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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your 
relationship coach love guru

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guys today we'll see how to save our marriage 
life from divorce

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be clear, marriage or love

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we need to do atleast 100 things to make 
that last, I'll teach everything in workshop

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after knowing that only you can have a smooth 
relationship

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right guys?, I'll try to post every topic 
in a series of video, I wish the same

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you may got tensed and aske me to finish 
pending ones, okay leave that

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in this video well see about most important 
ideas only

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for this only most marriage relationship 
get into divorce

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that is availabilty, I already told many 
times about that in channel

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I'll repeat, it's my favourite example, that 
is Biriyani

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Biriyani is a tasty food and if you have 
that once in a month, it will taste like 
heaven

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you will becoem a slave for that

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if you ate that daily, then you will hate 
to see that

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so less availabilty will create attraction

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I said that have less availability with your 
partner

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be clear, this is the story of my personal 
coaching client, he got married actually

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we'll spend our most of the tiem with wife 
and specially in covid time

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we'll spend 24 hours with our wife only as 
he was like that

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his partner lost her interest and if you 
be like this

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then your wife will think taht she wants 
to lose you

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she may scold you in bad words but will never 
tell that to you

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be clear, if you're 24 hours with somebody 
even your mother will hate you for that

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then who can give respect, she will treat 
you like a dog

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so what is the solution guys?

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reduce the availability actually, my two 
friends talked with me they got married

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they have WFH for 24 hours and they will 
stay in home always

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one firend said that he can't be part with 
his wife

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so he asked me how to get attraction without 
leaving her?, and I scolded him for that

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he wants to cure the disease without eating 
tablets

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guys be clear, there is no attraction without 
space

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if you don't give space then that relationship 
will never work

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how to save marriages from divorces, this 
is the best idea

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and if you follow correctly then your relationship 
will be maintained till the end, what is 
that

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5 months you have no issues with your wife 
but after that

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you need to have distance from her like sending 
her to her mother's house or go to a tour 
for yourself

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do whatever, but atleast have distance for 
1.5 months

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be clear, you're close with her for first 
5 months

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now you will have good attraction and it 
will reduce for each month

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so take space for 1.5 month

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this one and half month will make attraction 
for you

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they will live close like next five month

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then attraction will reduce similarly for 
next five months so after fifth month

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give space like last time to gain attraction 
again, and if you follow this routine

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then attraction will be maintained for a 
long time

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then your marriage will never face divorce, 
except the fact of you being weak

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then no can save you from this either it 
may be GOD or Rocky from KGF

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guys 4 out of 10 marriages ends in divorce

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so clear about this as 40% relationships 
ends in divorce

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if you can routinely close with her without 
diving space

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then you will end up in that 40% list