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- Let's talk later after the video - ...you guess?
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*laughs* Just kidding!
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Was that a good answer? Was it enough? It's not showbiz?
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I feel like that was still showbiz. Technically you chose both of us.
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It should just be one.
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- There shouldn't be a circumstance or context. - I give up. I can't do it anymore.
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- Okay. Next bebe. Your turn. - Okay, go.
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Oh my gosh, perfect.
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When did you know you wanted to marry me?
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I think I'll just drink. I don't want to answer that question.
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- *laughs* Just kidding. - That's okay with me.
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Questions like that are cheesy, you know. I can answer them if it's just like us.
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- Or like, within our circle of friends. - Yeah, so cheesy. Yeah. I feel like you said this to me already though.
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So cringey.
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So why not a very vague answer? When?
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- It's up to you since you're the one who has to drink. - Um, when...
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Maybe it was when we just started LDR and we fought.
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Our major fight. I feel like you remember that major fight.
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- I remember that so much. - I feel like it was that because...
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- 2017. - ...that was the very first time, well not very first time um..
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- ...like we had a day of a cool off period. - Oh, yeah.
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- Yeah. Do you remember? - Yeah.
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It was only a day. But I realized that...
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... it was so sad that you weren't in front of me.
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- Eh, that's so cheesy! *laughs* - Aw.
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But yeah, that's the real answer for that.
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- But we were like 2 years into the relationship then. - Yeah.
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- 2 years.. - 16, no. We were just 1 year then.
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Oh yeah, 1 year. We were just 1 year then
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- I think that was our first month in LDR. - Ah so you figured it out in our first year.
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And of course, we were still adjusting.
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I was still a bit immature then.
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So we fought about things that we shouldn't have fought about.
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Yeah, some of them were major fights.
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Yeah. I feel like that was when I realized.
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Aw, that's so sweet.
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That's sweet, okay.
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I hope Karl's happy with your answer for that.
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Okay, my turn.
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Oh my God! *laughs*
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- Okay, are you going to drink now? - I don't think I can answer this.
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You really want to bring up issues, Jaira De Vera. Okay.
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Jaira. From Jaira.
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Name-drop, please, a friend you blocked or muted in any social media account. As long as you know them or had any history with them.
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Oh my god *laughs*
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- You're so evil! - Why do women do that? *laughs*
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- Grrr. *laughs* - Women always do that, blocking someone.
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- Well, we're doing it for a reason. We don't just do it 'cause we feel like it.
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First and foremost, I can't namedrop. I can't, I can't do a namedrop so I'm just going to drink.
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- But, let me just explain. So I learned this...
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- ...from a friend of mine - But there is someone you blocked? There is?
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- There is, yeah. My gosh.
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Yeah. There's someone from college, high school. There's no one from elem. There's- yeah.
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But hmm, why.. um
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I learned from a friend that sometimes if you feel like that person's presence is not healthy anymore for your mental health...
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...or yourself. You are always free to
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not burn down bridges, but you can distance yourself from them.
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So that's what I did.
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Like, for example, when I sometimes see your face in social media
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and then I remember a bad experience.
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- Yeah. - I think I know this person. I know this person.
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Funnily enough, you and Jai are the only people who knows who this is and you still asked me this question.
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So.. *sighs* Jaira
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You are mean.
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Since I'm not gonna answer, I'll just say that they did something at some point that
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hurt my feelings because they attacked me and Jake.
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I'm very protective when people fight Jake.
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That if you fight Jake, then I'm going to fight you too *laughs*
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Kinda like that, so yeah.
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I mean, we're okay. We message every once in a while but I just prefer that I don't see her feed on my account.
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For my mental health. And so that we don't bring back the past.
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I can forgive, but it's hard to forget.
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Good answer. Good answer.
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Aw, thank you. I can't do a namedrop so 1 to 4.
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I'm gonna drink.
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- 3. - Bebe?
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Let's do 3.
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- Number 3. Number 3. - I think this is soju guys.
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- Cheers. - Funnily enough, Jaira's the one who introduced me to soju.
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So.. fitting.
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Okay. Cheers.
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Okay. From Karl again.
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Jake, the question is for you.
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Who is more committed in making this relationship work? Me or you?
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No showbiz answer. You can't say the two of us.
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Who is more committed hm...
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- I feel like there's no "more." - I think we know the answer.
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I feel like.. it's always going to be a showbiz answer for that.
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Right? I feel like there's no more because we wouldn't have lasted for 5 years if
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there's no... if there's only one person who's more committed, you know.
