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Travel and tell no one

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LIve a true love story and tell no one

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live happily

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Tell no one, because people ruin beautiful 
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Haters are like crickets (insects)

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They are noisy, and we hear them loud

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but never see them

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They instantly get quite when you get closer

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Can you think of anyone who became successful 
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attracting a tiny bit of jealousy?

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You might feel like blurting out some names 
on the spur of moment!

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Take a moment to pose the video and think 
about it

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Even Abdul Kalam sir's speech which gained 
over 21 million views

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has around 10,000 dislikes

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Whatever you do, however great your work 
be

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there are people who will judge its merit 
no matter what

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There are people who support you, criticize 
you,

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and others who don't care a bit about you

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Let me tell you the story of a hunter who 
discovered a dog

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which could walk on water!

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he was surprised at it's unusual ability 
and organized a party to exhibit the dog

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He signalled the dog to catch the shot down 
bird.

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the dog did the unbelievable walk as usual 
and caught the bird

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The hunter proudly lite a cigar and asked

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"what do you think John?"

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His friend replied," huh..your dog can't 
swim?"

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People who wish for success, and never achieve 
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When they see other's success, will get hateful 
and jealous

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Let's try to understand haters and ill-wishers

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First thing, they aspire to be you

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Secondly, they see as a threat

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Thirdly, they hate and pity themselves

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They are quite insecure

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They quit easily in the first or second try

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and such people lack the patiece and determination 
to try again

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they wait for their friends and collegues 
to fail the same way

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they hate watching others succeed while they 
fail terribly

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They find relief in discouraging others and 
seeing others fail

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Have you noticed this strange pattern?

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The people who show extreme jealousy are 
mostly our close friends and family

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They want you to be happy,as long as you 
don't outshine them

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Or else, they should also benefit from your 
success

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Our loved ones influence us considerably

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When you prosper,it will make them insecure 
and develops dark feelings

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If it is a stranger who wins the lottery, 
the feelings are neutral

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A stranger winning 5 million is good news

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But if that lucky guy is someone you know, 
oh the jealous fumes!

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A man who is inherently happy, won't get 
negatively affected by other's success

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Hate grows from despair and negativity

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Overthinking worsens insecurity and can hurt 
one's mental well being

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You'll feel sympathy for the people who envy 
you

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There are people who pray for other's downfall

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rather than doing something productive for 
themseleves

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Like how you wish your neighbours also lose 
their electricity if you did

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Hate and jeaolously are felt more intensly 
than love

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You remember the ones you hate more than 
the ones you love

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Haters will stalk you like crazy

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I can't understand how one can stalk and 
hate so much

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They'll look for loopholes in your story 
updates, to cliam it's fake!

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They hate to admit your success comes from 
hardword

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But it is mere luck

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They pray and pray your success updates are 
mere boastings and not true!

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They see all your updates, and would see 
to that they don't like anything at all!

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It's funny how they'll even tilt their head

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to avoid watching non-skippable ads

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This is quite true

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Because whenever a fifteen minutes video 
gets posted, within the first one minute

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it recieves the exact number of dislike like 
every other video..concidence? No

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Funnily enough, they work so hard on disliking

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by switching between fake profiles!

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They probably follows and adores your work

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The main difference between winners and losers 
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is in their attitude

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A winner will try to get inspired from other’s 
success

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Haters or losers on the other hand get insecure 
and green-eyed

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When people start displaying hate, just ignore 
them

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Never give them your attention

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True and constructive criticism are well 
and good

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It can help in your progress, so be thankful 
to such comments

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People who have no intention of giving a 
proper criticism

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are merely envious, and they don't deserve 
any attention

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Being ignored is the worst feeling!

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Such ignorance will help them rectrify their 
negative personality

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Another way of tackling such comments

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is to act pleasant and unaffected

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If you get a sarcastic comment

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Give a sarcastic reply back!

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They'll be taken aback by your unusual reply

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The runner-up often goes unnoticed

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The winner, on the other hand, cannot handle 
being the second

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The winner keeps track of the runner-up candidate, 
their performance and practices

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Competition is good, as long as, there is 
productivity.

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For example, a local restaurant will serve 
well initially

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But later on, there are chances of drop in 
quality

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When a second restaurant opens next to them, 
it gives rise competition

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Competition and hate also go hand-in-hand

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Instead of surrendering to others' hateful 
comments

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do your best work faithfully

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A runner wins or loses the race in microseconds 
difference

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You shouldn't bother how others are running 
their races

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Becasue it costs your time and efficieny

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It's not easy to please everyone

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Pleasing people won't help be successful

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Never quite

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There are people who that hope you quite

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But if you quite, you will disappoint the 
ones who truly support you

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Let me tell you something about revenge, 
which is unlike what we discussed in the 
'Forgiveness' video

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Revenge is good-Winning without hurting anyone 
is the best revenge

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Feeling insecure is difficult

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It makes you hate even random strangers

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People assume things about celebrities

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they may hear gossips and rumours

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But later on, when they get a chance to know 
the real person

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He or she will change their opinion

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Haters will never recognise your hard work 
and commitment

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They'll compare your ten year's work to their 
one month's achievment

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Haters are capable of change once you inspire 
them

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Once you start talking to people rather than 
talk behind their backs

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it can make our lives a whole lot better

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Did you realise something?

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as you watch this video,you are reminded 
of all those people who wronged you

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But, shouldn't you think what YOU did to 
others?

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When WE judge someone else's choice and ways,

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we might not always know what he/she is going 
through

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Remember actor Mammooty's character in the 
movie 'Kerala Cafe'?

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He plays the character of a father who is 
trying to reach home on his child's death

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Such characters and attitudes are mostly 
unfamiliar and difficult,to understand

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Success is within everyone's reach

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Understand how hate can hurt people's lives

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Think how negative criticism will ruin someone's 
peace of mind

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Don't be a reason from someone's dismay

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If you were one to spread hate, it is very 
unlikely that you'll be still watching

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If you have hurt someone, with or without 
conscience

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let it end now...

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If you haven't watched the 'forgiveness' 
video, do watch along with this

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If you have, remember my words?