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wlcome to Love Guru, Tamil's first relationship 
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welcome to alpha male series episode no 1

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in this series, we'll see how we can turn 
you into alpha male from nice guy

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first why nice guy? listen

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to my knowledge 70% of the boys are nice 
guys

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some them may behave normal to others

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but if it is girls all of them will be nice 
guys

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listen, relationship is very tough for a 
normal guy

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but for nice guy?, be clear

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they are very weak type, they will have no 
happiness in life

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and they will never get relationships, love 
and sex and their life is like waste of time

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I done relationship coaching for many years

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many of the clients are nice guys only

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they behave weak and feminine

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they have no love, happiness and sex in relationship 
due to being nice guy

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that's why from our channel

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we made this series to change you from nice 
guy to alpha male

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in one month you can't become alpha male

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because, you grew nice guy traits for 15-20 
years

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that will stick with you and

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it's very hard to get rid of that in 1 month

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so in our channel, we'll change you from 
nice guy into strong male

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then we'll guide you to turn into alpha male

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it will take 1 year for you to turn into 
alpha male

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so in this series

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you need to follow the tricks, tips, tactics, 
ideas and behaviors exactly as we say to

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turn into a alpha male,

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we hope that you'll follow well and turn 
into a alpha male

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let's jump to the series,

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who are the nice guys?

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for the past 50 years the changes in social 
life caused the boys raised by traditional 
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to act good at others, help others, care 
for others

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and giving love to others

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to get those things from others, the nice 
guys believe that

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but listen, they'll never return those favors

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okay, how nice guys are created?

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2 major reasons are there

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1.loss of father's energy

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2.growing up with femenine, we'll see the 
first thing

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loss of father's energy, listen

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our father is a masculine energy, he'll behave 
like a male

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if we grew with him closely, then

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we should have also felt masculine energy 
and developed strongly

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but, suppose this situation, as many people's 
father is no more

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or if they spent less time with father or

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if father is also a feminine energy we're 
bound to be a nice guy

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growing up with feminine,

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it don't means the co-ed school or neighbourhood 
girl

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we grew with mom and

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closely grow along with sister, aunts

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listen, they all women, feminine energy

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if a man grows with females, they will also 
feel that feminine energy

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you will alsowill be soft and weak

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nice guys are created like this in resepect 
to 2nd reason

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what are the behaviours of nice guys?

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too much care for others

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giving something to get something

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being soft and silent and want to maintain 
peace

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avoiding danger and getting permission for 
everything

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hiding their mistakes and flaws

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want to do everything perfectly

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not prioritising themselves

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as they give preference to their partners

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okay, what are the things wrong in being 
a nice guy? listen

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they are very dishonest, they have something 
to say

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but they will say something else in-order 
to avoid hurting others to get their love

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this is called dishonesty, for example

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they're talking with their crush and her 
favourite actor is Ajith and for him it was 
Vijay

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then they won't boldly say they like Vijay

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they think that it may hurt her or she'll 
ignore us with thhis opposite thing

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then they pretend they also like ajith

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next one is they are secretive

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they will hide many things from others, like

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they may masturbate too much or addicted 
to pornography

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listen, it's done by everyone, but many

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will open about this, but they will hide 
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they feared about others judgements

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and they'll hide those

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they''re easily manipulative

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they think that they will complete if they 
get love from others, so they'll give

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love, care and help to others and

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the one who getting those will use that to 
manipulate them and

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they give that to get back, like

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they're helping to get help and caring to 
get care

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they're loving one to get loved back

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these all done to get as a rerurn favor

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they're passive aggressive

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they'll show their anger and frustration 
indirectly

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and too often, like coming late intentionally

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doing wrong things again and again

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even advising for many times, they're pressure 
cookers

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they'll never get angry easily

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they'll  tolerate other's scolding, trolls 
and games and keep it in mind

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and that pressure will burst oneday

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and they'll show all anger at once

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they can't set boundary

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if you scold and beat them they'll tolerate

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and they allow all in personal space without 
any boundary

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so others take them easily and take advantage

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they are isolated person and

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they want everyone to love them

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but they can't mingle with everyone

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they can be alone only

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problem with intimate relationship is happen 
a lot for even a normal boy and he is strongg 
at some extent

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but they're weak, soft and feminine

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they'll never getback the attention, love, 
care and sex in relationship

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next, sexual issues

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nice guys will have many sexual issues like

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masturbation and porn addiction, erection 
issues, quick climaxes

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most of the nice guys will surely ahve any 
one of these issues

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this is what a nice guy is

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so in this video you learned who is a nice 
guy? and how he is created?

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and what is the behaviour of him, so in coming 
episodes

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we'll see why girls rejects nice guys?

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why nice guys can't get their required care, 
attention, love and sex?

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we'll see those in upcoming episodes

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