1 00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:09,500 welcome to "Love Guru" channel Tamil's first relationship coaching channel, I'm your relationshipo coach XXX 2 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:14,400 'no contact rule', if you do this 3 00:00:14,500 --> 00:00:19,300 your partner's interest will increase drastically 4 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:24,200 one of the most important psychological principle 5 00:00:24,300 --> 00:00:29,100 is this only, whenever you feel that your partner has losing interest in you 6 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:34,000 then you can use no contact rule, so 7 00:00:34,100 --> 00:00:38,000 that interest will increased many times more 8 00:00:38,100 --> 00:00:42,900 it's opposite of [UNKNOWN WORD]love, commonly 9 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,800 what will you do after your lover loses interest in you?, or 10 00:00:47,900 --> 00:00:52,700 what will your friends and family will advice to do? 11 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:56,700 they will instruct to apologise, give more love 12 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:02,800 if you want to lose all the interest she left for you then listen to their advices 13 00:01:02,900 --> 00:01:09,800 listen, your issue is already your love, life, time 14 00:01:09,900 --> 00:01:14,700 you gave these things easily, that's why 15 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:19,600 she is not respecting your love and values you 16 00:01:19,700 --> 00:01:24,500 so what we'll going to do, here the no contact principle is coming 17 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:29,400 it's like a God's gift to save your relationship 18 00:01:29,500 --> 00:01:34,300 if you use this, your partner will get more interest in you 19 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:39,200 she'll look you as a higher value like old times 20 00:01:39,300 --> 00:01:44,100 so what is no contact rule? 21 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:49,000 for a particular days, have no contact with your lover, simply no calls 22 00:01:49,100 --> 00:01:53,900 no message, no meeting then 23 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:58,800 you need to respond only after they try to reach you 24 00:01:58,900 --> 00:02:03,700 till then, you need to have zero contact with them 25 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:08,600 never break this rule at any point, if you break this, your interest will fall 26 00:02:08,700 --> 00:02:13,500 listen, if she talks after the no contact 27 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:18,400 it means she missed you so much and the interest in you was increased drastically 28 00:02:18,500 --> 00:02:24,800 no contact days: how much interest does your lover has on you 29 00:02:24,900 --> 00:02:29,700 plays a vital role on the days or time of this no contact rule 30 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:34,600 if it's 20% then it will took 45 days 31 00:02:34,700 --> 00:02:39,500 if she has 35% interest then 32 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:44,400 it will take 30 days to work 33 00:02:44,500 --> 00:02:49,300 she will also contact you after the 30 days 34 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:53,600 I'll give an example with this 35 00:02:53,700 --> 00:02:57,400 before seeing the remaining content, 36 00:02:57,500 --> 00:03:02,300 if you want to know other contents such as love psychology, relationship ideas and tips 37 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:07,200 do subscribe and hit the notification bell icon 38 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:14,100 now konow what this 30 days no contact will do in your lover's mind 39 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:19,000 there will be 3 process will happen in no contact 40 00:03:19,100 --> 00:03:23,000 example learn about 30 days no contact 41 00:03:23,100 --> 00:03:27,900 first process is the fall of negative memories 42 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:32,800 the negative memories in your partner's memory will fade away 43 00:03:32,900 --> 00:03:37,700 the name of this thing is fading bias 44 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:42,600 no in her mind, the things like you shouted at her, begged at her 45 00:03:42,700 --> 00:03:47,500 cried at her and your weakness will fade away 46 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:52,400 she'll forget that you're a lower value 47 00:03:52,500 --> 00:03:57,300 second ten days will be Rise of postive memories 48 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:02,200 in those days, she'll think positive memories about you 49 00:04:02,300 --> 00:04:07,100 like the jokes, fun you both had 50 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:12,000 those kind of things will run in her mind 51 00:04:12,100 --> 00:04:16,900 she'll think you as a higher value person now 52 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:21,800 3rd process is value of scarcity 53 00:04:21,900 --> 00:04:26,700 "our partner will always beg at me at least once in a week or 10 days" 54 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:31,600 "what happened now, after 20 days he haven't contacted me yet?" 55 00:04:31,700 --> 00:04:36,500 she'll think like this, 56 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:41,400 she will think you as higher value and doubt about your lower value 57 00:04:41,500 --> 00:04:46,300 and she may even fear about you getting a new partner 58 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:51,200 and many people will confuse them like this 59 00:04:51,300 --> 00:04:56,100 how long she will kept you in no contact means, that much attraction it will yield for you 60 00:04:56,200 --> 00:05:01,000 she will miss you so much and scared about losing you 61 00:05:01,100 --> 00:05:05,900 now scarcity principle will work 62 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:10,800 what is scarcity principle? 63 00:05:10,900 --> 00:05:15,700 when you think that you almost lost some thing, then you'll make it as higher value thing and will love that so much 64 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:20,600 30 days is over, still you're not messaging 65 00:05:20,700 --> 00:05:24,700 no calling, contact or anything 66 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:29,600 at the point of thinking that they'll lose you 67 00:05:29,700 --> 00:05:34,500 she'll contact you, to be clear, now 68 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:39,400 you will seems to be a higher value guy and has heavy attraction 69 00:05:39,500 --> 00:05:44,300 this is the power of no contact rule 70 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:49,200 always try this no contact rule when you feel she has loss of interest in you 71 00:05:49,300 --> 00:05:54,100 then you can behave strong to 72 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:59,000 surely increase her attraction for you 73 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:08,400 if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex 74 00:06:08,500 --> 00:06:11,500 we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones 75 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,800 by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services 76 00:06:14,900 --> 00:06:19,700 if you want that services, use the link in the description to book 77 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:24,600 we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back 78 00:06:24,700 --> 00:06:29,500 and we're giving 100% assurance for that 79 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:34,400 if you want to follow us on Insta and FB, use the links below to follow, 80 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:40,500 do comment about this video in comment section and also mention the topics about love you want to see as videos 81 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:45,400 so we can make that, also subscribe to see upcoming videos in our channel 82 00:06:45,500 --> 00:06:49,900 share with your friends if you think this will help them, thanks for watching!