1
00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:06,100
welcome to "Love Guru" channel, India's first 
relationship coaching channel

2
00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:11,000
how to choose our partner?

3
00:00:11,100 --> 00:00:14,900
it's a very important topic,

4
00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:18,500
many of us don't know how to choose a partner 
on which basis

5
00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:23,400
many fights in relationships and many issues

6
00:00:23,500 --> 00:00:28,300
the reason for all of this is choosing a 
wrong partner

7
00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:33,200
so on which basis we should choose our partner?

8
00:00:33,300 --> 00:00:38,100
looks?, money?, some will say

9
00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:43,000
"I know that, It's character!", no!

10
00:00:43,100 --> 00:00:47,900
we should never choose a partner based on 
character

11
00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:52,800
this is the main reason for fights, break-ups 
in most relationships

12
00:00:52,900 --> 00:00:59,000
my neighbourhood girl recently got married

13
00:00:59,100 --> 00:01:03,900
after the marriage they shifted near to my 
house

14
00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:08,800
after very few days, they started to fight 
each other, and it happened all the time

15
00:01:08,900 --> 00:01:13,700
they shout in a way that whole street can 
hear them

16
00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:18,600
I think they part their ways in 6 months

17
00:01:18,700 --> 00:01:23,500
but, in the last two months, I came to know 
the issue

18
00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:28,400
because they were on same energy

19
00:01:28,500 --> 00:01:33,300
yes, we need to select our partner based 
on masculin energy and feminine energy

20
00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:40,500
the issue is, most of the time we choose 
the same energy person as our partner

21
00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:45,400
I'm goal oriented and my partner is also 
goal oriented

22
00:01:45,500 --> 00:01:50,300
I'm relationship focused and my partner is 
also the same

23
00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:55,200
I'm soft and my partner too

24
00:01:55,300 --> 00:02:00,100
understand clearly, I'm masculine energy 
so was she

25
00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:04,000
I'm feminine and she is also feminine, if

26
00:02:04,100 --> 00:02:08,900
a pair as same energy like this that won't 
get attracted

27
00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,200
okay, understand clearly.

28
00:02:12,300 --> 00:02:17,100
we'll attract to others when they have the 
things that we don't

29
00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:21,500
okay, that will make us to fall for them

30
00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:26,400
if I have no money and my partner has money 
that will attract us

31
00:02:26,500 --> 00:02:31,300
if I'm relationship focused and my partner 
is goal oriented

32
00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:36,200
that will attract them, If I'm not beautiful 
and my partner is very beautiful

33
00:02:36,300 --> 00:02:42,400
that will attract, if I'm soft and my lover 
is strong

34
00:02:42,500 --> 00:02:47,300
that will make us attract to each other, 
listen

35
00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:52,200
the thing you lack which your partner has 
will attract you

36
00:02:52,300 --> 00:02:57,100
if we're at opposite energy, then only we 
can attract

37
00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:02,000
if I'm masculine energy and my partner is 
feminine energy

38
00:03:02,100 --> 00:03:06,900
if I'm feminine energy, may partner is masculine 
energy

39
00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:11,800
or if I'm 50% masculin and 50% feminine which 
is same for my partner

40
00:03:11,900 --> 00:03:16,700
or if I'm 80% masculine and 20% feminine

41
00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:21,600
and my partner is vice versa

42
00:03:21,700 --> 00:03:26,500
so understand, if you have opposite energies 
like this then only it will attract

43
00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:31,400
that will make us fall in love, I'll give 
an example

44
00:03:31,500 --> 00:03:36,300
4 months ago I joined in a IT company, I 
was new there

45
00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:41,200
I was in training, during that time I was 
in cafeteria with my friends

46
00:03:41,300 --> 00:03:46,100
that time I saw a girl

47
00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:51,000
she was very beautiful and cute, and I wanted 
to talk with her

