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In the middle of conflict,

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it’s easy to campaign for our cause so passionately

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that we forget another person is on the other 
end of our comments and our frustration.

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We should always attempt to remember their 
perspective.

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They might be arguing from a place of loneliness 
or pain,

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while you’re fighting from a place of wanting 
to be right.

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If you win the argument, but isolate yourself 
from that person,

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have you truly won?

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Take the high road instead.

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Elevate the other person’s confidence by 
connecting with them rather than isolating, 
critiquing, and diminishing;

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showing value to others is always more important 
than being right.

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I’m Mac Hammond, and this is the Winner’s 
Minute.