1 00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:05,600 Hello youngsters, many small boys are our viewers, I mean 2 00:00:05,700 --> 00:00:10,500 boys at the age of 18-20 and many school students are also there 3 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:16,600 this video id for you to avoid commiting some mistakes in this 2021 4 00:00:16,700 --> 00:00:20,800 and to improve your life by 100...no 200% 5 00:00:20,900 --> 00:00:25,700 will take about that in this video, what things to do and don't 6 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:30,600 will explain that, let's see, before that will see about this video sponsor mama earth 7 00:00:30,700 --> 00:00:35,500 recently they sent us a hair mask called argan hair mask 8 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:40,400 this is useful if you have a dry or frizzy hair 9 00:00:40,500 --> 00:00:45,300 they mention that, and using this is so simple 10 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:50,200 it contains argan oil which is my favorite hair oil 11 00:00:50,300 --> 00:00:53,600 then it has avocado oil and milk protiens 12 00:00:53,700 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we're going to see is a important thing 23 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:48,800 one boy has no smoking habit and any other bad habit 24 00:01:48,900 --> 00:01:53,700 but 99% of people will have this habit, Masturbation 25 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:58,600 boys at the age of 20-25 are very much addicted to masturbation nowadays 26 00:01:58,700 --> 00:02:03,500 the main reason is our social medias 27 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:08,400 and many things are there, masturbation is not a bad thing, I made a video on that too go and see that 28 00:02:08,500 --> 00:02:13,300 but whatever things we need to do corrctly, if we do excessively 29 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:18,200 problem will occur more, you won't get satisfied with your wife in the future 30 00:02:18,300 --> 00:02:23,100 and you also get bad thoughts 31 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:28,000 ecxessive masturbation is the reason, i will tell you a example for addicts 32 00:02:28,100 --> 00:02:32,900 if you go to insta and watch many videos, and one girl looks very glamour in a video 33 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,800 if you want to masturbate after seeing that, then you are addict, or if you go outside 34 00:02:37,900 --> 00:02:42,700 if you see a girl with bad intention and after returning to home and having intention to masturbate 35 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:47,600 you are a addict, you need to reduce this addiction 36 00:02:47,700 --> 00:02:52,500 you must reduce it at the age of 20s, does it's hard thing? 37 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:57,400 no things are impossible for youngsters, and affter watching this video, if you try you can acheive that also 38 00:02:57,500 --> 00:03:02,300 it's an ordinary thing, when you have that thoughts 39 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:07,200 just try to control your mind, second thing is 40 00:03:07,300 --> 00:03:12,100 watch comedy clips when having that thoughts, it must help 41 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:17,000 it will helpful in getrid of that thoughts, third thing is 42 00:03:17,100 --> 00:03:19,800 don't be alone, if you have that thoughts, 43 00:03:19,900 --> 00:03:24,700 spend 1 or 2 weeks regularly with your friends, this also 44 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:29,600 helps to control that thoughts, still I'm saying don't do it regularly 45 00:03:29,700 --> 00:03:34,500 but I won't tell to never do that, first thing to do in this 2021 46 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:39,400 to control that addiction of masturbation 47 00:03:39,500 --> 00:03:44,300 definitely you have to control...second thing is you need to improve on your interested things 48 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:49,900 boys below 20 and 25 are having high energy 49 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:54,800 you can work hard in this age 50 00:03:54,900 --> 00:03:59,700 but we waste most of our time at social media, if you spend it usefully it's okay but 51 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:04,600 we're seeing unwanted things instead of our interested things 52 00:04:04,700 --> 00:04:09,500 it's a bad thing, if you take me as a example, while at college my interest was 53 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:14,400 photo editing, youtube and social media but 54 00:04:14,500 --> 00:04:19,300 I never wasted on it,I used it for improvement and my work 55 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:24,200 I tried in that process, you can see my first photo editing 56 00:04:24,300 --> 00:04:29,100 in instagram, and see the recently edited photo on instagram 57 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:34,000 if I got many followers, the reason is I improved my self on my interests 58 00:04:34,100 --> 00:04:38,900 so same with youtube, see the first video and recent video 59 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:43,800 definitely you have many difference, you may have a interest on a thing 60 00:04:43,900 --> 00:04:48,700 some has interested in singing, music or meme creating 61 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:53,600 video editing, youtube whatever it be, don't just leave it 62 00:04:53,700 --> 00:04:58,500 you have to develop and learn many new things by doing it so 63 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:03,400 definitely you will have more benefits and you will lose nothing 64 00:05:03,500 --> 00:05:08,300 it may be also be your earning apart from going to a regular job 65 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:13,200 you definitely can earn, some have interest in reading 66 00:05:13,300 --> 00:05:18,100 so study well and imrpove yourself on studies to acheive big 67 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:23,000 mainly grow your interest as you have high energy level at this age 68 00:05:23,100 --> 00:05:27,900 we can develop quickly if we done it with a focus 69 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:32,800 and also can succeed in that, so don't forgot your interest and 70 00:05:32,900 --> 00:05:37,700 put effort on that to improve more, if you say "I have no interest on anything bro" 71 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:42,600 just start to learn any thing, not a big task 72 00:05:42,700 --> 00:05:47,500 everything looks big from a distance, if you see it from closely 73 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:52,400 then if you start to learn with determination, you wonder "That's all!", so 74 00:05:52,500 --> 00:05:57,300 learn new things if you have no interest choose any new thing to learn 75 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:02,200 it's a important thing, as you do it in this age definitely in future 76 00:06:02,300 --> 00:06:06,900 it will helpful, third thing is bad habits 77 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:11,800 