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welcome to "Love Guru", Tamil's first relationship 
coaching channel and I'm your relationship 
coach XXX

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today we'll see about, if she is leaving 
from you

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and what things you must not do in this situation, 
this was a mail I received recently

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"Hi bro, my lover sometimes do part from 
me and I feel she is distancing me"

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"I don't know what mistakes I have commited, 
I saw your videos"

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"I think I have the four characteristics 
girls hate as you mentioned in your video"

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"like jelousy, needy, insecurities, maybe 
for this"

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"she left me as per my guess, that's why 
I mailed you, please help me"

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"tell me what should I do, that will be a 
big relief for me"

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I told his mistakes, why she maintain a distance 
from him and how to rectify this clearly

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he seems to be in a mindset of solving this 
so no issues, but

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I think this topic will help you so we're 
doing a video for you

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is she is leaving from you, she maybe busy, 
test for you

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or it maybe real. So in this situation

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learn how you diminish her interest for you 
to the rockbottom

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texting her and asking about why she's not 
texting

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calling her for many times and begging at 
her

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and promising her that you won't do any mistakes 
and request her to talk with you

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crying at her like a girl and scolding her 
with bad words

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and if you do things like this, her interest 
for you will hit rockbottom

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and she'll think that breaking up with you 
is better, as you showed yourself as a weak 
one

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you're showing that you have no choice, and 
you have no demand

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you establish that without her, you have 
no life

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you begs like a girl, listen she needs a 
man

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but now you behave likes a girl, I always 
say

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love is like magnet, if you and her are feminine 
energy then

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it won't get attracted, only opposites will 
attract to each other, a boy with masculine 
and girl with feminine energy will

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attract to each other, be clear about the 
big turn-off for girls

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they want their lovers to have many choices 
and demand

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if you have no demand then you're like an 
empty shop, and the one with demand is like 
a crowded shop

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now if you have two of this shops in front 
of you then where you'll enter?

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it will be crowded shop, why?

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maybe it has some high value things?

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and everyone will try to enter that shop 
so as you

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it's same for your life, now you're showing 
that you have no demand by begging at her

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listen, if she initially loved you

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she may think that you had demand, but now 
as you're begging

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you're establishing yourself as an empty 
shop

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now she wants to leave that shop and tries 
to breakup with you

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there is a best example for why you should 
chase her while she departs from you,

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my close friend is a girl and I'll tell the 
incident happened in her life

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she is a commited girl, but more focused 
on her career

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for four days she never talked with her lover, 
because

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she had tight schedule and worked without 
having food

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so fifth day her lover texted her,

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like,"why you're not texting me?", she said

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"sorry, I got held up in work and I was busy" 
and she hang up the phone

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she got work again, so she left that phone

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but her lover texted her again and again 
but she was unable to see

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and he thought that she was avoiding him 
intentionally

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and he thought she was love with another 
guy and then

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he texted 100 messages and dialed 100 times 
and

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after 9 P.M she checked at her phone and 
I was also with her

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after that she said the word to me, it was 
"hey, why he is behaving like this?"

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"I lost my interest for him now and I want 
to break up with him"

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she told me that, so listen, in this situation

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you don't know what is happening behind and 
you're chasing her and forcing her

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to make your interests to hit rockbottom, 
if you force her

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that will always gives negative effect, so 
if she leave some space, never force her

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and chase her, those will reduce her interest 
for you

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instaed leave her sometime and focus on your 
job

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after sometime, she will ahve the process 
of 'no-contact' in mind and she'll miss you

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then she'll contact you again, this will 
be the best solution for this

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so what is no contact rule? and how it will 
work? and give the desired result?

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we'll see that in the next video

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