48
00:03:51,100 --> 00:03:55,900
and I want to look at her without any break

49
00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:00,800
I don't know why?, I got that mindset after 
a long time while seeing her

50
00:04:00,900 --> 00:04:05,700
a big attraction was started for her in me

51
00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:10,600
so I put eye contact on her, she also done 
eye contact

52
00:04:10,700 --> 00:04:15,500
so I knew it, she also has attraction for 
me

53
00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:20,400
but, I'm feeling shy, because

54
00:04:20,500 --> 00:04:25,300
that girl's dressing looked like it's from 
a highr position

55
00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:30,200
so I left taht for few days to avoid risk

56
00:04:30,300 --> 00:04:35,100
but still I gazed upon her, after 1 month

57
00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:40,000
training was over and they put me in a team

58
00:04:40,100 --> 00:04:44,900
and I'm surprised to see that girl as my 
team leader

59
00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:49,100
now we're sitting close to each other

60
00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:54,000
I waited for this moment for the whole month, 
but

61
00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:58,900
everything was changed upside-down, she started 
controlling me

62
00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:03,800
she started to dominate me, she was always

63
00:05:03,900 --> 00:05:11,100
very strict towards me, now all the attraction 
I had for her was gone

64
00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:16,000
I wanted to move away when she tries to sit 
near me

65
00:05:16,100 --> 00:05:20,900
I don't want to talk with her, in just 3 
days I lost the attraction for her

66
00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:25,800
everything is upside-down now, you know why?

67
00:05:25,900 --> 00:05:30,700
because she is masculine energy as she is 
the leader

68
00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:35,600
she is the character who likes to control 
and dominate

69
00:05:35,700 --> 00:05:40,500
the issue is I'm also masculine character, 
I'm also a leader

70
00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:45,400
like to control and dominate, that's why 
in a distance

71
00:05:45,500 --> 00:05:50,300
she attracted me that much, but when she 
is near me

72
00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:55,200
I lost the interest as she is masculine energy

73
00:05:55,300 --> 00:05:59,900
and so was I, do you got the point?

74
00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,700
you can understand this situation?, so

75
00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:08,600
so our life will be good only if you choose 
the opposite energy as a partner

76
00:06:08,700 --> 00:06:13,500
if you masculuine she must be feminine or 
vice versa

77
00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:18,400
she must have the opposite level of masculine 
and feminine energy according to you

78
00:06:18,500 --> 00:06:23,300
then only, your relationship will be happy

79
00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:28,200
so we already put a video to find how much 
you're masculine and feminine

80
00:06:28,300 --> 00:06:33,100
you can check the link of that video in the 
'i' button at the top

81
00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:38,000
then find your energy levels and find the 
girl with opposite energy with respect to 
you

82
00:06:38,100 --> 00:06:42,900
then love her, if you love the partner with 
opposite energy

83
00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:47,800
then only your relationship will be happy 
and satisfied

84
00:06:47,900 --> 00:06:50,500
and it will last for lifelong

85
00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:57,700
if you want to make your crush to love you, 
solve your relationship issue, get back your 
Ex

86
00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:02,600
we'll listen and give solutions for any issues 
like these ones

87
00:07:02,700 --> 00:07:06,600
by doing phone consultations and personal 
coaching services

88
00:07:06,700 --> 00:07:11,500
if you want that services, use the link in 
the description to book

89
00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:16,400
we'll listen to your issues and will make 
your partner to love you back

90
00:07:16,500 --> 00:07:18,500
and we're giving 100% assurance for that

91
00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:24,800
if you want to follow us on Insta and FB, 
use the links below to follow

92
00:07:24,900 --> 00:07:29,700
do comment about this video in the comment 
section and also mention any love topics 
to do video on

93
00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:34,600
we'll make those videos, and if you want 
to see upcoming videos

94
00:07:34,700 --> 00:07:39,500
do subscribe and share with your friends 
if you think this will help them, thanks 
for watching