our boys will be more addicted to bad habits at this age, and will not talk about cigarettes and drinks 78 00:06:11,900 --> 00:06:16,700 there is a thing called cool lip and Haans 79 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:21,600 small boys are so addicted to that, main reason is, 80 00:06:21,700 --> 00:06:26,500 we have a fear getting caught and do it in a covert place for cigarettes and drinks 81 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:31,400 but this cool lip can be easily hidden in mouth and 82 00:06:31,500 --> 00:06:36,300 others don't get doubts, so many small boys are 83 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:41,200 addicted to this, as its very hard to get rid from this compared to other habits 84 00:06:41,300 --> 00:06:46,100 so if you are addict to this habit just come out from that 85 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:51,000 that will be good for your life, If I'm saying anything wrong, just think for yourself 86 00:06:51,100 --> 00:06:55,900 if you get rid from that it's only good for you, you can't do it immediately 87 00:06:56,000 --> 00:07:00,800 it's same for all bad habits, I understand but, 88 00:07:00,900 --> 00:07:05,700 try to reduce slowly, if you put 5-6 a day then convert to 1-2 a day 89 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:09,900 then slowly escape from that, it won't have any benefits 90 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:14,800 I ask thosse people, what benefits are you having in that? it may feel differently in starting 91 00:07:14,900 --> 00:07:19,700 then if you do it regularly and addicted you have no uses in that, I asked the boys who uses it 92 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:24,600 and they mostly says "it's a habit for me that's only i'm using and no other benefits" 93 00:07:24,700 --> 00:07:29,500 so must avoid it, these things are 94 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:34,400 spoiling your life and also your beauty 95 00:07:34,500 --> 00:07:39,300 so don't use cool lip and 96 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:44,200 also avoid drinking, smoking, reduce it step by step 97 00:07:44,300 --> 00:07:49,100 then stop it soon, next thing we need to accept our failures 98 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:54,000 persons below 20 are having hardtimes in controlling failures 99 00:07:54,100 --> 00:07:58,900 take me as example, initially if I got failures I can't digest that 100 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,800 I will move to depression and I was a sensitive one too, but don't be like that 101 00:08:03,900 --> 00:08:08,700 everyone has hardships in life 102 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:13,600 the people who are at highest positions would have faced many failures, just think about it 103 00:08:13,700 --> 00:08:18,500 if something bad happens to you don't think you are unfit for that thing 104 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:23,400 many will think like that and make bad decisions after being at depression 105 00:08:23,500 --> 00:08:28,300 If you failed at something, then see a way to improve that 106 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:33,200 we have brain, energy definitely in that failed thing 107 00:08:33,300 --> 00:08:38,100 we can give a better output if we put some hardwork 108 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:43,000 so just accept everything, " yes wrong thing happened, I failed at this and got a failure" 109 00:08:43,100 --> 00:08:47,900 "next I will improve and will never setback from that" just think like that 110 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,800 your life will definitely become good 111 00:08:51,900 --> 00:08:56,700 below 20 guys must follow this things 112 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:01,600 learn to accept failures atleast in this 2021 113 00:09:01,700 --> 00:09:06,500 don't depend on parents fro everything, if you are at the age of 20 above or 19 114 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:13,400 even at this age if you depend parents for buying a small thing is very bad according to me 115 00:09:13,500 --> 00:09:18,300 just understand one thing, we're grownups and we can earn 116 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:23,200 you can earn in part time 117 00:09:23,300 --> 00:09:28,100 or you can earn from your interests and or get a job 118 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:33,000 apart from those things, if you choose to spend freely at home after completing college 119 00:09:33,100 --> 00:09:37,900 and thought that your parents will take all the care, then you choosed a wrong decision 120 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:42,800 parents will do everything until their health, then you have to take care of them 121 00:09:42,900 --> 00:09:47,700 so you have to take responsibilities for that from now on, don't expect them to do your small things or needs 122 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:52,600 you should fullfill your needs after earning on your own 123 00:09:52,700 --> 00:09:57,500 so don't depend on parents for everything and fullfill your needs for yourself 124 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:02,400 next thing is girls, " what bro 125 00:10:02,500 --> 00:10:07,300 you accuses everything and if you want me to not live like I want?" I can understand your feelings bro 126 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:12,200 loving a girl is a not bad thing but, 127 00:10:12,300 --> 00:10:17,100 if you think "she is the only thing of your life, I will focus on her only and don't care about my life's path" 128 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:22,000 " I only need that girl" then that girl will 129 00:10:22,100 --> 00:10:26,900 reject you one day surely, 130 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:31,800 loving a girl is not a bad thing, but you have to lift your career also 131 00:10:31,900 --> 00:10:36,700 have to develop your career to gain her love forever 132 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:41,600 also don't tease or make fun of girls 133 00:10:41,700 --> 00:10:46,500 what you will get from that, nothing! 134 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:51,400 so do work properly and develop in your career, then definitely 135 00:10:51,500 --> 00:10:54,700 girls will come after you, so hereafter 136 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:59,600 get rid of thought like " girls is everything and I can do anything for a girl" and build your career 137 00:10:59,700 --> 00:11:03,800 it's a iportant thing, that's all guys, 138 00:11:03,900 --> 00:11:08,700 comment what wrongs are doing now from the things I told or what things you like to improve from yourself 139 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:13,600 already I done a similar video with different points and check that also 140 00:11:13,700 --> 00:11:18,500 will give you a card check that also 141 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:23,400 give support to channel by hitting like, and also do comment 142 00:11:23,500 --> 00:11:26,900 see you in another video, bye brothers!