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But since I didn't really give an answer, because I don't want to...
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- For the sake of answering the question. - For the sake of answering the question, I won't answer it.
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So, I'll just drink
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Because, of course, if my answer was me, then I would be belittling your efforts.
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It'd be like I'm saying that I'm the one who puts more effort in. If my answer was you
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then you might say that I'm effortless.
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So I won't choose. I'll drink instead.
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So I'll just drink. You choose.
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- San Mig Light. - The other beer?
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- Okay, San Mig Light. I haven't tasted that yet. - This was the one overflowing earlier.
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So let's just take a shot guys.
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Okay, San Mig Light. Okay.
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There's some bubbles. So the next question's for you, right?
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Maybe you should pick one while I do this.
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There's still a lot of bubbles.
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We've done 12 questions already.
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Okay, my turn.
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Okay, game. I drank it.
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When did you last lie to each other and what was the lie?
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- From Mariel. - Is the question for the both of us?
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- For the both of us, yeah. But it's directed to me... - Okay, go.
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...since it's my turn.
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- I don't want to drink anymore. My stomach hurts. - I feel like our lies are good lies, right?
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- Ours are white lies. - (Ishi): Just make the next one yours.
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Okay, so this is for the both of us. I'll answer then after that, it's your turn.
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Okay, when was the last time that I lied to Jake...
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I feel like we don't really lie to each other
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Because, I don't know, I feel like that's just been our structure or
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um, dynamic in our relationship. That we can't lie.
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Which is why honestly guys, when we're buying a gift for each other
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he already knows. I already know what his gift is.
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We plan everything together.
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So, yeah. I feel like it's just small, white lies.
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The last lie was, I think... *laughs*
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..when I say "Bebe, I'm going to sleep."
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but in reality, I don't go to sleep right away.
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I go through Facebook, Instagram and such and I don't message him again.
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Stuff like that. That's it.
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- Okay. - White lie.
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Yeah, that's it.
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For me, hmm
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- For me, it was just earlier. - You?
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- It was earlier.. - Earlier?? Okay.
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It was... our lie is the same. Because they asked us when was the last lie.
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Since we were going to shoot this video and it's still dawn here guys,
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uh.. I told her that I was going to take a nap. But I wasn't able to so I just went through Facebook.
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And he didn't message me, so all along I thought that he was asleep.
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Why does your tone sound mad? Why does it seem like it's bad? You sound like you're mad.
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You, yourself, said that you're going to sleep but you're still not going to sleep. I had no reaction while you're going to react now.
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- Just kidding. - You're a fighter ah.
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No, it's just funny.
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I feel like those kind of things is it. Nothing big.
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We always say that you won't be happy if you're going to lie to...
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- ...each other. - Did we really say that? Or was it just you?
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I think it's just me. I scare people with that. *laughs*
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Just kidding.
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Okay, next question. This is for me now.
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Oh okay! Is there anything about marriage that scares you that you haven't shared with me?
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I feel like there's nothing really since we discuss everything
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even especially marriage. We have talked about this so many times already.
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Because when you're in a long distance relationship, all you can do is really
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plan and hope for the best for your future together since, you know,
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your current situation will not last forever. So really make your day count while looking forward to your future together.
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So, no. I don't think there's anything about marriage that scares me that I haven't discussed with Jake.
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Nice. Good answer, good answer.
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Okay, for you Jake. This is from Marviey.
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Daddy Art or Mommy Beth?
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They're my parents, guys. So my dad or my mom, who will you choose?
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- I don't like questions that make you choose. It's like.. *laughs* - Looks like someone here's going to drink again.
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I like both of them. I love both of them, of course.
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Since of course I love you.
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Joke. *laughs* It's like... I don't know. I don't want to choose so I'm just going to drink.
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I only have 2 juices that I haven't drank yet so just choose from that.
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It's unfair 'cause one of those is your favorite, orange juice. So I choose the other one.
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I actually feel awkward with the taste of the cucumber juice.
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Cucumber? Yeah.
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I don't think I'd like that too.
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Am I supposed to chug all of this down?
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- One whole drink? - Chug. Chug. Chug.
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- One glass? - Chug. Chug. Chug.
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Next question.
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Ohh, okay. This is from Nrizza Navarro
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What do you think is the thing that can separate the two of you?
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I feel like we both know the answer.
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I can answer this truthfully.
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Um, so... cheating.
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That's really it.
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Ever since. We could go back to April 2016 or even before that..
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2015 or what. Since we started talking.
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We both said that if we cheated on each other even once, it's a bye bye.
