Is it possible that I never get angry

Now tell me what is your experience, as a child when a toy was

snatched away from you, you got angry you screamed

when your milk was not, or food was not provided

or toffees was not provided or toys was not provided, havent you done that

you have done it. So and then in school, in the college in the work

time and with your friends you have experienced anger.

Now how soon you have come out of the anger

is what is more important. One is the frequency

to get angry, depends the frequncy of

your anger is directly proportional to your strength

ah a inversely proportionl to your strength. The stronger you are

less anger you get. Weaker you are more

anger, more you are prone to anger. Weak

Weaker you are, you are more prone to anger. Right?

Now, you need to look at this, where is your strength?

and where is it, why you are losing it?

Number 1, Second is your vision, your

indepth understanding of life, or people around

This also plays the part. And then the third is

your attachment. It is the attachment that brings anger in you

Degree of attachment to what you want. Behind

the anger there is the desire, you must recognize that and what is that

desire? If it is for your comfort, your

pleasure or your ego, it is a different reaction

that you have. But if it is out of compassion

if you are anger has a purpose

to set things right, it is a different thing. So Anger

need to be streamlined, dont make anger

use you, you can use anger as

as an instrument, whenever it is needed. Any household

lady, a women with the children, she knows that very well

she knows when to show anger and when not to

correct? that it is in her control.

Dont think anger is bad, all the time. No sometime anger

is good. Sometime it is sparingly used

then it is precious. But if you use it everyday

it has no value. Rather

it puts down your own value, you lose your

value. If you sparingly use it

that is very valueable. But if you use very often, it brings down

your own value.