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Hello brothers, how are you? It's been a 
while we published a video and many  of you 
asked for that

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and you gave your support and love which 
i never expected this much

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and it's very surprising to see how much 
supportive is our big family

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I'm thankful for your love, I was ill

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and many of you prayed for that, i'm thankful 
to them

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I never expected this for myself

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this shows the love of our family

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this is a unique topic and watch this with 
headphones, never watch this without that 
in your home

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some things are openly discussed here, in 
my childhood

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I commited many mistakes and many boys are 
doing more mistakes now-a-days

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and they're unaware of the consequences

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so we'll see about that and remedies for 
that, let's go

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do like our video, it will spread our video 
and It will help me personally

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let's see, first mistake is being desperate 
for girls

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"juniors than me has commited with many girls 
and it's happening for them and not for me"

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what is the thing I'm lacking?"

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overthinking like this, never expect the 
things happening in other's life to follow 
in your life too

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if you love a girl, confess that to her, 
don't bother about the result

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apart from that worrying and envying on others 
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bad, and watching movies

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and trying to immitate those gimmicks to 
impress a girl

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normal approach is not wrong, but overdoing 
is bad

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like if she is seeing your whatsapp statuses,

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don't spam your stories with many love status, 
it will make her irritated

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taking love in a wierd way is a bad habit

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and many youngsters are doing this

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so never do this, focus on your career first,

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it's a common saying right? yes it as a valid 
point so everyone says it

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if you focus on your career, your thing will 
happen

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never envy and overthink about other's relationship 
status

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and try to be better on your life to get 
better things

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and fix this in your mind and work

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so never commit this mistake again, I43esw32 
hope that too

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next one is porn addiction, many youngsters 
are addicted to porn

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one will never have smoking, drinking or 
other bad habits

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but they do have this porn addiction, is 
it a big problem?

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yes it is!, if you can't live without watching 
porn

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and if you think about that it means you're 
addicted to that

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many youngsters are addicted, say it openly

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and do comment about that in the comment 
honestly

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many are addicted to this and the problems 
it has

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is it will make you stressful

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we can't focus on a thing and while seeing 
a small

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and and they will overreact if they saw a 
slightly revealing body parts of women in 
public

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and it will create bad thoughts due to porn 
addiction

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that will destroy your personal character 
and growth

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so avoid porn addiction and

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if you want to see regularly it means you're 
addicted to it

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so be diverted from porn and focus on other 
things like

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spending time with family, listening music 
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see comedy scenes it will help you

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so from now on, get rid of porn addiction

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next is having unsafe sex,

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you may ask many youngsters are not sexually 
active, but it's wrong

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many are addicted to sex, I thoght this

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as a fan texted me on insta about unable 
to control sexual urges

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like he wants to have sex with many and

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he already had sex with many also and he 
felt bad about that

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and he want to quit that and I advised via 
call

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so for you sex is a normal thing

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if you overdo it, you're spoiling your life

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focus on your career

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and you can't be happy as it will only give 
immediate pleasure

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you will later realise the issues, and

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it's not a moral to have sex with persons 
other than your life partner

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and you have to keep that in mind, and control 
yourself

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if you don't follow this, it will affect 
your health also

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even it will cause AIDS also

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and we can do nothing if you catch that

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so avoid unsafe sex and multiple relationships

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and leave the thought of having many flings

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and quit that, you have to, I'm advising 
as a brother

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please be careful in sex

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never addict to these in young age, focus 
on your career and growth

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next point is not having proper skin care 
routine

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many are avoiding this, even I too

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skipped that in my college time and then 
faced many hardships

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to regain my skintone and if you follow rightly 
in college and school time

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your skin will healthy brighter and attractive

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if you ignore to care

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you need to work hard then, so from now on

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have proper skin care routine, we talked 
about it in many videos

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check the card in top to check,

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so use proper sun screen, moisturizer

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and you can also try serum, it's on the recent 
trend

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serums will improve your skin tone

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many types are there, among tthat vitamin 
C serum will

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improve your skin tone and will give brighter 
glowing skin

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so what brand we need to use?, from man matters

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use 10% vitamin C serum it will reduce your 
darkspots and wrinkles

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and also helps in making skin to glow

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it will reduce pigmentation also

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you can research about vitamin C

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all articles clearly tells it's pros

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this serum also have 1% glycolic acid, it 
also keeps skin hydrated

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it has no harmful chemicals such as sulphate, 
parabeen

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and you know about them

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they only make products for men and they 
also have free doctor consultation

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you can check that on their sites

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and that's a good thing, to use this

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take 4-5 drops in hands and apply on face 
after finishing face wash

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then leave 5-10 seconds and

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apply moisturizer or sun screen and

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do this regularly for morning and night and 
in few weeks you'll see improvements

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mainly your skin texture will improve visibly

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to buy this use the link in the description

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I'll give coupon code in the description, 
if any, use that while shopping

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then follow a proper skin care routine

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next one is not focussing in your self growth

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many are like this only, they will focus 
on other's life only

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and they will envy on others but will never 
work on their growth

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many are addicted in social media, I can 
understand

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Instagram and youtube are social media only, 
but they do have good things too

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and we're focussing on bad and entertaining 
things only

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it's not bad, but

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too much of anything will good for nothing

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we're procrastinating our work, so

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from now concentrate on your growth

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you may have any kind of things focus on 
that

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and develop on your self growth, focus on 
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if you never thinked about it, focus it from 
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next one is being on a wrong friendzone

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does anyone is wrong in friendship? and if 
you think your friends are good and positive

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then you're blessed one, or

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you'll trapped with wrong friends and you'll 
know that too

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but we'll think like we made friendship with 
them

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and we have too keep that even if they exploit 
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and you'll trapped with problems only

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and you'll lack in career and self growth

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they will do many bad things withour revealing, 
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if you're in this kind of wrong friendship 
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quit, we don't need that and if you can't 
quit keep a limit

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so avoid those to prevent your life getting 
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you'll clearly know that too

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if you realized that

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then quitting that friendship will be better 
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a good friendship will help your growth

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and they will give better idea to help you 
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and they will scold your mistakes to guide 
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they will motivate and correct you, they're 
good friends

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keep in that zone and avoid the ones who 
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they will never face difficulties without 
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so never be on that relationship

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next one is the most common mistake, it's 
drinkingg and smoking, we covered it deeply 
in many videos

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so we'll never explain in detail here, if 
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it will lift you up not in life, literally

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to heavens, so it will lead to your demise

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if you're addict to that

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avoid and doing on rare occasions is fine

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I'm not encouraging that, but

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doing rarely will lead to quitting that, 
if you do regularly

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you want to continue that, so quit it slowly

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and in few months in oour channel

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I want to see comments of healed souls who 
quit those addictions

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I hope our brothers will follow my advice

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srinking and smoking will spoil you a lot, 
so that's all

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from the mentioned ones what are the things 
you're doing

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one or many?, so me and others will know 
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important thing is, if you do other mistakes 
and need solutions

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do mention that too, so I can say that in 
another video

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do comment, and follow me on Instagram using 
Id @saran_lifestyle

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many interesting videos are waiting for you, 
see you in anotherone, bye brothers!