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welcome to love guru channel,I'm your relationship 
coach Love Guru

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this is the story of my phone consultation 
client, she said that she is loving a boy 
for 3 years and it's one side

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he never knew about that, for the last two 
months

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me and that boy are chatting, and it's on 
basic level

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the issue is she don't know how to talk with 
him, she thinks taht she may screw this

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she is very much worried, so

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so she asked how to talk with him in chat, 
so I said

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to understand the situation, as many basic 
ideas there for to project ourself as attractive 
to other humans

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many ideas are there and I said that I will 
explain the basic 7 ideas

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I'll teach that 7 ideas in simple way today

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1.be fun, your ultimate goal of the conversation 
should be fun

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many girls are carrying your conversation 
in a boring way

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and in a serious way, do you think that

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you can live 40-50 years with a person who 
talks seriously?

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no chance, if you always talked like this 
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that boy will think that you're like this 
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so be clear, your conversation must be funnier

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if you keep that convo funnier then youn 
will look attractive to that guy

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2.speak mutual connection, the issue is

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we find very few people who are mutually 
connecting

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for example, you're a pet lover and want 
to talk about that

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but no one is there to understand and feel 
that thing

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it will make your life empty and

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if you got your favourite person as a pet 
lover like you, then how it will be?

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we wish to talk with them always and they 
do the same

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if you connected mutually then

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they will attracted towards you as mutually 
connected persons

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are very rare, understand that

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3.tease him, many girls

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willobey everything your boyfriend says and 
no one likes that kind of slaves

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if you face someone like this the do you 
willling to talk with them?

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you will hate to talk with them as they're 
like slaves obeying orders

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whoever trolls us, not extremely but naturally

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they're true to themselves, if you besties 
are always agree to you

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no they will troll you and you like them 
for what they are

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so tease the opposite guy and he will love 
that

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if you be like a slave then you will suffer

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4.be yourself, I'm seeing many girls

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they're faking their character to impress 
them

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they may get attracted to that fake personality, 
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the issue is you can't act lifelong like 
that

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so never fake yourself and be attractive 
with natural character

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you can't act till the end and whenever you 
do this then hit yourself

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to remind this, okay

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5.show that you don't have ego, many girls 
have ego issues

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maybe they think that they will get poorly 
treated by men for their antics

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so they behave with ego

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now I'm here, if some boy behaved with ego 
then I'll behave in the same way

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if you show ego then they will show the same 
ego

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people will always mirror you, if he never 
texted today

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then do text and show that you have no ego, 
if you showed ego then people will behave 
in the same way

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so clearly understand and never show ego

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6.create a connection with him the problem 
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no one will making connection with their 
partners,

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like I go to gym and will talk well with 
my gym coach for the day

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that's all and if I left him for some days 
then he will ignore me and i'll also ignore 
him

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I'll again see him and will talk well with 
him

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and he will talk in the moment only and this

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is the basic connection, so what he need 
to think about me other than this

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so we have normal business and that's all, 
never be like this

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that will be bland like sand, so

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always keep connection, like you're saying 
that

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you like a model from audi

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then if he says that he saw that audi car 
someday, then it's a connection

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as he thinked about your favourite thing

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you gave some pet name to him or vice versa, 
this is a connection

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he need to feel you when you're not there 
taht's called connection

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so think about the connection you want to 
make with them

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otherwise, he will think you talk with them 
for timepass

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never be like that, 7.behave like an opposite 
sex

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as I previously said the most seductive quality 
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just make them feel as opposite sex

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I'm a masculine energy and if the girl near 
me is feminine energy, then I can't control

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I'll automatically attracted towards her

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it will automatically pulls me, it's world's 
nature

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it's like magnets, so if he is masculine

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behave as feminine and he will not able to 
control

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he will automatically attracted towards you

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all these things are most seductive quality

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the thing that attracts a boy is being opposite 
energy

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be feminine for masculine and vice versa, 
be in midlevel if he is in mddle stage

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I already posted a video about masculinity 
and feminity

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click I button so see that video

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I'll post a another video for how to text 
to your boyfriend

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