1 00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:04,800 welcome to Loive Guru channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru 2 00:00:04,900 --> 00:00:09,700 we must avoid doing some things with Ex, but my personal coaching clients 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:14,600 routinely doing 3 mistakes again and again 4 00:00:14,700 --> 00:00:19,500 because of that many are 5 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:24,400 losing their Ex girlfriends, so you have to avoid those mistakes 6 00:00:24,500 --> 00:00:27,600 for that only this video is made, 7 00:00:27,700 --> 00:00:32,500 first thing is sharing your pain with friends and relatives, I know guys 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,400 it will be hard while being in a break-up stage and we can't control ourselves 9 00:00:37,500 --> 00:00:42,300 we will get mad and sucide thoughts 10 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:47,200 and we'll think everything is finished and we want to share this with someone 11 00:00:47,300 --> 00:00:52,100 to get relieved, it's not a wrong thing 12 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:57,000 but doing like that some times cause disaster results 13 00:00:57,100 --> 00:01:02,400 and I'm saying one story from my personal coaching client for example 14 00:01:02,500 --> 00:01:07,300 he got breakup 6 months before and 15 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:12,200 he used no-contact rule for 2 times and his ex returned both the times, but 16 00:01:12,300 --> 00:01:17,100 his lack of communicating with her stopped him to make her to fall for him 17 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:22,000 so he joined my personal coaching, and I told him that 18 00:01:22,100 --> 00:01:26,900 he already used no-contact rule for 2 times so it will be his last try 19 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:31,800 I told him to listen my advice blindly and warned him that 20 00:01:31,900 --> 00:01:36,700 if he commited a mistake he will never get her again, be clear 21 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:41,600 you can't use no-contact rule many times 22 00:01:41,700 --> 00:01:46,500 it will lost it's power after 3 times of usage 23 00:01:46,700 --> 00:01:49,600 I'll explain that another day in our channel 24 00:01:49,700 --> 00:01:54,500 so I adviced him to go for the no-contact rule for one last time 25 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:59,400 but I told that it will take 3 months to work and he left after that 26 00:01:59,500 --> 00:02:04,300 after one month he cried via phone, saying that she had blocked him everywhere 27 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:09,200 and he is crying again and again and I asked the reason 28 00:02:09,300 --> 00:02:14,100 and he said that the no-contact rule was tough for him so he shared his pain with his friends 29 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:22,200 but he did'nt revealed about my plans and consultation 30 00:02:22,300 --> 00:02:27,100 and his friends scolded her to support his friend 31 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:32,000 they did this for their crying friend 32 00:02:32,100 --> 00:02:36,900 then he explained the things done by his friends 33 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:41,800 I listened everything and now I said that 34 00:02:41,900 --> 00:02:46,700 your chance is over and your friends spoiled it for you and forget the idea of getting her 35 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:51,600 and I adviced him to get another girl and he leaved with a crying face 36 00:02:51,700 --> 00:02:55,800 what can I do now, guys be clear 37 00:02:55,900 --> 00:03:00,700 you have very thin chance after the break-up 38 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:05,600 your friends is doing this for your good only, so blaming them is not right, but 39 00:03:05,700 --> 00:03:14,100 they think that only chance of making her to fall for you is by sharing your suffering to her 40 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:19,000 but be clear, they don't know the psychology 41 00:03:19,100 --> 00:03:23,900 after no-contact rule she is returning because 42 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:28,800 she knows that you're living happily without her, and you're higher value for her 43 00:03:28,900 --> 00:03:33,700 this is attractive, but your friends 44 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:42,100 make her to think about you as lower value after they explain your sufferings to her 45 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:47,000 do you love a lower value person?, then why she would do that? 46 00:03:47,100 --> 00:03:51,900 guys never share these things with friends and even if you share 47 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:56,800 warn them to never do like this 48 00:03:56,900 --> 00:04:01,700 don't forget to subscribe our channel and click the bell icon 49 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:06,600 this will develop our channel and motivate us 50 00:04:06,700 --> 00:04:09,400 so we can do things faster for you 51 00:04:09,500 --> 00:04:14,300 second mistake, to my knowledge 7 of my clients 52 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,800 done this mistake last year, it was the 53 00:04:17,900 --> 00:04:22,700 mistake of drinking while following no-contact rule 54 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:31,400 for one client, his ex came after 4 months of the no-contact rule 55 00:04:31,500 --> 00:04:36,300 he spoiled that chance after not knowing how to love her, and he went for no-contact rule again 56 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:41,200 I clearly said that it will take 7 months to work and this will be his last chance 57 00:04:41,300 --> 00:04:46,100 and he is going for the final chance 58 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:51,000 he had so much of pain and he got drunked 59 00:04:51,100 --> 00:04:55,900 and called his ex and cried for 1 hour in mobile 60 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:00,800 by explaining his suffering and love for her 61 00:05:00,900 --> 00:05:08,400 in that one hour he gave sad dialogues like "Dev Dass" 62 00:05:08,500 --> 00:05:13,300 another client scolded her ex in phone after getting drunked 63 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:18,200 both the girls blocked both of them respectively after the ending of the call 64 00:05:18,300 --> 00:05:23,100 why you're drinking when you can't control your emotions after that? 65 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:28,000 you're spoiling thin line of hope for you 66 00:05:28,100 --> 00:05:32,900 then crying for the love, if you do like this she will never consider you 67 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:37,800 if you can't control your emotions 68 00:05:37,900 --> 00:05:39,300 never drink guys! 69 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:44,200 third one is creating jealousy to ex 70 00:05:44,300 --> 00:05:49,100 thinking that it will make them love you, simply 71 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:54,000 jealousy is like a double sided knife, you have to do everything rightly 72 00:05:54,100 --> 00:05:58,900 if you spoiled a bit that will end in a disaster 73 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:03,800 and if you can't handle that, it's game over for you 74 00:06:03,900 --> 00:06:08,700 and she will know that you're playing with her 75 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:13,600 if she think like that she will play again and will never love you again 76 00:06:13,700 --> 00:06:18,500 I know psychology and I can do that perfectly 77 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,400 but you never know that, my phone consultation clients will come with compliants like this 78 00:06:23,500 --> 00:06:28,300 they will make jealousy after getting adviced by friends 79 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:33,200 and without knowing how to handle they will end up in problems and will come to me 80 00:06:33,300 --> 00:06:38,100 8 out 10 will be negative results only 81 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:43,000 be clear, jealousy will work, but 82 00:06:43,100 --> 00:06:47,900 you have to know how to handle that 83 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:52,800 if you don't be calm, or if you want to try that 84 00:06:52,900 --> 00:06:57,400 then she will commit with another person infront of you 85 00:06:57,500 --> 00:07:03,700 if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex 86 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,700 we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones 87 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,900 by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services 88 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:14,800 if you want that services, use the link in the description to book 89 00:07:14,900 --> 00:07:21,100 we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back 90 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:24,900 and we're giving 100% assurance for that 91 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:29,800 if you want to follow us on Insta and FB, use the links below to follow 92 00:07:29,900 --> 00:07:32,900 Thanks for watching!