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Welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your 
marriage relationship coach love guru

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before seeing about topic, many people are 
asking

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to post psychological analysis of movies, 
I wish the same

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I also posting atleast one video of that 
type for every two months, very recently

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I posted KGF 1's psychological love analysis

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that video never get that much reach and 
it goes same for all love analysis videos

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so I can't post many, but don't worry

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I'll post those type videos for every two 
month,so let's see the topic

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for many days, we never posted about nice 
guys

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so I wanted to end that streak, so this video 
is for that

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how to find whether you're a pure nice guy 
or not?

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I'll tell one sign and if you have that, 
you can blindly trust that you're a nice 
guy

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actually before starting this channel, I'm 
unaware of this sign

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but it's been 3 years since I started this 
channel and I have completed 3000 consultations

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for the past one year I notice this sign 
and I will find this after attending a consultation

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I will learn that if the guy talking in the 
line is nice guy or not, how

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while talking with me they will talk nicely, 
softly and with innocent tone

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like they will softly say, "are you love 
guru? how are you bro?, do you had lunch 
and I have this issue bro"

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their voice will be too soft

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and it will be light and innocent,

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I will face atleast 20 nice guy consultation 
in a month and 10 from that will include 
pure nice guys

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I will clearly notice that they're pure nice 
guy after talking for the 10th second

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first why these nice guys

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talk very softly and in a innocent tone, 
there are two main reasons for that

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learn about the definition of nice guys, 
to be simple

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if we gave our care and support to others

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if we fullfill their needs and act good towards 
them

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we'll get all those love, care and support 
this is their beliefs

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they're the nice guys, now I'll tell the 
two reasons

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first reason is they never want to hurt others

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be clear, what will happen if you hurt others?

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they will never love us back, so nice guys 
will never hurt anyone

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if these nice guys has rough and tough voice

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then what will happen, it will hurt others

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it will have the chances of hurting others

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so inorder to avoid hurting others they

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will keep their voice in a nice, soft and 
innocent tone

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they wish for other's happiness, they expect 
love, care and support from others

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so these nice guys talking in this tone,

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second reason for why nice guys are using 
this tone

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is they want to show them as nice guys to 
other people

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they can tell many lies as possible and they 
will manipulate to get good name, it's important 
for them

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why this is important? if others learned 
that he is not a good guy and a bad one

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then no one will give love to them and they 
are aware of this

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so to make others think that these people 
are good they

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do talk in this nice, soft and innocent tone

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I discovered this, when me, my friend and 
my other friend had conversation

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the one in the middele had immense anger 
among both of us so he scolded us in bad 
words

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he behaved very roughly towards us

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we clearly know that[UNKNOWN WORD], so we 
calmly listened to his scoldings

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suddenly his dad called him,

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the guy who shouted in bad words suddenly

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softly talking to his dad on phone

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he talked very much innocent

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my other friend asked him why he acted all 
of a sudden for his dad

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the one who behaved roughly and scolded us

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all along acted suddenly innocent in front 
of his dad

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so I learned this on that day, so i'll give 
advice to all nice guys

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if your voice is soft innocent and nice

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do change that and that is the best option 
to turn stronger

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and never completely turn your tone rudely

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that is an even bigger issue,

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'talking like a rough and tough rude guy'

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guys this also a bad tone and never talk 
like this

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be clear guys, if you talked in a rude and 
dominant tone

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then it will make others feel as being controlled

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and no one likes that, so others will never 
talk freely with you

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so this tone is also bad, so keep your tone 
on mid level

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never too dominant or too soft

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just talk with a normal acceptance tone

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avoid too dominant and too soft

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this is the right one

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if you have any marriage or relationship 
issues

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we provide phone consultations and personal 
coaching services for those issues

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if you want that services, use the link in 
the description to book

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we'll listen to your issues and will make 
your partner to love you back

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