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this is the story of a married client who 
came for phone consultation

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his wife recently gave divorce to him and

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he cried after saying this and then he told 
everything

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then I found he had one biggest mistake

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which caused her wife to choose divorce, 
this isthe sole reason for many divorce

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this is the cause of the most relationship 
issues

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one thing, this thing cause chaos to your 
love or marriage life,

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it's neediness and insecurity caused by that

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I mostly used this word in a single video 
only

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so what is neediness?, you need other people 
for your joy

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if you don't have others then you will never 
be happy

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example, if your wife or lover texted you 
today then you'll be happy

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if they not texted you then you won't be 
happy, the issue is this only

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so guys can you understand, you'll be happy 
if you got text from her otherwise you will 
be worried

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then it means your happiness depends upon 
others

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first know the definition of love

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you need to happy alone and so your partner

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while you both join then you need to share 
your happiness

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this is the rule of love and it's the way 
it works

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but now your happiness depends upon your 
partner

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so you don't have any choice, so you

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give pressure on her

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you'll be happy when she loves you

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it's true weakness guys,

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you need assurance for her love for you

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the problem is you need each and every time

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then you'll wander like a lunatic for that

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each moment you'll be nervous

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for this re-assurance you'll always call, 
text her

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you'll try to know what's she is doing

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why you're doing like this?

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you think that you text her at morning and 
got reply so she loves you

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in evening you text her and got reply so 
she loves you, and she attends your call 
in morning and evening

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so she loves you, and she answers where she 
is

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guys if you check each moment for her love 
for you

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you're torturing her, best example will be

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like Reema Sen from Vallavan movie

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she will talk like a mad person

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you're torturing her each moment for this 
re-assurance

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there is only one difference from Reema sen 
and reality

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she looks like higher value, but in reality 
the one who has neediness is lower value 
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you behave more weakly with this neediness

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like you're always available for her,

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you'll do many things to impress her, you'll 
confused about her love

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you will think yourself as lower and her 
as higher value

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you think that she may not love you till 
the end and

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you'll die in fear of losing her, so your 
whole behaviour will pure weak

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this will make her turned off for you

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if you followed this then she will think 
you as weak,

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girls need persons who display strength and 
you behave in opposite way

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so she will test you psychologically and

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if you pass that she will love youy and will 
leave you if you fail in that

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we'll post a dedicated video about this psychological 
test one day

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be clear guys, your neediness and insecurities

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causes 97% of divorce and break-up

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there are no new reasons

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so guys married or committed

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you need to remove neediness from you or

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you will get divorce or breakup

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so we'll post a video about how to remove 
neediness and if you want that within this 
month

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then make this video hit 1K like within a 
week

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then we'll post that video within this month

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