1 00:00:00,00 --> 00:00:05,400 welcome to "Love Guru" channel and I'm your relationship coach love guru 2 00:00:05,500 --> 00:00:10,300 how to convince paranets for love? 3 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:15,200 3 days before a phone consultation client talked with me saying, "me and my lover has relationship for 7 years" 4 00:00:15,300 --> 00:00:20,100 "we had no issues in our love and he will never live without me" 5 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:25,000 " I can't imagine a life without him," 6 00:00:25,100 --> 00:00:29,900 "We deeply love each other, but we're from different caste" 7 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:34,800 "my family won't accept other caste boys and" 8 00:00:34,900 --> 00:00:39,700 "I'm at marriage age and they're searching a groom for me" 9 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:44,600 "so can you help me to convince my parents?" 10 00:00:44,900 --> 00:00:49,900 so guys this is today's topic 11 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:54,200 how to make parrents to accept your love? 12 00:00:54,300 --> 00:00:59,100 my friend have passion in dance and it's his career now 13 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:04,000 his age is 27, his parents will call him at daily night and 14 00:01:04,100 --> 00:01:08,000 will tell "baby, you have good talent," 15 00:01:08,100 --> 00:01:12,900 "you studiesd and worked very well and if you try government job exams, you'll crack easily" 16 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:17,800 "otherwise join in IT for your core degree" 17 00:01:17,900 --> 00:01:22,700 "or you can join in a IT job at abroad arranged by your father" 18 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:27,600 "salary is 3 lakhs and try to settle with that" 19 00:01:27,700 --> 00:01:31,400 his family is a middle class family 20 00:01:31,500 --> 00:01:36,300 he wanted to become a legend in dance, that will take 5 years more 21 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:41,200 already he is working for 5 years so totally 10 years 22 00:01:41,300 --> 00:01:44,500 but after 10 years 23 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:49,400 he'll be a legend at dance and 24 00:01:49,500 --> 00:01:54,300 that will make him happy, he will explain those things to his parents for 2 hours 25 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:59,200 he will reply like this daily and their parents will hang the phone, but 26 00:01:59,300 --> 00:02:04,100 it's a joke like you should return to home at night even if you have night shift 27 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:09,000 they will talk like this again in the next day 28 00:02:09,100 --> 00:02:13,900 they will try to convince him again with those jobs 29 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:18,800 this will happen at everyday night 30 00:02:18,900 --> 00:02:23,700 they're trying this for the last 3 years 31 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:28,600 their parents won't get convinced from him, just clear guys 32 00:02:28,700 --> 00:02:33,500 it's very hard to convince them 33 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:38,400 one can easily make a person to fall in love with them via psychology 34 00:02:38,500 --> 00:02:43,300 because, all girls and boys since childhood are 35 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:48,200 99% have the idea to love, due to that thinking 36 00:02:48,300 --> 00:02:53,100 we're thinking about love after we grew older 37 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:58,000 so all boys and girls will have this love as their goal 38 00:02:58,100 --> 00:03:02,900 please be clear that, they're already have a idea to love 39 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:07,800 if you slightly trigger them with psychology they'll love you 40 00:03:07,900 --> 00:03:11,300 for example, if you're at a bus stand, 41 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:16,200 if you want to tarvel to the city of love 42 00:03:16,300 --> 00:03:21,100 and I'm stopping the bus called psychology, and you'll easily climb in that bus 43 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:26,000 to reach the city of love, that's all very simple 44 00:03:26,100 --> 00:03:30,900 but parents is nothing like that, for 25 years 45 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:35,800 they'll think "you should work in IT at the salary of 1 lakhs" 46 00:03:35,900 --> 00:03:40,700 "my son will become collector, I'll get a groom for my daughter who is earning 1 lakh per month" 47 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:48,900 and I want a doctor groom,I want groom from my caste only for my girl" 48 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:53,800 they'll have this things in their mind for 25 years 49 00:03:53,900 --> 00:04:00,700 after 25 years, if you tell those parants that " my lover is not earning 1 lakh" 50 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:05,600 " he is earning 10K only, he is not a doctor" 51 00:04:05,700 --> 00:04:10,500 "he is a dipolomo holder, my lover is not our caste" 52 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:17,600 if you tell like this, you'll break their dreams in their mind 53 00:04:17,700 --> 00:04:22,500 does anyone allow these things 54 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:27,400 they'll never allow this, just listen 55 00:04:27,500 --> 00:04:32,300 you can't reduce the belly devoloped in 1 year in one day 56 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:37,200 it's such hard thing for an one year belly, so for 25 years 57 00:04:37,300 --> 00:04:42,100 your parents have dreams about your marriage, and how you can change that in a single day 58 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:47,000 this will never happen, 59 00:04:47,100 --> 00:04:51,900 you can't change their 25 year old belief for a new one 60 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:56,800 how will they change?, it's very hard, just listen guys 61 00:04:56,900 --> 00:05:01,700 the psychology used in between a boy and girl 62 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:06,600 is based on their interest to love, so small level of psychology is enough 63 00:05:06,700 --> 00:05:11,500 because they have that idea already 64 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:16,400 but, parents is not like that, we wont need the shit called love 65 00:05:16,500 --> 00:05:21,300 they're very strict about arranged marriage 66 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:26,200 and using psychology in this opposite mindset is very hard 67 00:05:26,300 --> 00:05:31,100 so does it mean we can't convince them for love marriage?, we can 68 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:36,000 you have 2 choice, 1st one is 69 00:05:36,100 --> 00:05:40,900 if you try them to convince them immediately for your love 70 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:45,800 that will never happen, for example 71 00:05:45,900 --> 00:05:50,700 you can't destroy the dream palace built for 25 years in their mind 72 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:55,600 if you tried to convince them within 6 months 73 00:05:55,700 --> 00:06:00,500 that will mostly ends up in negative result 74 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:05,400 they will never accept your love, otherwise 75 00:06:05,500 --> 00:06:10,300 you can have this convincing thing as a long term goal, it's a good choice 76 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:15,200 you need to remove the each stone fro their dream palace of "arranged marriage" 77 00:06:15,300 --> 00:06:20,100 then place the stones of your love in that place 78 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:25,000 then slowly build with psychology 79 00:06:25,100 --> 00:06:29,900 then they'll accept in 3-4 years 80 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:34,800 so you can get a good result in 3 years 81 00:06:34,900 --> 00:06:39,700 so never try this thing as a short term goal 82 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:44,600 you will only get results if you have this as your long term goal 83 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:49,500 we'll see about psychological techniques used in long term methods in the next video 84 00:06:51,700 --> 00:06:58,900 if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex 85 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,800 we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones 86 00:07:01,900 --> 00:07:06,700 by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services 87 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:11,600 if you want that services, use the link in the description to book 88 00:07:11,700 --> 00:07:16,500 we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back 89 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,600 and we're giving 100% assurance for that 90 00:07:19,700 --> 00:07:24,500 if you want to follow us on Insta and FB, use the links below to follow, Thanks for watching! 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