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Welcome to Love Guru channel, I'm your relationship 
coach love guru

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today we'll see about how to solve boy bestie 
issues, the important issue we consider here 
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a general mistake we often do

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and we'll see about the solution for that 
as well

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and you'll understand the mistake only after 
a big story for example and then

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you'll understand everything, actually

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I'm very interested in psychology from very 
young age,

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and I started working on it from 11th Std, 
I'll observe other's actions

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and thinks why some people will get their 
job done by talking and others won't?

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why few can make others smile, while others 
fail at that?

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why someone attract everyone easily, while 
others are hated by everyone?

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I done analysis and research on this from 
11th Std

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actually due to lack of Internet facilities, 
I'm able to crack up only 40% on my own

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remaining 60% was took some time to discover

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because then I worked deeply with internet

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I always talks with all types of people including 
boys, girls, uncle, grandparents

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I'll leave no one and

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I'll ask doubts from strongly behaving boys 
and girls

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and they'll cry at me to leave then only 
I'll leave them

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after that I reached 80-85% of knowledge

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I done that in detail, like what to do if 
they looked angrily, smiled at us

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if they sit towards us or not

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I done everything deeply, but after I completely 
landed at something

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I thought that psychology is very simple, 
there are many things

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we don't need that much, we can simply describe 
that

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even though I learned that much, it won't 
needed at all

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simple understanding is the best solution

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I'll always explain simply towards my clients

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and will never go for detailed expolaination 
as it may confuse them

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wife was asking divorce from my married client

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and he asked me to solve, so I simply explained 
and he asked me to explain it deeply

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I warned him that it will confuse him, but 
he was adamant, so I explained in detail

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now he will always asks doubts, like what 
I need if she smiles or she is looking mad 
at me?

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and what to do if she asks me whether I had 
food or not?

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if she asks how are you?, just say fine, 
good or great

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that is the problem here, if you dig deeply 
into that

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you'll become that much obsessive and

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will have overthink about that, whenever 
you overthink in relationships

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God will eagerly waiting to give a finishing 
card for your relationship

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remember solution is always simple

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but the problem is people can't digest the 
fact

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because, they will have a pre-conciveable 
notion in their mind, that is

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we have to work more to get desired results, 
for example

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daily hardwork only yields salary

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everything has a price of hardwork and it's 
in our mind

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in those situation, you don't need that much 
hardwork

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and they can't accept my simple solutions 
during that time, take that married client 
for example

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his wife lost interest on him, so i suggested 
for no-contact rule

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but he can't accept that and aksed me more 
questions

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like bro can I create jelousy?, can I apologise 
or shout at her?

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as he was so obsessive he can't control his 
emotions

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so he broke the no-contact and she lost interest 
even more

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guys, solution is simple if she lost interest, 
use no-contact rule

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I already explained it's working and just 
hold with that

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less is more, and don't do many things to 
win her love

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it will collapse everything, another client 
came with boy bestie issue

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he and that girl was in relationship for 
a year and she is not talking well with him 
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as she spends most of her time with her boy 
bestie

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I asked for more information and understood 
him well

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he behaved so weakly, be clear

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boy bestie issue has one sloution only, as 
your character is so weak she never respects 
you

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and she is spending time with him,

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if you knew earlier about this you won't 
face this issue

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me and my best friend never faced this issue

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because we always behave strongly

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I had a Ex few years back and she talked 
about his boy bestie always

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I clearly said to her to never talk about 
him as I disliked him

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she asked me why and I said I'm not sure 
about it, then she said that she won't talk 
about him

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then she never talked to him also, as I'm 
strong

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I clearly said to my client that he behaved 
weakly

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you need to change your character so she 
can listen you

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actually he was a consultation client, he 
left after that advice and one day all of 
a sudden he was crying in the voice call

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he said that she had broke up with him and 
he further explained about the mistakes done 
by him

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he was constantly scolded and shouted at 
her

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and he criticized her boy bestie and compared 
him with that guy

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I already told you guys

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whenever you compare you with others you 
subconciously saying that

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you have fear of that boy bestie stealing 
your girl

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and you expressing yourself as a lower value

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if she can love you further, no chance brothers

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he did many things to win her love

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and he went to talk with girl bestie to create 
jelousy

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now that girl broke up with him, guys be 
clear if you have boy bestie issues

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solution is very simple your character is 
very weak

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if you change that she will love you, or 
if you think she will love you if do many 
things like making her jelous

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or criticize her or her bestie, it's game 
over for you

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so guys I posted this video mainly

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warn you to avoid your pre-concieved thoughts 
of doing complex things

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I hope I explained everything well

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if you want to make your crush to love you, 
solve your relationship issue, get back your 
Ex

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