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Hi, my name is Suze.

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Today I want to talk with you about

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the belief that it is better to be happy 
than to be rich.

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As if that has anything to do with each other!

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I have also said, for a long time,

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if we need to we can always live in a tent.

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I prefer happines over riches.

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Yes, sure! Who doesn't?

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We would ALL prefer happiness over riches, 
right?

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But you know what? In reality, they are unrelated.

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And that is what this short video is about.

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Life is not about money. It just isn't.

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Money doesn't make you happy. It doesn't.

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And money really doesn't help. It really 
doesn't

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You know what, ask yourself the question

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I started asking myself this question at 
a certain point

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does it REALLY not even help a bit?

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Because I had been working hard to get my 
finances sorted, so I could be happy once 
that was done...

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And I didn't think there was a relationship

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But I did think this: as long as my finances 
are a mess, I cannot be happy.

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First I have to work hard. Get everything 
done. Organize the mess.

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And then, I might come to a point where I 
could allow myself happiness

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I have been living like that for a long long 
time.

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And after a few years I started thinking: 
ok, I am saying that

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but do I really believe this? Because why 
am I never arriving in that place?

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THAT is when I started to ask the question: 
when am I actually happy?

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And I would like you to ask yourself that 
question. Right now.

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Get yourself a pen and a piece of paper.

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And start writing a few things that genuinly 
make you happy

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Things that open your heart. That make you 
feel who you are, make you flow

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things that make you feel HAPPY! Take a moment 
and write it down. Right now!

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Pause the video. Do it now!

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I hope you really did this excercise.

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Because now I will start to tell you what 
I discovered

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There are only two things that truly make 
me happy.

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Firstly: the people around me.

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Secondly: experiences I have had.

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And both these people and experiences cost 
NOTHING.

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Maybe a few euro's. Not more. I mean, honestly

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what makes me happy is Schiermonnikoog, walking 
on the beach

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ok, so I might need to buy a trainticket.

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I don't live next to the sea. So it does 
cost a little.

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But very little.

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True happiness has NOTHING to do with money

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Once I started to investigate this deeper 
I realised: wait a minute

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I find myself thinking that I need to solve 
my finances in order to be happe

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but is that REALLY true?

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That is when I started realising that the 
opposite IS true

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When I am happy, a lot more clients enjoy 
working with me

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and I am a lot more attractive for people 
who want to

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do business with me.

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When I am happy, and I am really not worrying 
at all about money

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I am a way better person to be around. Lighter. 
Brighter.

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and therefore I make more money when I am 
happy.

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So yes, if you are happy, your chances of 
wealth increase significantly

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But rich people are not at all happier

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On the contrary. I know a TON of REALLY wealthy 
people

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many of which are very happy, many of which 
are very unhappy.

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But I also know a ton of poor people.

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Many of which are very happy. And many of 
which are very unhappy.

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It is just not related to each other.

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But once you are happy, your chances of riches 
are a lot higher.

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One of the most important factors that helped 
me to improve this

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and helped me nourish myself with this kind 
of happiness that has riches as byproduct

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inner or outer riches, that doesn't even 
really matter. That is a matter of choice.

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I don't care if you become a millionaire. 
I also don't care if I become a millionaire 
myself.

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I am interested in inspiring people and doing 
that what makes me truly happy.

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I donate a lot of my money to charities. 
I invest back in my business.

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so I can reach more people. I don't have 
to be very rich on a personal level.

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That is not my goal. Nor is it the goal of 
most of my clients.

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But once you start attracting money into 
your life, you get choice

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choice what to do with it, who to give it 
to. And THAT is very nice!

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The most improtant thing that helped me to 
discover and do what I needed to do

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and helped me to see the value; not of 'being 
able to have a luxury holiday'

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but that I could do what truly makes me happy 
- that doesn't even cost much -

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WHILE releasing all of my money worries.

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was surrounding myself with other people.

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The most crucial thing I did for myself was 
surrounding myself with the right kind of 
people

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People who don't negate these beliefs, but 
support them.

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People who have strategies that DO work for 
them.

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And if you little voice is now saying: ok, 
so where are these people?

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You can find them for instance iun my FaceBook 
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Entrepreneurs

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Just click the link below

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Right here, below this video

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That is where I am live, to answer all your 
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We do Challenges, and I am looking forward 
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Bye!

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