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As in, bye. No matter how long we've been together or what kind of level the cheating was.
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Once is enough for us.
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That's really it. That's always what we say.
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So as long as no one's going to cheat, then we'll stay forever.
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We really were so clear guys because
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I feel like.. one of my favorite parts of my relationship with Jake is that
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I'm sorry if this is all about relationship stuff, but well it is our anniversary anyway so *laughs*
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I'm sorry if it's too cheesy.
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But yeah. We have always been so clear and upfront
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to each other. We say what we feel, we say what we think will help the relationship.
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So, yeah. Thank God that even if we're in a long distance relationship, there's nothing.
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- That you're aware of... - Right?
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- Joke! Just kidding. Just kidding. - I might not have known and you might've been just playing me here.
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Of course not.
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So if I asked you, this isn't counted, but if you were asked this..
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- ...would that also be your answer? - Yeah, same answer.
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It's the same for me.
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Yeah, it'll be the same.
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Okay, this is for you, Jake.
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Did you two almost break up? If yes, why?
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This is from Mariel.
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- Hm.. - You're really thinking about this
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I feel like breaking up isn't in our options anymore.
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We had that fight in the 1st year of our relationship.
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Then, we just started LDR. We said some things that...
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- ...we shouldn't have said to each other. - It's like.. yeah, we got carried away by anger.
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- And yeah, we were really adjusting at the time. - It hurt both of us.
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It was like our 1st or 2nd month doing LDR.
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So it was really a big adjustment.
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So yeah. We were on a 'cool off' period for a day but after that we started talking again *laughs*
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That was that and it never happened again.
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Okay, next.
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This is for me.
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Wow. From Karl.
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Okay, this would probably be the last question I'm answering guys.
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When will we end our long-distance status? Name the how and when?
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Hmm. I feel like it'll end when we get married. *laughs*
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That's really it.
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We don't have plans to live-in since that's a big no no no no no to both of our families.
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So yeah, when we get married. And that's the how.
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When is... couple of years.
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We're not gonna say the exact year, but there is a year already.
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We've been talking about it and we're planning it with both families
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and some of our close friends know about this already.
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In a few years definitely.
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Okay, Jake.
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Last question!
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Okay. Last question, let's go.
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- Okay bebe *laughs* - Do we still have a game for this?
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- This is nice. And yes we do. - Okay, go.
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Okay. From Jaira.
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Jaira's questions are so unique. It gets all of the skeletons out of the closet.
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Joke, just kidding! *laughs*
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Okay. Have you ever lied to your parents just to sneak out?
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That's an easy question to answer. Of course.
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My parent's aren't that strict, but they're protective of me and my sister.
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- Jake and I both have strict parents. - We're not.. yeah, we both do.
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- So we understand each other. - But of course, your parents' strictness is on another level since you're a woman.
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My parents are still protective of me, especially my mother.
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In college, of course there were many times when I said that.. *laughs*
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- Studying.. - ...we're just eating. I didn't say that I was studying or anything *laughs*
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- Your lie isn't that bad. - Yeah, we don't say that.
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But the lies are just 'eating with friends' and 'i'm going to be home late'
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My friends knew about that in college, especially since college for us were in the evenings.
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So yeah. Like if we eat out.
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As for sneaking out.. wait a minute, she said 'sneak out'?
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- Sneak out. Like you really went out of the house. - Like really sneaking out of the house..
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- Yeah. She meant that I think. - Okay.
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Then no, I didn't sneak out ever.
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Because my parents are just light sleepers so they'll hear me if..
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.. I open the gate and it makes a sound. Yeah, so not yet.
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Good answer.
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- Anyways. - I feel like tita and tito and my parents are proud of us. Hopefully. *laughs*
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Of our answers and such.
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- Hopefully. - We told our friends to really make their questions okay.
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I feel like we answered most of the questions. There's only a few left.
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But of course, we wanted to thank our close friends for sending us all their questions.
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And actually it was just a one day notice. They sent it to us really quickly.
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They're very game. And we are really grateful
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That's it guys. So of course, just leave your comments down below
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We also wanted to hear your thoughts.
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Which part made you guys happy because of what we said?
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Was something irritating? Or were you hopefully inspired by our answers about our relationship?
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So that is it, guys. Thank you so much for watching!
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We hope you did enjoy this. If you did like this video, please don't forget to give us a big thumbs up.
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That is it guys. Thank you so much for watching!
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Once again, my name is Alyssa
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my name is Jake..
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and we will see you guys in the next one.
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- Bye! - Bye!
