After walking away from an argument,

it's tempting to find someone who agrees with your side of the story and then vent your frustration.

This form of gossip usually feels justifiable as you look for vindication of your feelings.

However, perpetuating gossip is never right.

Next time you’re in this position,

don’t magnify your frustrations by talking about it.

Instead, consider why that person responded as they did and how you could have responded differently to diffuse the situation.

Remember why that person is important to you and let his value to you be more important than being right.

The Bible puts it this way: “He who refrains his lips is wise.”

I’m Mac Hammond, and this is the Winner’s Minute.