if this world has 100% of men then

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5% male are alpha or strong males and 20% 
are jerks

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remaining 75% are nice guys only

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in this 75%, 30% are pure nice guys

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it means whoever, it may be mother, father

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brother, sister, friends, wife

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lover, boss, watchman whoever

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they will care everyone and love them and 
do the things for them

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and they will be good at them and expect 
the same respect, care and love from them

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and they won't get that these are one type 
of nice guys and we seen them in many places

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they're too soft and they will never say 
no

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they will always help everyone and will give 
care and love

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these types are boys are known as good boys

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listen, our mom, dad, friends, wife, lover, 
sister whoever

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if they say you are a good boy, then you're 
a nice guy

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they're first type the 30%

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second type is the remaining 40% of people

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these type of guys will behave harshly at 
their surrounding and peoples

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they will behave strong and attentive

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they will say no if they want, they're perfect, 
but if it comes to girls

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they will turned off, specially to lover 
or wife

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they will be slave for them and will say 
yes to everything

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they will be below at their foot, and will 
behave to impress them

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they will also willing to sacrifice life 
for them, for friends they will simply ignore

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they will behave strongly to boys, and for 
lover, wife or a girl

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they will willing to help them

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then they will behave nicely to that girls

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so those girls will eventually fool them

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they will only behave weak to girls and if 
we ask them why

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they will say like they can't behave strongly 
to her only

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they will do this in the fear of losing her

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they will say stories like this

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then they're pure nice guys in that 30% share

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other type will be nice only with girls, 
lovers and wife

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they're the remaining 40%, whatever

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you're behaving weak and nice to girls

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so what will happen after being nice guy, 
no girl will willing to love you

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we already posted a video about

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if you're the guy loved by girls, that video 
was made for general nice guys

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you can check if you exist in the first 30% 
of nice guys by using that video

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so I gave the link in 'i' button

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and check if you are in that first 30%

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if you escaped that, then there are chances 
for you being in the second type of 40%

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so I'll post a new video to find that type

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so guys finally we saw about two types of 
nice guys

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guys if you're a nice guy

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you'll never find happy in girl, money and 
life

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just get rid of the nice guy persona, otherwise 
no girl will ever love you

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how to overcome that and behave strong,

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we'll post videos about that soon