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Dear Guru ji, What is required for one to 
become a teacher?

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Willingness

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Pundit ji, how can one overcome a broken 
heart?

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How to overcome a broken heart? How do you 
do that?

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Hmm

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Wake up and see the truth of life

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What are you hanging on to? What breaks your 
heart?

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Someone's behaviour? Someone's words? Haan?

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Weakness of the heart should be shunned

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and truth need to be known. What is truth?

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Everything in the world changes

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and everything is going to change

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has changed, will change in the future

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And you are going to drop your own body which 
you love so much

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All your life, all that you do, spend so 
much money

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put the cream here, put the cream there

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put the lipstick every two hours, every hour

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and take care of this body, it's not going 
to listen to you one day

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and you want to move your hand, you cannot 
move, you want to lift your eyes, you cannot

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open your eyes, you want to say something, 
your tongue will not move

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whole body will strike and then you simply 
have to exit of this body

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you exit dejected, frustrated because the 
body is totally

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rebellious to your commands.

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And the body will not listen whatever you 
say, you want to do

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And when you had to exit and you exit

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from the body you see it's like a waste material

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Nobody would like to get into it again

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Such is the truth of life, everything is 
going

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to disappear, everybody is going to die

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You are going to die. The person who broke 
your heart is going to die as well.

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So as long as you are alive, wake up and 
do something good

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Forget about it.

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Be bold, courageous

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Aan...so and so said this thing, oh so and 
so did

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like this, oh so and so misbehaved with me, 
what misbehaved

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You needed it.

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That makes you strong.

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Be like a lion.

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Roar like a lion.

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Upset...oh this gone, that gone

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Joy comes and goes, misery comes and goes

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Your pleasure...you are hanging on to pleasure, 
and your pleasure cannot stay forever

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sustain you all the time

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so pleasure, pain, all this comes and goes 
in life

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what is the big deal about broken heart

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Know for sure you love everybody and everyone 
loves you

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whatever their words are, their behaviours 
are, wherever

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Never doubt in the love.

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Love is some thing like space, it can never 
diminish

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it can never go away. That's true love.

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All this 'ya ya ya ya' of the mind

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Good for nothing.

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Don't waste your precious life in all that

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"I'm broken heart, I'm broken heart"

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If your limbs get broken, you can put

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What do you call it? Plaster? Cast it, plaster 
it

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The heart gets broken, you wake up, it's 
never broken.

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It's rubber. Your heart, make it like rubber, 
not a glass.

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Glass heart can break with little heat or 
little cold.

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Make your heart elastic like rubber

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And that's what the knowledge does, transform 
your heart.

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transform your mind, transform your actions.

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Feeling so lucky to be in this knowledge.

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Isn't it? How many of you feel absolutely 
lucky?

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Beloved master, I am tired of feeling wrong

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and don't know how to give it up when so 
many "You're wrong" messages come from my 
environment

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I don't like annoying or offending people 
and I'm sensitive to looks or tones of displeasure

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Historically, I have simply isolated myself

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But now, I am more in the world and find 
myself responding

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to others' annoyance with me by wanting to 
again withdraw

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because I can't be right enough, to keep 
from stepping on toes

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In the DSN course, we were asked to give 
and take criticism and to listen

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carefully, joyfully even, when another criticized 
us

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Even if their criticism was inaccurate

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Some criticisms have very harsh consequences

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such as the situation you described on Saturday 
evening, where a prominent businessman

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is losing his reputation and probably income

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Is there any point at which it is appropriate 
to stop taking criticism joyfully

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and speak up for oneself? Do I need to go

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live away from others because I can't be 
right enough?

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I'm tired of feeling that my well intentioned 
actions need defending when the

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outcome goes wrong or another judges the 
outcome wrong.

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Please share your wisdom with me and I'll 
try to do it right.

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Your grateful, if weary, disciple.

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Hmm

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It's the yoga, the asana, meditation, all 
this pranayama,

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this improves your skill in action

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Your intentions are right, but your action 
goes wrong

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There is some gear shift has happened. For 
that,

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you gain the skill by knowledge, by being 
in knowledge

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but don't think you have not progressing. 
You are progressing.

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For sure. Turn back and see. How dull you 
were, 10 years ago

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and how you are, today.

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There is an improvement. There is a proverb 
in Hindi,

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It says

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By spoiling many times, even a donkey can 
become God.

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Spoiling means.............that

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like in the milk it spoils, it becomes curd, 
and curd gets spoiled,

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broken, it becomes butter, butter gets broken, 
it becomes ghee

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So there is always, in every breaking up,

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there is always something good coming out 
of it.

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So in the same way, if a mistake has happened, 
from the mistake something

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good can come out.It doesn't mean you should 
keep doing mistakes.

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See, so in every miserable situation, something 
better can come out of it.

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Hmm. Sit Down. Yeah