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After walking away from an argument,

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it's tempting to find someone who agrees 
with your side of the story and then vent 
your frustration.

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This form of gossip usually feels justifiable 
as you look for vindication of your feelings.

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However, perpetuating gossip is never right.

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Next time you’re in this position,

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don’t magnify your frustrations by talking 
about it.

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Instead, consider why that person responded 
as they did and how you could have responded 
differently to diffuse the situation.

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Remember why that person is important to 
you and let his value to you be more important 
than being right.

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The Bible puts it this way: “He who refrains 
his lips is wise.”

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I’m Mac Hammond, and this is the Winner’s 
Minute.