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welcome to Love Guru channel, Tamil's first 
relationship coaching channel, I'm your relationship 
coach XXX

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today we'll see about

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why we don't need to talk about logic in 
relationship

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recently a boy from Trichy joined for personal 
coaching

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this is the story he said to me,"I and that 
girl loved for 3.5 years"

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"And she'll always say like Im her world 
and her life and without me she would never 
live"

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"and she'll torture me to get married soon"

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"she loved me that much and if I ignore her 
for one day"

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"she'll behave like she lost her life,"

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"she loved that much, if I hang up the call, 
she'll dial for 40-50 times"

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"she loved me that much, but one day"

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"there was a problem, and she kept distancing 
me"

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"I begged at her and she moved even far and 
I begged even more"

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"at last I cried, and she left me by saying 
she don't need me"

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"I don't know what to do, please reunite 
her with me"

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he said that in 1st day class

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and we analysed his story in the 1st day

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and we told his mistakes and how to solve 
that

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and in 2nd day, we teached relationship ideas, 
psychology and theme

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we gave strategy plans to him

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he went in that process, but one day

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and he texted a doubt to our official whatsapp 
number

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I called him in the evening

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he said that they had sexual relationship 
many times in their 3 years of love

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and before that fight he had lost his interest 
in her for 1.5 years

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and he asked her for breakup many times

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and that time she'll cry and

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she will say that they had sex so he have 
to marry her

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and she always cry and tells this reason 
whenever he ask for a breakup

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and she will say that nobody will marry her 
other than him

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he will ignore that always,

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but in that fight after she asked for a breakup 
he cried a lot and feared about loosing her

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and he said that as she claimed they had 
sex

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so he said that will make issues for her 
so we must avoid breakup

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and she replied that she had no issues with 
sex to him

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and she leaved him

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and in that moment he hated his life

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always she will say about their sexual relationship 
and forced him to marry her

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and she'll repeat that always

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but now she said that she is okay with that 
and leaves him

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he said that he can't digest that

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how she suddenly changed her attitude

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he get mental depression out of this, and 
do you know the solution for this?

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listen, there is no logic in love

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this is the topic of the day

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why relationship has no logic, understand 
the working of relationship

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it's based on emotions and never expect logic 
there

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and how you make a girl feel in that moment

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will decide her behaviour of that time

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the issues with boys is this only

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boys are thinking machine, life and girls 
are same

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and they think that girls are also working 
in logic

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normally in a friend, machine, life

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we'll think logically after getting an issue

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why? how? what is the reason?

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then we'll find out the issue and try to 
solve that

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we'll think logically, but with girls no 
chance for you

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as they work on emotions

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in that moment how you make them feel is 
the key

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they will react for that, now I'll give a 
best example

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if you're in a relationship for 20 years

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you're behaving like strong and higher value

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and she'll love you so much and will treat 
you like a God

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and she'll wander around you like a cat

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but if you act weak for a day

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then she'll try to leave you, because

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you proved that you're lower value at this 
moment

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then shell behave dominant as she's the higher 
value now

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and she'll try to leave you

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and even if you loved that girl so much

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even if you're rich like ambani or have physique 
like hrithik roshan

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whatever, you behaved weak in that moment

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then you made her to think that you're higher 
value

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she'll leave you in that moment, and similarly 
in 20 years to a girl

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you behaved very weakly, she'll wander around 
you

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and will behave dominatly

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she'll treat you like a dog and after that 
20 years

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for one day if you behave like a brave men, 
she'll treat you like a God

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and that moment she'll wander around you 
like a cat

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because you're a higher value in that moment

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and you're making her lower value and you 
made these emotions in her mind

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that's why she is treating you like a God

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in that moment, even if you're bad or treated 
her very badly

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even if you never loved her

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or even if you're a begger or you have an 
ugly face

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you made the feeling that you're an higher 
value in her mind

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she'll treat you like a God and she'll never 
leave you again

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so can you understand, even if she traeted 
you like a God for 20 years

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she'll leave you if you behaved weakly for 
a day

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as you created that emotions on her mind 
in that moment

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and even if you're being weak for 20 years

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and in that moment you're creating you're 
a higher value in that moment

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then she'll love you so much

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it has no logic, if you strong at a moment 
she'll behave weakly and will love you

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if you're weak she'll leave after behaving 
strong

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another best example will be vallavan movie

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the basket ball scene in the flashback is 
my favourite

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that scene is very realistic in tamil cinema

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in that scene Simbu will beg at Reema sen 
for love

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and she'll ignore him and behave like higher 
value

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and will act dominantly and treat him very 
poorly

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in the next moment, Simbu will say that he 
don't need her anymore

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and claiming tat he had 1000 girls to choose 
and act as a dominant guy

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that's all, she'll beg like a dog now

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and she'll cry now, the one who made him 
to beg like a dog

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is now begging at him, is there any logic 
here?

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in that second simbu showed he is higher 
value

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and she is weak in that moment so she loves 
simbu at that moment

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here there is no logic

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the behaviour of the girl will depend on 
how you make that girl to feel

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this guy came for personal coaching behaved 
weakly in that moment and she acted dominantly

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so she left him, so for next time

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when a girl is leaving or behaving dominantly

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in that time never talk logic like, we had 
sex

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or we loved for so many days or proclaiming 
that you're the best choice

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that will make her to treat you as a lower 
value

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instead, just act strong and higher value 
like vallavan simbu

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she'll behave weakly like that heroine and

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will chase you and love you like a God

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if you want to make your crush to love you, 
solve your relationship issue, get back your 
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