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welcome to love guru channel, I'm your relationship 
coach love guru

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how to get rid of break-up, recently many 
clients

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saying this issues and they are too negative 
that I'm feared of them

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because they can make me depressed too

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this will get things worse, already

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we posted a video about get rid of break-up

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that video has explanation of psychological 
techniques and if you practiced that

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you will get rid of that, still

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people can get rid of that if they have this 
two type of attitude, we'll see that today

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this is happened to me I can't handle now, 
it will be fine after some day

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then everything will be restored and I'll 
be happy

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you think that you'll be happy for 100% after 
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expecting like that, but guys

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learn about life, life is like a roller coaster

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you'll be happy for 6 months and sad for 
another , and 6 months in depression

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and spend another 6 in jelous, life is like 
a cycle

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you will run constantly like this

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you think that it would be good if life is 
full of happiness

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learn, life will be boring if filled with 
joy

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there is no such choice so you can't be like 
that

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I'll explain why, Biriyani will taste good

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but can you eat that for 3 times for every 
day?

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it will get bored, i recently saw a Myskin's 
interview

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he said one thing, we have to accept pain

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because, when you suffered in sun, then you 
realise the value of shadow

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listen, always good will be bad

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shadow will be god after suffering in sun

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after eating tasteless food, then only biriyani 
will taste good

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same goes for happiness, if you always be 
happy then it has no value

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when you struggled in pain and tehn felt 
happiness

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you will be happy , so never expect happiness

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then you will never have happiness in your 
life

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roller coaster life will be good, God or 
science knows this

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so it's like this,, sometimes happiness, 
sometimes sadness

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it's a routine cycle and it will be like 
this only

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people unaware of this idea will think that, 
they need to be happy always

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they think that they will be always happy 
after marriage

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they will be happy always after acheiveing 
goals or becoming rich

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or after having a baby

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they will expect happiness always, being 
positive is okay

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but when you expect happiness you can't bear 
with small issues

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specially break-up, loss of loved ones

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then you will get depressed, life is a roller 
coaster guys

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then only it will be fine with rotation of 
joy, sadness and everything

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even after this many can't accept this

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they will be like beng ahppy after marriage 
or after some issues

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having baby or after achieving goals, becoming 
rich

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they will always expect happiness

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recently I saw a video about rich celebrities 
being depressed

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and all celebrities is telling about their 
issues and all celebrities are rich only

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they all look beautiful and have good backgrounds

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they all ahve babies and completed their 
goals, still

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they tell that they are depressed

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they ahve the thoughts of having sucide

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I gave the link of the video in description 
check that out

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you desire their status, which they already 
have

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but they all saying that they are depressed 
and having sucidal thoughts

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so guys be clear, after achieving this goals

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you won't be always happy, life is a rollercoaster 
of happiness, sadness

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so be clear, if you expect eternal joy

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it's not bad, it's a good attitude but

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be clear that negative things do happen please 
accept that

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accepting negative things is a must

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like 'Nenjam Marappadhillai' movie, shit 
happens and that's life

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so breakup or any negative issue, be positive

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it's not bad, but expecting only positive 
things

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is bad and will trap in small negative things

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develop the attitude of handling negative 
issues,

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we can manage those issues, grow that attitude

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I'm telling one last time, if you always 
expect happiness

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then small issues will trouble you, be positive 
and happy

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but think that you can handle negative issues

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breakup or any issues, you will survive so 
develop this attitude

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second attitude is future partner and certainity

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in most of the breakup the main reason taht 
pushes people to break-up is

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they think that they have good bond with 
their partner

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so they feel comfortable and loss that after 
loosing them

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they doubt that another partner will give 
that same comfort

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they fool them each day, that's not true

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there are girls and boys everywhere

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they are ready to treat you like king and 
queen

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the must thing you need to do is, if you're 
a boy

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you need to select one that gives that care

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if you're a girl search for the king your 
deserve

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so guys be accept that even if the current 
partner leaves

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people who treat you like king or queen are 
there

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but we still love our Ex, because

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we have scarcity principle, which is the 
fear of losing a thing

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now when you think that you will loose your 
current Ex

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then you will feel them so valuable, and

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fear that you will not get any better partner 
so be clear

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there are thousand of people outside for 
taking care of you

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your job is to find them,

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expect happiness and if you felt negativeness 
try to grow the attitude to face negativeness

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next one is trust that many are there to 
take good care more than your current partner

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if you have this two, then automatically

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then you can get rid of breakup easily

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if you want to make your crush to love you, 
solve your relationship issue, get back your 
Ex

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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues 
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